If your boyfriend wants you to block your ex or stop talking to him in any way then he is insecure. More reasons will be shared in this article.
Anyway, there might be so many reasons why your boyfriend wants you to block your ex.
In this article, I’m going to share with you the reasons why your boyfriend wants you to block your ex.
These are the reasons why your boyfriend wants you to block your ex;
1. Your boyfriend wants you to block your ex because he is insecure.
When your boyfriend wants you to block your ex the first thing that will come to your mind is insecurity and jealousy. If your boyfriend is insecure, he will never be comfortable seeing you communicating with your ex.
He thinks that if you keep communicating with your ex you might end up being interested in him again.
The fear of losing you to your ex is what makes him tell you to block your ex.
This will be more intense to him when he feels that your ex was much better than he is currently.
The insecurity combined with jealousy will make him want you to cut off any connections with your ex.
2. Your boyfriend wants you to block your ex because he thinks you haven’t moved on from him.
The moment your boyfriend thinks that you haven’t moved on then he will want you to block your ex. He wants you to block your ex so that you can move on easily.
He wants you to do that because it will also make it easier for him to handle you passionately.
It will be very hard for your boyfriend to love you passionately if you keep talking about your ex.
This will be harder for him especially when you talk good about him and praise him for the kind of a guy he was to you.
If he notices that you keep on bringing the past about your ex then he knows that you haven’t moved on.
Anyway, moving on from the person you once loved with all you got can be a very hard thing.
You might be in a new relationship and still thinking of your old relationship. If you want to move on easily then this is an article you should read.
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So, when your boyfriend notices that you have difficulties in moving on he will want you to block your ex and let everything about him go.
3. Your boyfriend wants you to block your ex because he doesn’t want you to get in touch with him.
The other obvious reason why your boyfriend wants you to block your ex is for you to stop getting in touch with him.
If your boyfriend is not comfortable with you chatting with your ex then he will tell you to block him.
This conveys jealousy, but a little bit of jealousy in a relationship is what makes the relationship spicy.
It also shows that he loves and cares about the success of your relationship.
Otherwise, if he didn’t care about you or the relationship then h wouldn’t have been so concerned about you chatting with your ex.
Anyway, why should you communicate with your ex? You are in a new relationship, forget about the old one and invest your time and energy in the current relationship.
I’m sure if it was him (Your boyfriend) chatting with your ex you wouldn’t be comfortable at all.
4. Your boyfriend is testing you to see if you can make relevant decisions for the relationship.
When a man gets in a relationship with you he will obviously want to know if you are ready to commit to that relationship.
A smart man will test you to see if you are truly ready for that relationship.
He might ask you to do things that add value to the relationship and see how you will react to them.
So, when he wants you to block your ex, it can also be that he is testing you to see if you will be able to make relevant decisions for the relationship. It might seem a small thing to you but it talks so much about you in that relationship.
He is trying to see if you can make decisions that might seem hard to you but favour the relationship that you are building.
A man who is confident enough and knows that you accepted him to be by your side will never be bothered by the fact that your ex’s number is unblocked in your phone.
He will only want you to do that so that he can see how you will react.
5. Your boyfriend wants you to block your ex because he still doesn’t trust you enough.
When your boyfriend wants you to block your ex at some point I can say he doesn’t fully trust you.
He doesn’t trust you to make the right decisions for the relationship.
If he had full trust in you then he wouldn’t have told you to block your ex.
First of all, what made him check your contact lists and see your ex’s contact unblocked in it.
Why would he dig in your contact list at all?
There is a part of him that doesn’t fully trust you that is why he is telling you to block your ex.
He thinks that you might be with him but at the same time, you are planning to get back to your ex.
This is especially if you still, talk to your ex.
Trust is very crucial for the survival of the relationship. If your relationship with him isn’t built on trust then it will collapse very soon.
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Should I block my ex-boyfriend?
If you want to move on easily from your past then you will have to let go of everything in your past.
When you are in a new relationship and you have nothing to do with your ex then it’s appropriate if you block him.
You should block your ex-boyfriend if you have nothing to do with him. If you have no kids with him why should you talk to him? So, block him, forget him and focus on building your new relationship. Blocking him will make it easier for you to move on.
When you have unavoidable circumstances (You have his kid then you shouldn’t block him because he will be contacting you to talk to his kid).
You broke up but it doesn’t mean he also broke up with the kid too. The kid needs both parents’ love. Get that in your mind.
Is it okay to block your ex when you are in a new relationship?
It’s okay to block your ex if you are in a new relationship. You don’t need anything from your ex so there is no need to be in touch with him/her. It is fine to block him/her because you will focus more on your new relationship and move on easily.
If your boyfriend wants you to block your ex then he cares about the relationship. He doesn’t want at any point you to end up messing up the relationship because of dramas from your ex.
So, it is not completely a bad thing if he wants you to do that. You should do it if there is nothing important to talk to your ex.
Take your time and focus on the new relationship, you are having with your current boyfriend.
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