When your boyfriend has been ignoring you for a while you need to teach him a lesson so that he regrets ignoring you.
The main reason why I’m saying that you have to make him regret doing it is to make sure he doesn’t end up doing it again.
If he has been ignoring you and he later comes back with a two thousand explanation as to why he has been doing that and you end up taking him in, then this won’t prevent him from ignoring you again.
You need to teach him a lesson so that next time when he thinks of ignoring you he will really think it through.
You did not enter the relationship with him so that you be treated like a kid. An apology alone can’t work for him ignoring you.
This is especially if it has been a trend for him.
Make him pay for what he did, if he really loves you he will think it through.
You can make him regret ignoring you by doing the following things;
1. Pull away to make him suffer for a while.
You have to pull away from him especially if this has been a habit. If he keeps ignoring constantly and coming back with excuses and false explanations and you let him in he will keep doing that.
Pull away from him, be distant from him for a while. Don’t play it cool with him no matter how much you love him.
This might be hard for you but you will realize that it’s the best decision you will ever make.
If he is smart enough he will realize that what he did really hurts you that is why you are acting that way.
Deep down he will start regretting doing the things he used to do to you.
This will in turn make him feel guilty for all the things he did to you.
If you do this for a couple of days then he will eventually come to you with a sincere explanation that is filled with regrets.
2. Be too independent: Don’t ask for any help from him.
This is something else that will make him regret ignoring you. Being too independent sometimes can make a person be so left out.
The moment you do everything by yourself without asking for help from him he will start to feel that he is left out.
When someone is left out and he feels that he has no use to you this is punishment enough for him.
When you are used to someone asking you for your help and advice and he/she ends up not asking it anymore this will raise questions and an internal disturbance.
Do everything on your own. Don’t ask him for any help. When you do this for a while he will think it through.
He has been ignoring you, wanting nothing to do with you, so you got used to doing things on your own.
If he is smart enough he will know that he is the cause of all that is happening.
This will eventually make him regret doing it. If he doesn’t get why you are being too independent then tell him straight to his face,
“You left me alone by ignoring me and I got used to being useful to myself.”
This is sentence is worthy to make him regret the things he did to you. You asked how to make him regret ignoring you? Then this is the way.
3. Ignore him for one week; just like the way he did.
If he ignored you for three weeks don’t ignore him for three weeks too.
You have to know that you want to make him regret not to make him walk away from you.
If you will ignore him for three weeks the way he has been avoiding you then he will end up thinking that you don’t need his presence.
When a person has been ignoring you for a while and he suddenly comes back to you this shows that he missed you and he feels sorry for doing what he did.
So, when he misses you and you end up ignoring him the same way he did then he will realize that you have moved on from him.
Ignore him for a week so that he can feel the pain of being ignored, To him, this will be much because he has the urge to have you around yet he can’t get what he wants.
This is enough to make him regret ignoring you. Next time before he intends of ignoring you again he will think twice before doing it.
You have to remember you are doing this to make things better in your relationship. Not to push him away further and ruin the relationship.
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4. Don’t romance or get intimate with him for a week.
He has been ignoring you for a while. What do you think made him come back to you?
He definitely misses you, so don’t give him what he wants for a week. Don’t get tempted by his charms. Let him know that you are completely mad about the things that he did to you.
If you want you can openly tell him that you don’t want to romance or get intimate with him because he ignored you.
You can even exaggerate that you got used to being alone now.
This will not be an easy thing for him especially if he is the kind of guy who loves you so much.
If he has been ignoring you and he comes back suddenly and you give him what he wants he will end up thinking you are okay with his behaviours.
Do this to make him see that you aren’t happy with how he handles things in that relationship.
This is enough to make him humble himself before you and apologize for the things he did.
This is because he will realize that he is the problem in the relationship. But if you are the reason for him ignoring you then you are the problem.
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He will regret ignoring you.
5. Don’t be sweet to him as you used to be for a while.
If he has been ignoring you and then he ends up coming back to you there is no need to act sweet to him.
No sweet words, no sweet treatment—act like a total freak bitch before him. Pretend you don’t care and give a damn about him.
It will be obvious to him to notice that you are acting that way because he has been ignoring you for a while.
This will start to make him regret ignoring you.
If this goes on for a while he will eventually ask you what you want. He will come up with a way to resolve the issue.
Make it open to him, let him know that you are acting that way because he has been ignoring you.
He will regret ignoring you and he will come up with a good way to make it up to you.
This will eventually make things better between the two of you.
If you want to make him regret ignoring you because of how bad you felt when he did it then this doesn’t make you a bad person.
You are a human too, it’s okay to feel the pain and anger. I do understand that being ignored by the person you love can inflict so much pain on anyone.
Before you think of making him regret ignoring you ask yourself first, is it his habit or it’s something that has only happened once?
If it’s something that only happened once then make a point of having a conversation with him and get to know what is going on.
He might be going through hell, so try to understand him and be in his shoes. Let him open up to you.
But if this has been his behaviour then this simply tells you that it’s something that he is used to doing it.
If this is the case then go ahead and make him pay and regret doing it. This will make him stop ignoring you intentionally.
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