Is your boyfriend ignoring you? You Don’t know what to do? I have a solution in this article. Stick with me until the end.
Being ignored by someone you love is so painful.
I hate being ignored. It hurts so much when someone ignores you.
I know you might be probably feeling the same way.
I will start by telling you that your boyfriend will not ignore you without any reason.
If he is ignoring something is going on.
So before I go directly to giving you an idea of what to do if he is ignoring you let me start by sharing with you some of the reasons why he may be ignoring you.
These are some of the reasons why your boyfriend is ignoring;
- He may be ignoring you because you annoyed him.
- He may be ignoring you because he wants nothing to do with you.
- He may be ignoring you because he doesn’t feel like talking to you.
- He may be ignoring you because he is busy with someone else.
- He may be ignoring you because he is searching for a way to cut you off.
- He may be ignoring you because you may be too much to him.
- He may be ignoring you because you once ignored him.
- He may be ignoring you because his interest in you starts to decline.
So, if your boyfriend is ignoring you start to think of something that might have made him do that.
As you think of what might have made her start to ignore you let me continue sharing what I know.
My boyfriend hasn’t talked to me in a week after a fight.
If you had a fight with your boyfriend and he hasn’t talked to you in a week then know that he is was pretty annoyed.
In most cases, if people have a fight it won’t take even more than three days they will start talking to each other.
So, if your boyfriend hasn’t talked to you in a week after a fight then know he is angry with you and this is the main reason he is still ignoring you. It can also be that he feels like you are the cause of that fight.
If he thinks you are the one who initiated that fight so that you can push him away then he will not talk to you.
He will keep on ignoring you until when you will humble yourself to him and apologize for the things you did to him.
If it’s not that then he will keep on ignoring you for even 2 weeks.
You don’t have to worry so much about that. A couple does fight in a relationship but this doesn’t mean their relationship is over.
This is one of the challenges that you will come across in your relationship.
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We are human beings and our emotions are what is driving us.
So, if he’s angry because of the fight you had then he will ignore you until his temper cools downs.
My boyfriend has ignored me for 4 days.
If your boyfriend has ignored you for 4 days and you think he will still continue to do it then think of something to do.
Think of doing something that will make him stop ignoring you.
This is because if he has ignored you for 4 days then there is a possibility he will continue to do that.
Some couples ignore each other for even a month. He just took days ignoring you don’t give up.
If you think 4 days of being ignored are many then ask yourself what about those who are ignored for months.
Anyway, he isn’t supposed to be ignoring you because you never signed for that when you entered the relationship.
My boyfriend ignoring me but won’t break up with me.
If your boyfriend is ignoring you but won’t break up with you then this means he still cares for you and he still needs you in his life that is why he still keeps you around.
He may be ignoring you, but still keeping you around because he wants to figure things out and he will come back to you.
You have to understand that it’s doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore when he ignores you.
We all have our issues. So, understand your boyfriend before judging him for ignoring you.
There are some things your boyfriend will never share with you even if he loves you that much.
He might have thought he should handle the issues he is having alone without including you.
This might be a reason enough for him to ignore you.
My boyfriend is ignoring me what should I do.
If your boyfriend is ignoring you, you shouldn’t solve it by ignoring him too if you want to save your relationship. Instead, find a way of making him not ignore you.
So, what are these things that will stop him from ignoring you?
This is what to do if your boyfriend is ignoring you;
1. Start by finding why he is ignoring you.
You won’t be able to solve this problem in your relationship if you won’t start from this point.
Finding the cause of him ignoring you will make it easier for you to figure out what you will do to make him stop ignoring you.
You can start finding the reasons why he is ignoring you by thinking of the activities that you did with him recently.
Think of what might have made him ignore you.
If you had a fight then this might be the reason why he is ignoring you.
Talking to him obviously will be hard for you if he is ignoring you.
Though, if you manage to have a chance to talk to him then ask him why he is ignoring you.
He might end up telling you why he is doing so.
With this, you will have a clear idea of what to do without wasting so much time guessing what will make it right.
2. Resolve any misunderstandings that you have in your relationship.
This is the next thing you can do if your boyfriend is ignoring you.
After you have found the reason why he is ignoring you then start fixing the things you broke.
Make everything right. If it’s to apologise for bringing up a fight then make a point of doing so.
If there was any issue left hanging between the two of you then sit down and resolve the issue.
Be humble, and admit the mistakes you did and make things right. Even if it’s to put the blame on yourself for screwing up then do it.
If you want to save your relationship from falling apart then you will have no choice.
It can also be that you had a misunderstanding concerning some of the decisions that you made, let him handle them if that will make him stop ignoring you.
3. Spend time with him even if he won’t talk to you.
You got to do this if you want him to stop ignoring you.
Make an effort of spending time with him frequently even if he is ignoring you.
The truth is that if he chose to ignore you and you also decided to do the same then you will end up breaking the relationship.
This is because if he pulls away and you do too there will be nothing left to fight for.
One person has to make an effort of coming forward. In this case, it will be you.
Spend time with him, it will eventually click in his mind that you care so much about him and that is why even if he is angry with you, you still hand around him.
This might make him stop ignoring you and make the relationship fun again.
4. Tell him the truth that, ignoring you he will push you away too.
Now, that you have decided to spend time with him, talk some sense into him.
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind about what he is currently doing to you.
Tell him how ignoring you will push you away.
Don’t make it a threat.
You can say, “You keep ignoring me, pushing me away from you, it hurts me. It hurts more but there is time this pain will fade and I’ll be used to stay away from you, and you would have wrecked what we have,”
If he is smart he will think about these words and he will stop ignoring you. This is if he really cares about you.
5. Make him jealous: by spending hanging out with other people.
This is another thing that you can do to stop your boyfriend from ignoring you.
If he has chosen not to spend time with you and he keeps on pushing you away then make a day and pretend like you don’t give a damn about him.
Make a point of spending time the other people and having fun with them.
Don’t sit down and wait for him to get back to you.
The moment he starts to see your vibe all high, taking selfies with other people, having fun then he will get jealous.
He will think that you might end up going with someone else.
This will make him stop ignoring you and give you full attention.
If he really cares he won’t let you hang out with other people.
6. Cut off the communication with him for a while.
I know you may be thinking this is an awkward move.
You may ask yourself, “why should I cut off communication with him if he is ignoring me? I should even increase the rate.”
If he is ignoring you and you keep on texting him, calling him and even going to his apartment this might make him continue doing it.
Try a different approach. Cut off all the communications and don’t even go to his apartment anymore if you used to.
Block him in all social media accounts. The moment he notices that you no longer text him, call or go to his apartment he will have so many questions.
His curiosity will make him have attention in you again. This will eventually stop him from ignoring you.
He will have to meet you and ask you why you blocked him and you no longer go to his apartment.
This will eventually make him stop ignoring you.
7. Give him the time he will come around if he still loves you.
You have to give him space if he ignores you.
He truly knows that he has you and he has to be committed to you.
Sometimes people need space to rethink and reevaluate what matters to them.
So, give him time to think of what matters to him, the importance of that relationship between the two of you and he will eventually come around if he still loves you.
Give him space and focus on what matters to you. If there is a single part within him that cares about you then he will come for you.
If your boyfriend loves you no matter how long he may ignore you he will still come back to you.
He might be that person who has moods swings. So, you have to be patient with him.
When you have tried everything you can to make him stop ignoring you and he continues to do so, then this shows he doesn’t love you.
No need to hurt yourself, degrade yourself to get his attention. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. If he has started doing this he might even continue doing it future.
Walk away from him, you will eventually find someone who will be ready to give you his full attention.
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