8 Signs She Is Using You For Attention

In this article, I will share with you the signs to check to know if she is using you for attention.

 

When a girl is using you for the attention it’s very different from loving you.

 

A girl who is using you for attention will only be around you for herself and not for you.

 

Everything that will happen when she is around you will always be about herself.

 

The clothes she will wear, the things she will ask you to do, the conversation she will make with you, and the things that she will ask of you will all be about her.

 

You might end up thinking that she is into you but in a real sense, she is only around you because she wants your attention.

 

She wants your attention when no one else is giving it to her, when she is lonely and she wants validation from you.

 

I will share with you these signs so that when you come across them from the girl you are in love with you will be able to distinguish them.

 

Signs she is using you for attention

1. She is only around you when she is lonely.

This is the first sign you will come across when a girl is using you for attention.

 

The only thing she wants from you is your attention and nothing else. This means she will only be around you when it’s beneficial to her or when she is desperate enough.

 

A girl who uses you for attention is well aware that you have feelings for her.

 

In most cases, she will use you for attention when she doesn’t feel the same for you but you keep fighting harder to keep her around.

 

Instead of her pushing you away, she will just decide to use you for attention, to make herself feel good, and waste your time.

 

So, when a girl is around only when she is lonely and she immediately leaves you when finds other people to hang out with then know that she is using you for attention.

 

She comes to you when she is lonely knowing that you can give her the best time she needs.

 

Being around you will drive her loneliness away.

 

She knows that you will do anything to entertain her and make her feel valued when no one else is around her.

 

So, if the girl you are into is always around you when she has nowhere else to go but leaves you immediately she gets someone to spend time with then this should tell you that she is using you for attention.

 

She doesn’t love you at all, the only thing she wants from you is attention.

 

Don’t lie to yourself that she has feelings for you and that is why she is around you.

 

The only thing she wants from you is attention. If you notice that the only time she is around you is when her friends are not there for her, she has nowhere else to be and she is lonely then know that she is using you.

 

She wants your attention when no one else can give it to her.

 

2. She only calls or texts you when she is down.

This is another sign you will come across when she is using you for attention.

 

This woman will not get in touch with you when she is happy and things are going the way she expects.

 

She will only get in touch with you when she has issues to deal with.

 

For instance, she will get in touch with you when her day went bad and she wants you to keep talking to her and entertain her.

 

She will get in touch with you when she wants you to advise her on certain issues that she wants to do or maybe she did them wrong.

 

This girl will text you when she has so many issues that she needs you to help her work them out.

 

There is no day she will text or call you just to say that she was just checking on you and that she wants to talk to you.

 

The moment you will get her text or call it will all be about her and nothing else.

 

Since she knows that you are interested in her she will use you as her shrink but the moment she has gotten what she wants from you she will cut off the communication.

 

She will not call or text the next day after that until when she feels down again and she wants you to help her out on that.

 

If this is something you come across from this girl then know that she is using you for attention.

 

She is not texting or calling you since she misses you and she just wants to have a good time talking to you, she only does that because she wants you to give her attention.

 

The attention she wants from you is what will help her get rid of the problems she has.

 

And the only person she knows who can give her that attention is the guy who is insanely in love with her.

 

If this is a sign you have come across from the girl you are trying to win then know that she is using you for attention.

 

She doesn’t love you at all and you should think of walking away from her.

 

3. She forgets about you when she hangs out with other people.

This is another sign that you will come across from a girl who is using you for attention.

 

She will forget about you when she is busy with other people. When she has no deal with other people she will be around you as I pointed out in the first section of this article.

 

But when she has so many people at her disposal she will do everything to be present for them but she will keep you aside.

 

For instance, if you were with her at a certain event and she comes across other people she knows she will ditch you and hang out with them.

 

She will not dare to ask you to hang out with her and those people.

 

The only thing she will tell you is that she will meet you later, but that later will be the next time when she is all alone.

 

As she is hanging out with other people she will never call or text you and she will forget that you exist.

 

She will be busy with other people and forget that you were the only person who was there for her when those people weren’t around.

 

So, if this is a sign you come across from the girl you are interested in then know that she is surely using you for attention.

 

She is only around you when no one that matters is around. This shows that she doesn’t value you as a person.

 

The only thing she cares about is the company and attention you give her when there is no one else to give it to her.

 

When you come across this sign then you should avoid her simply because she is using you for attention and if you think you will win her then you are surely wasting your time.

 

4. She talks about herself when she is around you.

This is another sign you will come across when a girl is using you for attention.

 

She wants attention and not you, the only thing she will do is get it from you.

 

This girl will use what you feel for her to get your attention when she wants to.

 

If this girl talks about herself whenever she is around you and she doesn’t care about what you feel or what you want to say to her then know that she is using you for attention.

 

Such kinds of girls will always tell you about what they care about and they will want you to pay attention.

 

They will talk about what makes them feel the way they feel expecting you to listen to them but they will never bother giving you a chance to talk about what you feel.

 

Everything that they will do and talk about when they are around you is about them.

 

So, if this is something you often come across from the girl that you think is interested in you then you are wrong.

 

She is using you for attention.

 

The only reason she is around you is that you can give her the attention she wants.

 

You are the person who can listen to what she has to say, you give her the attention she wants to get rid of what she carries in her chest.

 

She doesn’t care about what you feel, she doesn’t care what you want to talk about the only thing she cares about is for you to listen to her and give her the validation she wants.

 

A girl who cares about you and is genuine, when she is around you she will not make everything about herself.

 

She will rarely talk about herself unless there is a need for it. The only thing she will be striving for is to get to understand the kind of person you are so that she can know how to handle you best.

 

This girl will encourage you to talk more about yourself and open up to her. She will be willing to hear all your troubles.

 

But if this girl you are into is always talking about herself when she is around you, she keeps asking you how you perceive her, and she walks away without even asking you about what you feel or what you want to talk about then know that she is using you for attention.

 

5. She pulls away when you make a romantic move on her yet she acts interested in you.

A girl who is using you for attention will want to keep it going that way.

 

She will not want you to change things between the two of you.

 

Changing how things are between the two of you will deprive her of the attention she gets from you.

 

Her main aim is to keep you around and use you for attention and not to turn things around the way you expect.

 

So, she will always do her best to prevent you from turning things around.

 

Let me talk about it deeply so that you can understand how this thing goes.

 

A girl who is using you for attention is aware that you have feelings for her.

 

This girl knows that you can give her the attention she wants simply because she knows you are interested in her.

 

By using you for the attention it will make you think that she is giving in and you will keep putting more effort to pull her to your side.

 

You will end up thinking that she is heading on the tracks that you set for her but she is the one dragging you to her lane.

 

If you are interested in her and you try to make romantic moves on her simply because you see the positive signals from her and she pulls away from you then know that she is using you for attention.

 

A girl who is interested in you and is sending you positive signals will always get closer to you when you make romantic moves.

 

When you try to hold her hands she will let you do it simply because that is what she wants you to do.

 

She will let you touch her hair simply because she wishes you to keep on and caress her neck.

 

But if she acts interested in you and when you make the romantic move she pulls away immediately; know that she is using you for attention.

 

She knows that acting interested in you will make you give her more attention and that is what she wants from you.

 

There is nothing else that matters to her than the attention she wants from you.

 

Think about it, and tell me she is not using you for attention.

 

If you find that what I’m talking about is true then you should think of cutting her off because you are never going to win her.

 

She will only waste your time and money.

 

6. She pretends to like you when her friends are around her.

This is one of the common signs you will come across when a woman is using you for attention.

 

Do you know the main reason for her acting as if she likes you when her friends are around?

 

She knows that when she acts as if she likes you when her friends are around you will give her the attention she wants.

 

You will treat her nicely and you will want to show her friends that she got the best dude.

 

This will make you do anything for her when her friends are around since it’s a positive signal.

 

We all know that when a girl introduces you to her friends it means a lot and you will want to get the best out of that.

 

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She knows that when her friends are around you will give her the validation she wants and more attention.

 

And that is why she acts as if she likes you when her friends are around.

 

All the attention you will give her will make her friends feel like she is one of the coolest people since she has a guy who treats her nicely and gives her the attention she wants.

 

This is using you for attention, don’t think even for a second that she likes you at all.

 

When her friends are gone, she will distance herself from you and she will not even let you hold her hands.

 

If this is something you have across from the girl you think is interested in you then know that she is using you for attention.

 

Your attention is the only thing she wants when there is a spotlight on her.

 

So, if I were you and this is what I come across I would have walked away from her a long time ago.

 

There is no need for you to be so clingy to her simply because she is attractive and you think she is the right person for you.

 

You are wasting your time, she doesn’t love you and the only thing she is doing is using you for attention.

 

7. She uses you as her spotlight and ditches you when she has no use for you.

This point is kinda similar to what I talked about in the above section.

 

She will use you for her spotlight and ditch you when has no use for you.

 

If you think about all the situations that I talked about in this article they all relate to this.

 

You will find that she will do everything she can to get the most out of you and then, later on, ditch you when she has no use for you.

 

If you have noticed that she is the kind of person who only needs you when there is something she wants from you and after that she no longer wants anything to do with you then know that she is using you for attention.

 

After getting your attention she ditches you since there is nothing else she wants from you.

 

So, if this girl has been there for you when she needs something from you and after that, you don’t see her around then this should let you know that she is using you for attention.

 

You don’t have to think so hard about it, if she is not there when you need her and she is there when she needs you this shows that she is using you for attention.

 

When she is using you for the attention she will do things to make it feel like you benefit from what she does.

 

She will make it feel like you are the one winning and she is losing it all to you.

 

This is all to convince you that she is into you so that you can keep on giving her the attention she wants.

 

If this is something you come across from her and she claims that she is interested in you then know that she is lying to you.

 

She is lying to you to keep using you for attention and you should not fall for it.

 

8. She is not straightforward with what she wants from you.

If you want to know that she is using you for attention this is a sign you will come across.

 

She will not be straightforward with what she wants from you but she will always be around you.

 

This girl will not make it sure to you that she wants to be with you or not.

 

She will just send you mixed signals to make you keep guessing around and make you give her more attention to find out what she wants.

 

As a man, you will want to know if she is into you or not and this is what will drive you to give her the attention she wants.

 

So, when a girl is not straightforward with what she wants from you and she keeps doing things to drive you to give her attention this is a sign that she is using you for attention.

 

The things you will do to show her that you are interested in her is what she exactly wants you to do.

 

She wants you to be on your toes trying to show her that you are interested in her so that you give her the attention she wants.

 

If in any case, you blame her later on for moving you around in circles she will tell you that she has never at any point made it clear that she is in love with you.

 

This is what she will use as her leverage when you get hard on her.

 

So, when a girl is not straightforward with what she wants from you and she seems interested in the things you do for her, know that she is using you for attention.

 

Lastly…

 

When you notice that she is using you for attention you should cut her off and not entertain her unless she gives you a reason to keep her around.

 

Don’t let her attractiveness trap you in her circle and keep on giving her the attention she wants.

 

There is nothing she can offer you other than stress and waste of your time and resources.

 

If a girl keeps on using you for things that she wants and later on ditches you that is not a girl you should keep fighting for her.

 

She is only using you for the spotlight and you will never get hold of her.

 

When a girl is interested in you she will never make things harder for you but give you a way of winning her.

 

She will do things to show you that you matter, she will skip events with her friends just to chill with you and make you feel special.

 

This girl will try everything to make you open up to her and she will never play games with you.

 

If you have noticed that she is using you for the attention you should stay away from her.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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