The way you will behave around a guy who rejected you will determine whether he will change his mind about you or not.
In this article, I will share with you how to behave around a guy who rejected you to make him regret rejecting you or even change his mind about you.
So, sit tight, something is amazing you are going to learn from this article.
If you want a guy to respect you, value you and even change his mind about you after rejecting you then the way you handle yourself before him, plays a big part.
Without wasting time, here is something you need to know.
How to act around a guy who rejected you;
1. Maintain your dignity around him.
If he rejected you there is no need for you to lower your dignity around him so that he gives you a chance.
The rejection he gave might make you feel worthless, you are not attractive and you need to show him that you are the right girl to be with him.
This kind of thought can make you think so hard about what you can do to change his mind after rejecting you.
It’s the same thing that might make you lower your dignity before him since you feel you are worthless.
If you let your gut down simply because he rejected you then you will be messing up with your dignity.
Hold on to the principles that you believe in, keep on maintaining your self-respect and don’t do anything to give him the benefit of doubt that you are struck badly with the rejection he gave you.
This is what will make him feel that rejecting you never took anything from you, it’s making you better.
Don’t do anything that will show him that you don’t value yourself and all the things you do are to please him.
This will show him that you are very desperate and he might even take advantage of you.
So, maintain your self-respect, keep on doing the things that make you the better version of yourself and don’t beg him to love you.
Maintain your principles even if you feel like changing your values will make him fall for you.
This is how you should act around a guy who rejected you.
2. Keep handling him the way you used to.
If you were so friendly with him then you should just continue handling him the same way you used to.
Keep being friends with him but don’t show him you still feel the same you used to feel for him.
The main reason why I’m saying you should handle him the same way you used to is to show him that you are affected by the rejection.
When you show him that you are doing great even after he rejected you this will make him question himself about what you feel for him.
He will be curious and he will want to know how you are doing after he said no to you.
This might make him feel guilty for rejecting you because you still care about him the same way you used to.
His rejection hasn’t kept you away from him in any way.
It might make him rethink what he said to you since he will eventually know that you truly care about him.
You never know, it can be that he rejected you just to test you and see if you truly mean what you feel for him.
But if you decide to distance yourself from him and act as if you hate him for rejecting you then you will be giving him the power.
This will let him know that his rejection affected you and you were so much into him.
You may think that this has nothing to do with how he feels about you, but this might be the reason that he will even delete you from his life.
He will make things harder for you even if he had a spark of feeling for you he will just erase it.
All this is just to see you suffer.
When you show him that you are not affected by the rejection by handling him the same way you used to, this will make him feel that his rejection was not a big deal to you.
This will lower his status before you though he is the one who rejected you.
The moment he feels that he is not that important to you, instead of you making effort to win him, he will keep on getting close to you.
This is how you act around a guy who rejected you, don’t make him feel that he is a hot cake.
3. Don’t show him that you are mad at him.
Don’t show him that you are mad at him for rejecting you, this will only make him take you for granted and a joke.
He will consider you to be childish and you have no idea of what love is all about.
If he rejected you then when you are around him don’t show him that you are furious about the decision he made.
Be the understanding girl, act like you understand why he rejected you and don’t show him hard feelings at all.
The moment he will notice that you are not mad at him for rejecting you he will feel that he wasn’t a big priority to you.
He wasn’t that important to you and your life can go on even without him being in it.
Most guys expect girls to be mad at them after they have rejected them.
Don’t give him the usual, be unique and handle yourself like you know what you want in your life.
Keep on initiating conversation with him, reply to his texts and keep the conversation between the two of you normal as if nothing happens.
This will make him have so many questions about how you feel. His curiosity will drive him closer to you and you will have a chance to draw him to yourself.
That if you still want him in your life.
4. Mind your business when you are around him.
He rejected you, this means he wants nothing to do with you.
There is no need for you to show him that you are so deep into him, even if he is someone you can’t stay a day without talking to, don’t show him that.
Avoid doing anything that will show him that you want his attention and time.
Mind your business when you are around him. This is how you should act around a guy who rejected you.
There is nothing you will lose by minding your business when you are around him.
He rejected you, remember that.
So, when you avoid doing things that will show him that you want his attention he will know that you want nothing to do with him.
This will make you have the power over him and he will be the one who will strive to get your attention.
When you keep on doing things to get his attention he will think you are so desperate for him.
This will keep on lowering your value to him since you are someone accessible.
Don’t make him feel he is someone very important in your life, keep doing things you care about without involving him.
This is what will make him feel that he is not part of your life anymore.
It will click in his mind that the moment you will get separated there is no way you will bother getting in touch with him.
So, don’t try to get his attention when you are around him, if you went around him to do something important, do it but don’t show him that you want his attention or validation.
This is what will make him feel that he has lost his value to you, he will lower himself before you and don’t be surprised when he texts you to check out on you.
5. Hang out and talk with other guys when he is around.
If you were the kind of girl who was always around him, you prioritize him and you did everything to show that you care about him then don’t do that anymore.
The moment you will keep being around him and only for him then you will be lowering your value towards him.
You know his friends, right? Hang out with them and just act cool.
Play video games with them and go on hikes with them. Don’t show him that you are lonely simply because he rejected you.
The moment you start hanging out with his friends and going out with them when he is around he will feel jealous.
He will only be jealous if he had a tiny interest in you. This might make him start pulling himself closer to you to relight the spark.
Also, when you hang out with other guys and have fun, he will feel that he will end up losing you to someone else.
That is if he rejected you but he had a thing for you.
Sometimes jealousy can make a guy find you more attractive and he might even follow you up.
When you give your time to another guy he will notice the things that he never noticed when you were around him.
This will make him want you for himself.
But if he doesn’t feel a thing for you this will never bother him. Keep doing it anyway, don’t show him that he was the only option in your life.
6. Keep building yourself to the better version of yourself.
If he rejected you it doesn’t mean that your life is over, you still have so much to do with your life.
It can be that he rejected you because of something about yourself that you can change by learning and evolving.
So, don’t give up hope of being a better person simply because he rejected you.
Hold on to the things that you wanted to achieve in your life even if he said no to you.
Keep building your life and be a better version of who you are. This is the only thing that might make him regret rejecting you.
Don’t let your gut down and stop fighting for the things you want in your life simply because he rejected you.
This won’t help you in any way, you will only be showing him that he is someone very important and he will keep on lowering your value.
Keep on improving yourself, get money, build your status and find someone else better.
They will come to you once you are someone who is always chasing greatness.
This is what I can tell you, never show a guy that he has your life at his palm simply because he rejected you.
Do things that will make him regret rejecting you in the first place, this is not a time for you to show your weaknesses.
This is how you should act around a guy who rejected you. Don’t show him that he has the power over you.
Keep being the same person you were and do things that will build you.
Don’t show him that you are so desperate for him. This will lower your dignity and he might end up taking advantage of you.
This is not something you want to come across.
If you act the way I have shared with you in this article, you will be able to make him change his mind about you.
But if he rejected you simply because he doesn’t feel the same for you he will give you the respect you deserve.
The moment you show a guy that he is very important to you even after rejecting you then he might end up making things harder for you.
If he was to give you a chance he will keep moving you in circles.
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