How To Ask Out A Girl You Barely Know Over Text

If you want to ask out a girl you barely know over the text then I got you covered. In this article, I will share with you several steps that you can use to ask out a girl you barely know over text.

 

It can be a girl you met online, a girl you met at an event and you exchanged numbers or a girl your friend gave you her number and you want to ask her out on a date.

 

Trust me, you are in the right place. I have done this so many times.

 

Anyway, I don’t want to say much about myself and let me share with you what you can do to ask her out even if you don’t know her.

 

If you met and exchanged numbers and you don’t know what to do then read the article below, it will give you a full insight on what you should do.

 

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So, without wasting time, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

This is how you can ask out a girl you barely know over text;

First step: Get to know her.

This is a girl you know nothing about. The first thing you have to do if you want to ask her out you will have to get to know her.

 

It’s almost impossible to ask a girl out you know nothing about without having a solid conversation with her.

 

If you think you can just text a girl and ask her out and she knows nothing about you and you know nothing about her then you are wrong.

 

It will never work out.

 

Also, if you are thinking of asking a girl out because you want it to develop into an amazing relationship in future then you should invest your time into knowing her.

 

There is no need to rush if you want something serious with this girl you know nothing about.

 

If you want to ask her out then you will have to know the kind of person she is even if you don’t want anything serious with her.

 

The success of the date you might go with her will solely depend on how much you know about her.

 

The date will go great if you know two or three things about her.

 

This will give you a solid foundation.

 

It’s the part that you can’t skip.

 

Second step: Let her know about you.

As you keep knowing more about her you should also take the upper hand in letting her know more about you.

 

If you will manage to get her to know more about you over the text then you will have a good chance of asking her out.

 

When a girl wants to know everything about you, that is a positive sign and you should be happy about it.

 

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There is no way you will get her to go out with you over the text if she doesn’t know you.

 

She won’t go on a date with a stranger. Though there are some girls who would do it.

 

But most of them will never go out with you if they know nothing about you.

 

You will have to let her know more about you by opening up to her. Tell her who you are and let her know everything about you.

 

There is no need to talk about sensitive issues with her over the text. When you meet her in person and you observe the kind of person she is then you will decide when to open up to her or not.

 

So, make sure she knows several things about you that will make her comfortable hanging out with you.

 

Third step: Make her your friend.

Now, that she knows something about you then you will have to make her your friend if you want to ask her out over text.

 

Start with a friendship. I know some girls will tell you that they are in a relationship and this should not stop you from pursuing her.

 

Who knows if her guy is taking her for granted. When a girl tells you she is in a relationship over the text you should never trust that.

 

Aim what you want from her and let her decide if you are worth the squeeze.

 

You should not even bother asking her if she has a boyfriend over the text.

 

The only thing you should be focused on is creating a rapport with her.

 

Get to know the things she likes doing and what her career is and other things about her life.

 

The more she opens up to you over the text the better chance you will have at asking her out.

 

She will find you a great guy and she will not hesitate to meet you in person.

 

I said you have to make her your friend so that she is comfortable opening up to you.

 

Don’t be too friendly with her, you might end up in the bro zone. Trust me, you don’t want to be there.

 

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And that is why I find the next step very crucial for you to do.

 

Fourth step: Make her feel at ease when chatting with you.

You have to remember that you know nothing about her. So, if you want her to go out with you then you will have to find a way to make her comfortable when chatting with you.

 

How can I make her comfortable when chatting with me?

 

You can do this by being observant. Learn her the way you would learn calculus in a math class.

 

The first thing you should do is to find out the things she hates and the things she likes.

 

When you know the things she hates then you can make her feel so comfortable talking to you.

 

Don’t force her to talk about the things she hates if you want to make her feel at ease when chatting with you.

 

The conversation with her should be smooth, don’t make it a chore for her.

 

You have to make her feel happy when she sees your texts. And the only way you can do this is by talking about things she likes.

 

Lean on things she likes and make them yours.

 

The other thing you should do to make her at ease when chatting with you over the text is not to be judgemental.

 

Don’t jump to conclusions about anything she tells you over the text.

 

If you judge everything she tells you be it in a positive way or negative way she will feel uncomfortable opening up to you.

 

She will not be comfortable chatting with you about issues that she cares about with you.

 

If you can judge her positively she will assume that you can also judge her negatively.

 

So, don’t conclude anything she tells you about. The only thing you will have to do is listen to what she has to tell you.

 

Keep your thoughts to yourself.

 

The other thing you should do is avoid flirting with her too much if you want to make her comfortable chatting with you.

 

Avoid sexting even if you know she is into it.

 

You barely know her, you never know, she might put you in a test to see the kind of guy you are.

 

If you fail you will never manage to go out with her. I don’t think if you will even have the chance of asking her out.

 

She might block you even if she likes you, she has nothing to lose.

 

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Fifth step: Let her know your intentions.

The moment you have made her comfortable chatting with you then this is something else you should do if you are thinking of asking her out.

 

Don’t lean so much on the friendship side, you might get stuck in the friend zone.

 

You don’t want that to happen unless you want it that way.

 

You have to let her know your intentions if you want to ask her out over the text.

 

If you were close to her and you know her better then it would have been very easy for her to know your full intentions.

 

This is because you will be interacting much with her and she will notice every move you make.

 

The way you talk to her, the way you handle and the way you look at her will make her notice how you feel about her.

 

Since she is someone you barely know and you are communicating over the text then it will be best for you if you let her know your intentions.

 

Let her know why you are so into her.

 

You will do this by opening up to her about what you are planning to do with her.

 

Be honest with her.

 

You can text her like this,

 

You: hey, I have been chatting with you for a while, but do you know what I want from you?

Her: I know nothing of what you want, would you enlighten me?

You: For the few days I have been chatting with you, the only thing I have been thinking about is asking you out.

Her: Why do you want me to go out with you?

You: You are an amazing girl I have never met before and it would be such an honour to spend so much time with you.

Her: You do know I have a boyfriend, right?

You: I know you do, and I don’t expect much from you other than just spending time with you.

 

This kind of conversation will let her know your intentions. She will be able to know what you want from her.

 

There is no way she will resist you when you text her in a way she will clearly know what your main motives are.

 

Sixth step: Spike her interest in you.

After you have told her over the text what you want from her the next thing you should do is to make her interested in you.

 

Don’t rush directly on asking her out even after you have told her what you want from her.

 

Take your time and spike her interest in you. This will give you an added advantage and the moment you will ask her out you will have it easy.

 

You have come so far with her and there is no need to ruin everything up.

 

Take your time and make her interested in you. Make her want to know more about you.

 

If she has a boyfriend, get to know her boyfriend’s weaknesses and leverage them.

 

When you manage to do this then you will make her be interested in you.

 

On the other hand, if she is single then draw her to yourself.

 

You can spike her interest in you by giving her the attention she wants, replying to her texts on time, sending her morning and evening texts, sending her love emojis and helping her on any issues that she needs your help from.

 

Seventh step: Ask her out.

The moment you find that she is comfortable chatting with you and she is opening up to you about her personal issues then know that she is ready for you to ask her out.

 

Don’t think so hard about it. If you want to ask her out then this is the right time to do it.

 

Before you decide to ask her out you should first know when she will be available.

 

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When you have an idea of when she will be available then you will have a better shot at asking her out.

 

This is how you can ask her out over the text;

 

“I wanted to stroll the city today, would you mind coming with me?”

“Can you join me for a cup of coffee today?”

“I would like to take on a brunch today, will you come with me?”

“Can we grab a drink today?”

“Can we go on a date?”

 

There is nothing much to think about. Just ask her out and she will eventually say yes.

 

Lastly…

 

There are two things you should expect when you intend to ask a girl out.

 

She might say yes or no to you.

 

This is something that you can’t control. If she likes you and the vibe you came with then she will go out with you.

 

But if she doesn’t like you despite the effort you have put into asking her out she will never go out with you.

 

You should be ready for any answer you will get from her.

 

It doesn’t mean that if she says no, or if she is always busy when you ask her out you will have to give up. Try a little harder. Don’t give up as soon as she says no to you.

 

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If you have tried so much and she still doesn’t want to go out with you then you will have nothing to do but to walk away from her. You can’t force someone to feel the same way you feel for them.

 

Love is like a coin, it will always have two sides, if you are lucky enough you will get the head and if not you will end up with the tail.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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