Why Your Boyfriend Is Always Cancelling Plans (+What To Do)

If your boyfriend is always cancelling plans and you want to know why and what you can do about it, stick with me until the end.

 

In this article, I will be sharing with you several reasons why your boyfriend is always cancelling plans and what you can do about it.

 

Without further ado, let me start by sharing with you what it means when your boyfriend always cancels your plans.

 

What does it mean when your boyfriend always cancels your plans?

 

When your boyfriend always cancels your plans it means he is not interested in meeting you, he is not ready to meet you, he is too busy with other issues or it can be that he doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

In this article, I will be elaborating on these issues in detail so that you can understand what you can do about them.

 

For now, get that meaning in your head and start figuring out the best solution for this.

 

Why your boyfriend always cancels plans;

1. He is not interested in meeting you.

This is the first reason you should know. Your boyfriend is not interested in meeting you and that is why he keeps cancelling on you.

 

Let me share with you something that no one will tell you.

 

If a man is in love with you he will do anything to spend time with you.

 

He will do everything to show that he cares about you. Nothing will prevent him from meeting you.

 

The moment a man loves you deeply he will always prioritize you. He will sacrifice everything for you.

 

So, if your boyfriend keeps cancelling your plans then know that he is not interested in meeting you.

 

A man is never busy for someone he loves and cares about. It’s always about priority.

 

So, if he has been cancelling your plans for longer then know that he is not interested in meeting you.

 

If he was interested then he would have made an effort in making it happen instead of cancelling on you.

 

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2. He is too busy with other issues.

 

This is might be the second reason why your boyfriend always cancels your plans.

 

He is too busy with other issues.

 

The “other issues” do you know what they are?

 

I will touch on that a bit later. Let me share with you an insight that will enable you to understand this.

 

When your boyfriend is too busy for you he will always be cancelling on you.

 

He will never prioritize you even a single day.

 

Most people will tell you that they have no time but the truth is that if everyone has the time it only depends on where his or her focus is.

 

So, if your boyfriend is too busy with his work and he finds it more important than you then he will always put his work first.

 

Whenever he wants to meet you and anything work-related pops up he will always cancel on you.

 

And do you know why that is so? It’s because he doesn’t find you to be important to him.

 

If he found you important then he wouldn’t have to cancel plans with you.

 

Now, on the “other issues” Your boyfriend may be cancelling on you because he is too busy with someone else.

 

There is someone that takes all his time and he finds it hard to make time for you and that is why he keeps cancelling on you.

 

Do you notice any strange behaviour lately? Does he delay answering your calls and texts? Does he send you morning texts? Does he make time for you and explain why he keeps on cancelling on you?

 

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If you have noticed that your boyfriend has changed in any way then know that someone else is making him that way.

 

3. He is not yet ready to meet you.

Your boyfriend is always cancelling on you because he is not yet ready to meet you.

 

If he was ready to meet you then he wouldn’t have been cancelling on you.

 

For someone to meet you he has to be ready to do it. Making up your mind and stepping outside to meet someone out of your comfort zone sometimes can be a hard thing.

 

This is one of the reasons many guys end up cancelling plans they made.

 

Anyway, if your boyfriend feels that he is not yet ready to meet you because of several issues he will always cancel on you.

 

He will make plans with you nicely but when the day comes for him to meet you up he will not do so.

 

Also, if you met online and you have been talking for a while and planning when you should meet then it can be that your boyfriend is not confident enough.

 

It can be that he is shy to face you in person and that is why he keeps stalling by cancelling on you.

 

He knows the more he cancels your plans the more time he will have to make himself ready to meet you.

 

4. He doesn’t enjoy spending time with you.

 

If you met him once or twice and after that, he kept on cancelling your plan then this could be the reason.

 

He doesn’t enjoy spending time with you.

 

For someone to want to spend time with you there has to be a motivating factor.

 

If you want to know what will make a man want to spend time with you then don’t forget to check out this article.

 

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No man will want to spend time with you if he doesn’t enjoy your company.

 

For instance, if when you first met he never enjoy spending time with you but never told you about it then this could be the reason why he keeps cancelling your plans now.

 

If you met once or twice, ask yourself these questions maybe you might get an overview of what he felt about you.

 

Did he text you after the date? Did he enjoy time with you when you first met? Did he ever talk about the date? Did he ask to see you again after that? Did he try to hold your hand on the first date?

 

If he never did any of these things on your first date and right now he keeps cancelling on you then you should know that he never enjoyed spending time with you.

 

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5. He doesn’t care about you.

If your boyfriend keeps on cancelling your plans and he never feels guilty about it then know that he doesn’t care about you.

 

The fact that you are searching for a solution to this problem shows that it’s common with your boyfriend.

 

The moment your boyfriend cancels on you more than thrice and he never bothers to explain to you what is going on or find a way to make up for the plans you make then know that he doesn’t care about you.

 

A guy who cares about you will always make sure that he does what adds value to your relationship.

 

He will never give you a reason to doubt him. If your boyfriend doesn’t care how you will perceive him by cancelling your plans then he doesn’t care about you.

 

When a guy cares about you he will never want to make you suffer. He will always want to make you happy and cancelling your plans is not one of these things.

 

Also, it can be that he is not interested in you anymore and that is why he keeps cancelling on you.

 

If he used to feel the same way when you first met then he could have never been cancelling your plans.

 

6. You don’t give him a reason to see you.

 

You may be blaming everything on him because he is the one cancelling the plans.

 

Have you asked yourself or observed what you are not doing right for him?

 

Do you handle him the way he wants you to?

 

Do you treat him nicely and be the kind of girl he wants you to be?

 

If you have any issues with him or conflicts that you have never resolved then you should know that it’s the main reason why he keeps cancelling on you.

 

Furthermore, when your relationship is not on good terms it will be hard for your boyfriend to make time for you.

 

He won’t be happy to be around you, what will be the reason that will make him want to be next to you if your relationship status is worse?

 

If you don’t give him what he wants even when he is next to you do you think he will make up for your plans?

 

There is no way this will happen if your boyfriend has no reason to meet you up.

 

7. He is distancing himself from you gradually.

Your boyfriend is always cancelling your plans because he is distancing himself from you.

 

There are so many reasons that can make a man distance himself from you.

 

Let me list some of them so that you can check out if your relationship has one of these things.

 

Your boyfriend will distance himself from you when he is losing interest in you, he is not happy with you, he doesn’t like how you treat him, you are too dependent on him to an extent of making his life hard and when you don’t give him your attention.

 

These are some of the reasons that will make your boyfriend want to distance himself from you.

 

So, if any of these things exist in him then it could be the reason why he always cancels your plans.

 

If he doesn’t feel the spark he used to feel when you first met then he will find it hard to make effort into making up for your plans.

 

He will always cancel them.

 

What to do when your boyfriend keeps cancelling your plans;

1. Find out why he always cancels your plans.

 

 

If your boyfriend is always cancelling on you and you want to fix this issue then you should find out why he does so.

 

Without knowing why he is always cancelling your plans there is no way you will be able to solve this issue.

 

Take your time in finding out why your boyfriend is cancelling on you.

 

You can find this by observing how he talks to you, and how he treats you and you can also ask him several questions to make him open up.

 

If you find out that he doesn’t treat you nicely then know that he doesn’t feel the same for you.

 

His feelings for you changed and that is why he is not interested in meeting you.

 

You can also ask him several questions so that you find out what he feels about you.

 

2. Fix any misunderstandings between the two of you.

Once you find out why he always cancels on you then it’s time to fix this issue.

 

If you are the problem then you should make sure you change yourself first.

 

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Make sure that you treat your boyfriend the way you would want him to treat you.

 

Talk nicely to him and show him that you value the relationship.

 

If there was a fight then you should swallow the pride and apologize to him.

 

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Let him know that you are sorry for what you did.

 

And this will change the way he feels about you and he will never cancel your plans again.

 

Always be ready to fix any misunderstanding in your relationship and this will always make your boyfriend happy.

 

3. Let him know how you feel about it.

 

This is something else you have to do if you want to solve this problem.

 

Communication is a very important aspect of fixing your relationship.

 

There is no way you will be able to resolve anything if you won’t communicate with each other.

 

If you haven’t talked about this issue with your boyfriend then make a point of confronting him.

 

Let him know how you feel when he keeps on cancelling your plans.

 

This will make your boyfriend see that he is affecting you by cancelling your plans.

 

It can be that he doesn’t know if by cancelling your plans he makes you feel bad about it and that is why he keeps doing it.

 

When you notice something is not going according to your expectations don’t be afraid to speak up.

 

Stand up and talk about any issue that makes you feel unhappy in your relationship.

 

4. Rekindle the spark in your relationship.

 

This is something else you should do if you want to make him stop cancelling plans with you.

 

The main reason why he is cancelling plans with you is the connection between the two of you.

 

If the connection between the two of you was strong enough then he wouldn’t have been cancelling on you.

 

So, think of ways you can make your relationship better. By making it better you will be able to rekindle the spark in your relationship.

 

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Make your boyfriend wants to spend time with you, capture his mind and his feelings and focus on what adds value to your relationship.

 

As time goes by he will start taking you seriously.

 

5. Give him time and space.

 

This is something else you can do if your boyfriend is always cancelling on you.

 

If you have tried everything to make him give you his attention and he doesn’t seem to care about it then give yourself a break.

 

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Give yourself a break from chasing him and focus on what makes you happy.

 

If he loves you and cares about you he will eventually start taking you seriously.

 

And he will never cancel your plans again.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have tried everything to make him prioritize you but he keeps cancelling your plans then you will have no alternative but to leave him alone.

 

This shows that he doesn’t care about you and he will never make time for you.

 

It can be that he is in love with someone else and the only thing he does is to keep you around.

 

So, If you have tried everything you can to make him consider your plans and that doesn’t change just walk away from him.

 

Don’t force yourself on someone who doesn’t care about you because you will keep on hurting yourself.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment see you in my next article.

 

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