If your boyfriend is always complaining about you and you don’t why he does that and you want to know what to do about it then this is an article for you.
In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why your boyfriend is always complaining about you and what you can do about it.
The moment your boyfriend complains about you every time this shows that there is a problem between the two of you.
If you will not find out this problem and fix it then your relationship will never survive.
A relationship will never survive with constant fights and arguments.
Without wasting time, let me share with you what you need to know about this issue.
Why your boyfriend is always complaining about you;
1. He is not happy with you.
If your boyfriend always complains about you then this is one of the reasons.
Your boyfriend is not happy with you in that relationship.
This is one of the signs that shows that he is not feeling fulfilled being with you.
There are so many things that come into play when I talk about happiness.
When someone is not happy with you they will not just say it straight to your face.
They will not confront you and tell you that they are unhappy to be with you.
The only things you will see surfacing from them are their actions and words.
So, if your boyfriend has always been complaining about you and when you check out there is no reasonable thing for him to complain about then know that it has something to do with how he feels when he is around you.
If he has never been complaining about you before and now things have changed then know that he is not happy being with you.
These can be brought up by several things that you will continue to know as you read this article.
The fact is that, if he was happy with you then he wouldn’t have always been complaining about you.
Furthermore, if any issues about you are bothering him then he could have confronted you and talked about it.
2. He is irritated by you.
Your boyfriend is irritated by you and that is why he is always complaining.
If you always do something that irritates him then he will always complain about you.
This is mostly brought by how you handle him when you are around him.
Though this may not be the only reason why he is irritated by you. There are so many things that come into play.
There is an article I wrote about this, you can check it out on the link below.
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The moment your boyfriend is irritated by you anything that you will do for him will always be wrong.
You may be doing the right thing, but to him, you are doing the wrong thing.
And if this is the case then he will always complain about you.
He will keep on complaining about you until the situation that he feels about you changes.
You can read the above article I linked to in this section to know how you can solve that.
3. He is tired being around you.
When your boyfriend is exhausted from being around you he will always complain about you.
There are times when everything in a relationship becomes too much to handle.
This may be due to several issues that are happening in the relationship and out of the relationship.
The moment your relationship with you boyfriend is in a mess and everything needs to be fixed this can drive him to the situation that he is in currently.
If there are so many conflicts to be fixed and each day a new argument about something pops up even before resolving the first problem then this is the reason behind that.
These issues that keeps popping up in your relationship are what make your boyfriend feel so exhausted being around you.
This situation makes things hard for him and he sees everything as a chore in that relationship.
If your relationship is in a good state and there is nothing wrong between the two of you but your boyfriend still complains about you then know that he is just tired of being around you.
It can be that he finds it too much to handle you and you are stressing him out on the things that you need and that is why he is just tired of being around you.
4. He is pushing you away.
When your boyfriend is tired of being around you, he is irritated by you and he is not happy being with you all he will do is push you away.
The moment someone doesn’t want you around they will push you away.
There are so many reasons why your boyfriend may be pushing you away, but the main thing that influences this is how he feels about you.
If your boyfriend doesn’t feel the way he wants to feel when he is around you he will react to that.
In this case, your boyfriend is reacting to what he feels about you by complaining about you.
He always complains about you because he feels you are the cause of every situation that he is going through.
When your boyfriend doesn’t want you around him for any reason he will not tell you that he doesn’t want you around.
he will not do that because he still cares about you. The moment he tells you he doesn’t want you around then you might conclude that he is done with you.
Your boyfriend knows that always complaining about you will push you away from him.
Do you like it when your boyfriend always complains about you?
I know you don’t like it and that is why you are searching for a solution.
When he complains about you the only thing you will think of doing is to distance yourself from him.
And this is what your boyfriend is doing.
If you want to know more about why your boyfriend is pushing you away then don’t forget to read the article below from my other website.
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5. You always disappoint him.
If your boyfriend always complains about you then you should know that it has something with what you do.
There is something that you are always doing that is opposite to what your boyfriend expects from you.
You are doing things that always make your boyfriend feel disappointed in you.
Take your time to think of the things you do.
Are you doing the things that your boyfriend always tell you not to do?
If you are doing anything that your boyfriend hates then this is one of the reasons why your boyfriend always complains about you.
The moment you do things that disappoints he gets angry at you every time and that is why he always complains about you.
On the other hand, if you are doing what is right and your boyfriend still complains about you then it could be due to the next reason that follows.
6. He is stressed about something.
If you know that everything between you and your boyfriend is super awesome, your relationship is in a good state, you do everything right in that relationship and your boyfriend seems happy but he always complains about you then know that your boyfriend is stressed about something.
Your boyfriend is stressed and that is why he always complains about you.
It can be that he is stressed about his work, career, his family or financial issues.
What happens outside of the relationship has a very great influence on the relationship.
So, if there is anything outside of your relationship that is driving him insane then this could be the main reason why he is always complaining about you.
He can’t take a joke from you, he can’t take the pressure from you and he can’t stand handling you the way he used to because of what is going on.
When someone is stressed about something the only thing they will be thinking about is that thing.
They will only work hard to find a way to solve that issue that is bothering them.
The moment you do something that doesn’t help them to solve the issue that they are stressed about they will come hard on you.
This case relates to your boyfriend.
What you do around him doesn’t help him to fix the issues he is stressed about and that is why he is always complaining about you.
7. He is angry at you.
Your boyfriend is always complaining about you because he is mad at you.
Think about it.
What have you done recently that you never resolved?
Think of the past days and weeks and try to find an incident that happened between the two of you.
If you did something that you never fully resolved then this could be the main reason why he is still angry at you.
What you did is what keeps reflecting on his mind and that is why there are no good vibes between the two of you.
There is still that tension between the two of you and that is why he is always complaining about you.
If there is nothing wrong you did in the past few days or months then it can be that he is just angry at you.
You have to know that you will not be always in a good state with your partner.
There are moments you will feel like pushing your partner away, you will find yourself hating him and there is nothing wrong they did to you.
This is something that happens. But it usually lasts for a very short time.
If it doesn’t wear out within a few days then you should do something about it.
What to do when your boyfriend always complains about you;
1. Find out why what makes your boyfriend always complains about you.
If your boyfriend is always complaining about you then you have to do something about it before it messes up your relationship.
The more your relationship remains in constant fights and arguments the more the bond between the two of you weakens.
If you won’t do something about it then you will find yourselves apart.
To start fixing this issue the first thing you should do is to find out why your boyfriend is always complaining about you.
The only way you will find the exact reason without you wasting so much time is to talk to your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend is always the one complaining about you, so, he has reasons why he does that.
Sit down with him and have a mature conversation with him about your issue.
Confront him and ask him why he always complains about you.
If he wants to fix this issue between the two of you then he will tell you why he always complains about you.
He will give you the reasons and they are what you should use to start working out this issue between the two of you.
Take note of the things he tells you and try to find a way to fix this issue.
2. Fix any misunderstanding between the two of you.
Use the reasons you got from your boyfriend to start working out this issue.
If your boyfriend told you that he always complains about you because of certain things then you should make sure that you make an effort in fixing that.
Deal with the issues that you can fix and this will make things between the two of you better.
If your boyfriend told you that he is always complains about you because he is not happy with the way you treat him and talk to him then this is the first thing you should fix.
You should start changing how you treat him and talk politely to him.
Furthermore, you can even talk to him and ask him about what he expects you to do.
Listen to him and do what he wants you to as long as it doesn’t hurt you in any way.
And this should fix the issue between the two of you and you will eventually say goodbye to the complaints from him.
If you know that there is anything you can do to fix this situation then use the reasons he told you to work things out.
What I believe is that anything that goes wrong in a relationship there is always a solution for it.
3. Avoid doing things that make him angry.
If you want your boyfriend to stop complaining about you then you should make sure you always stay on his positive side.
This is something that is not very hard to do.
All you have to do is to avoid the things that will upset him. You know him better than I do.
So, what you know he doesn’t like try your best to avoid it.
If you know your boyfriend doesn’t like when you shout at him then don’t do it.
As long as you avoid doing things that makes him angry there is no way he will complain about you.
He will always be happy with you and this makes him handle you nicely.
But if you keep making him angry every single day then don’t expect him to stop complaining about you.
This is because there will always be bad energy between the two of you and the negative tension will result in him complaining about you every single day.
4. Try your best to cheer him up.
Another thing you can do to stop your boyfriend from complaining every single day is to cheer him up.
Make your boyfriend happy and this is something that will bring a significant change in that relationship.
You should not always expect your boyfriend to cheer you up.
Sometimes you have to stand up and do things that will make your boyfriend happy to be around you.
Make an effort of doing things that will put a smile on your boyfriend’s face.
Come up with ideas that will intrigue your boyfriend, make things easier for him when he is around you, support him in anything he is doing even if you don’t like it and be there for him.
The moment he is not the only one making the effort to fix things between the two of you then you will have a better chance of stopping this behaviour of him always complaining about you.
It can be that your boyfriend is exhausted simply because he is always making the effort to make things amazing between the two of you.
Sometimes you have to take the wheel and handle your boyfriend like a baby. Cuddle him and make him feel at ease and happy around you.
If this won’t stop him from always complaining about you then there is a huge problem between the two of you.
5. Give him some space.
The moment you have tried everything to fix the issues between the two of you and things don’t seem to be working to your expectations the best thing you should do is to give him space.
It can be that your boyfriend is extremely stressed about what is going on outside of his life.
When your boyfriend is so stressed with issues outside of your relationship it will be very hard for him to handle you the way you want to.
He will always react negatively to anything you do even if it’s interesting. He won’t even be able to take a joke from you.
And it’s not because he is mad at you or he hates you being around him.
The only thing that is troubling him is the things that are going on in his life.
If you have tried everything to fix the issues he is facing, you have tried to support him in any way you can but he is still in the same state around you then you will have to give him some space.
Give him space to figure out the things that drive him insane and when he is okay he will get in touch with you.
This is the best way to fix this issue.
If you keep pushing him to stop complaining about you then you might end up wrecking your relationship in pieces.
Sometimes the best solution for a problem in a relationship is to give each other space to process things.
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When you have tried everything to change this situation between the two of you and nothing seems to be working then you should give your boyfriend space.
Ask him to contact you when he will be okay and he wants you around.
If he won’t bother to contact you again then know that he doesn’t want you around anymore.
He was always complaining about you to push you away.
It can be that his feelings for you faded and he was only forcing himself to be around you.
You have to understand that it’s hard to be around someone you have no feelings for.
Anyway, I hope what I have shared with you will help you take your relationship back to normal.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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