If your boyfriend embarrasses you in public, in front of your friends or family it means he doesn’t care about you.
There is more to it that I will share with you in this article, stick with me till the end to know more.
When your boyfriend embarrasses you and you are just the two of you there is no big harm in that.
For instance, he tells you “babe you smell! Go and take a shower”
This is may not be a big deal when you are just the two of you. It can be that he is just making a joke.
But when it comes to the public this is another issue.
When your boyfriend embarrasses you in public it means he doesn’t care about you. The fact that he is not considerate of how you will when he embarrasses you in public shows that he is heartless. If he cared about you then he wouldn’t have embarrassed you in public.
You can also end up concluding that his love for you has a very big question mark.
A guy who loves you will never embarrass you leave alone when you are the two of you.
He will always make sure that what he chooses to tell you is something that will make you feel good.
Even if you have a habit that he wants you to change he will address you but he will never be mean about it.
But if your boyfriend is not considerate of how you will feel when he embarrasses you in public then know that he doesn’t care about you and the love that he claims he has for you is almost none.
Why does my boyfriend embarrass me in front of his family?
Your boyfriend embarrasses you in front of his family simply because he doesn’t care about you. The only thing he cares about is making his family happy. He knows that when he embarrasses you in front of his family they will have something to laugh and talk about.
You should know that if your boyfriend can embarrass you in front of his family just to make them laugh then he is capable of hurting you.
He can hurt you and feel no remorse about it.
Your boyfriend doesn’t care about you and it can be that he is only with you because you give him something he doesn’t have or he found to be so desperate.
And if you showed him that you were so desperate for him then this might be the reason why he is treating you that way.
My boyfriend embarrasses me in front of others.
If your boyfriend is embarrassing you in front of other people then this shows that he wants to make himself look cool before these people as he degrades you and hurt your feelings. He doesn’t care about you, all he cares about is impressing other people.
He knows by embarrassing you in front of others will make him look superior to you.
And he thinks by doing this, people will like him because he will seem funny to them.
If your boyfriend is struggling to fit in with a group of people then this could be the main reason why he is embarrassing you in front of them.
Anyway, this is not a reason for him to embarrass you. It’s very wrong for him to embarrass you not only in front of other people.
Your boyfriend should care how you feel about anything. He should choose any words he has to say to you to ensure that he protects how you feel.
If your boyfriend doesn’t care what you will feel about anything he does or say then this shows that he doesn’t care about you.
My boyfriend puts me down in front of his friends.
Your boyfriend puts you down in front of his friends to make them laugh and make himself look cool before them. He doesn’t care about you and that is why he is doing something like this. The best thing you can do for yourself is distance yourself from him.
There is no need to be around someone who keeps hurting your feelings.
Your boyfriend doesn’t care about you at all and that is why he keeps putting you down in front of his friends.
If he cared about you then he would have always done his best to defend you and avoid doing things that will keep hurting your feelings.
Is it normal to be embarrassed by your boyfriend?
It’s not normal to be embarrassed by your boyfriend. If your boyfriend is embarrassing you then he doesn’t care about your feelings at all. Your boyfriend should protect your feelings, make sure that you are always happy, safe and at ease when you are around him.
Is it normal for your boyfriend to hurt you?
This is not something normal.
The same issue applies to embarrassing. It’s not okay for your boyfriend to embarrass you at all.
You should not make yourself comfortable around him while he is hurting your feelings by embarrassing you.
If your boyfriend is embarrassing you it’s because he doesn’t care about you, he is mean and he is trying to make himself look cool in front of other people.
So, this is not something normal and you should never accept being embarrassed by your boyfriend.
What to do when your boyfriend embarrasses you.
If your boyfriend embarrasses you the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from him. When he comes to you, let him know that you hate it when he embarrasses you and he should stop doing it if he wants you close. Let him know that he is hurting your feelings by embarrassing you.
When distance yourself from him he will want to know why you are doing so.
And this will be the perfect time for you to let him know that you hate how he treats you.
Confront him. Let him know that you hate it when he embarrasses you because it hurts your feelings.
If he cares about you and he loves you then he will change for you.
You might like this: Can a Person Change In a Relationship?
Your boyfriend may be embarrassing you to push you away, to hurt your feelings, to make other people laugh or to make himself look cool in front of other people.
If your boyfriend is doing this then confront him. Don’t keep quiet about it yet it hurts you.
Let him know that you hate it when he embarrasses you and he should stop doing it.
If you keep quiet and do nothing about this then your boyfriend will make it a habit and he will keep hurting you for the rest of your days.
Your boyfriend will stop doing this when he notices that it’s something that hurts you.
That is if he still cares about your feelings.
But if he won’t bother to stop embarrassing you then walk away from him.
There is no need to stay with someone who keeps hurting your feelings.
You will not be happy with him.
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