If your boyfriend gets mad when you don’t give him money then here is something you should do to fix this issue.
In this article, I will share with you what to do when your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money.
What I can tell you is that your boyfriend is trying to use you financially.
He knows that when he asks for money from you and you fail to give him if he gets mad at you then you will change your mind about it.
This will eventually make you give him the money he wants without you thinking so hard about it since you care about him.
He is manipulating you emotionally so that you can give him what he wants.
Your boyfriend is only trying to manipulate you and that is why he gets mad at you when you don’t give him money.
There are several things you can to do stop this behavior and if he won’t change there is only one way out of that relationship.
That way is ending the relationship with him and finding someone else who is responsible enough and not too dependent on you.
With that much said this is what to do if your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money.
What to do when your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money;
1. Let him know why you didn’t give him the money.
If your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money then this is something you should do.
You should let him understand why didn’t give him the money he wanted and this might make things easier between the two of you.
Telling him why you didn’t give him the money will make things clear to him.
He will have an idea why you didn’t give him the money he wanted and it’s not for selfish reasons.
If he wanted the money for something that you don’t appreciate him doing then be real with him.
Tell him the truth about it so that he gets to understand why you didn’t give him the money he asked for.
But if you will not tell him why you didn’t give him the money the only thing that he will conclude is that you did it for your selfish reasons.
And this will make the relationship between the two of you worst since he will conclude that you don’t care about him.
He will think that you don’t want to support him in what he wants to do and this will result in him pulling away from you.
This can mess up your relationship in a way you have never imagined.
So, take your time to explain yourself to him and he will not get mad at you for not giving him the money he wanted.
If you wanted to use the money for something else very important other than what he needed the money for then let him know about it.
He will understand you and he will eventually find it pointless to be angry at you for not giving him the money.
That is if your boyfriend is an understanding person and he doesn’t want to drain you financially.
Communication is one of the tools that you can use to solve so many of your problems in that relationship.
Try to use it at once and see the effect it will bring in your relationship.
2. Let him know that he is not doing the right thing.
After you have let him know why you couldn’t give him the money he wanted then this is something else you should do.
If you didn’t give him the money for a solid reason then he doesn’t have the right to be mad at you.
He should listen to you and understand why you didn’t give him the money that he wanted.
There are some things that you come across in your relationship that aren’t right.
Deep down, you feel that what he is doing is not right at all. As in, how does he has the gut to get angry at you simply because you didn’t give him your money?
He wanted you to help him and he should not get mad at you for not helping him with what he wanted.
Your boyfriend should understand that you were not in a position to help him.
But if he gets mad at you for not supporting him financially then he is going against what the relationship stands for.
Couples should understand each other and they should not force each other to do things to please each other.
If one wants to help the other he or she should do it willingly. Even in a relationship, people still do have free will and they have the right to do anything they feel like as long as it doesn’t hurt the other partner.
So, if your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money then know that he is not doing the right thing and you should tell him the truth.
Tell him that he is not doing the right thing and he should change since that will affect your relationship.
He doesn’t have the right to get mad at you simply because you failed to give him money.
If you did something to hurt him in any way then if he gets mad at you for that he has the right to do it, but you not giving him your money that shouldn’t be a reason at all.
3. Ask him to find a means to make money.
He gets mad at you for not giving him money since he is struggling financially.
If he had the means to earn money then it wouldn’t have been big at all.
You denying him money wouldn’t have made him get angry at you.
So, the only way to fix this issue is to tell your boyfriend the truth.
If your boyfriend wants money from you since he doesn’t work and he has no means to earn money then you will have to tell him the truth.
Ask him to find a job that he can do so that he doesn’t depend on you for money.
If he had a job that made him a good amount of money each month then he wouldn’t have been asking for money from you at all.
He would have been the one treating you every end of the month instead of him asking you for money.
The moment you tell him the truth then it will get into his senses that he needs to find a means to earn money so that he cuts off himself from depending on you financially.
Let your boyfriend know the truth about what he is doing and he will make the change if he is someone ambitious.
He might get angrier by you telling him this but if he is an ambitious guy he will do everything he can to change the situation.
4. The last thing you should do is to break up with him if this is something that keeps repeating itself.
If you have done everything I have shared with you in this article and he keeps getting mad at you then you should let him know that you will walk away from him.
There is no need to stick to him if he gets mad at you for not giving him money.
He is the guy and he is supposed to be the provider, he should not depend on you financially unless he is in a situation that makes it harder for him to depend on himself.
After talking to him about the issue of him getting mad at you for not giving him money and he doesn’t want to change then this is what you should do.
Let him know that you will end the relationship simply because what he is doing is not something other guys would.
The only reason he might be getting mad at you when you fail to give him the money he wants is that he only wants to use you.
You should not let him exploit you financially if this is something that he has been doing for a while.
Break up with him and find someone else who will support you financially.
This is what you should do if your boyfriend keeps getting angry at you for not giving him money.
If your boyfriend gets mad at you for not giving him money then let him understand why you couldn’t help him.
Let him understand why you couldn’t give him the money he wanted and this might make him understand you.
The moment he understands why you couldn’t give him the money the anger will fade away.
On the other hand, if your boyfriend keeps asking for money from you just to exploit you then you should be honest with him about it.
Let him know that you can’t keep giving him money for irrelevant reasons and if he wants to get mad at you and walk away for that then he should do it.
This will let him know that you don’t entertain any of the things he is doing.
After you have done everything I have shared with you in this article and he doesn’t want to change then you should end the relationship.
This clearly shows that he is with you for your money and not anything else.
A guy has no right to be mad at you simply because you haven’t given him the money he wanted.
I wonder why he gets mad at you for such an issue, he has no right to do that at all.
This should make him man up and find a means to earn more money and not rely on you anymore.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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