If your boyfriend has another girl as his wallpaper then you must be having so many questions about it.
Why does he have another girl as his wallpaper and not me? Is he cheating on me with that girl on his wallpaper? Does he not find me attractive to be on his wallpaper?
There are so many questions you can ask yourself about this issue.
In this article, I will share with you what you can do about this.
I know it bothers you that he has another girl as his wallpaper and not you.
There are several ways you can use to make your boyfriend remove this girl as his wallpaper.
Without further ado, let me share with you what you can do about this situation.
What to do when your boyfriend has another girl as his wallpaper;
1. Calm down and don’t do anything hasty.
I know you have seen that your boyfriend has another girl as his wallpaper and not you.
The only way you can solve this issue is by you being calm and acting maturely.
If you go hard on him and start demanding him to remove that girl from as his wallpaper on his phone then you will not be doing something nice.
This might bring a fight between the two of you yet you would have solved this very easily.
There is no need for this to be a big scene. So, if you are short-tempered take control of your temper and approach this issue decently.
It can be that the girl who is on his wallpaper is her sister from another mother that you don’t know of.
So, take it easy and don’t do anything that you will regret later on.
2. Find out who the girl is.
First, find out who the girl is before you decide to ask him to remove the girl from his wallpaper.
When you have an idea of who this girl is then you will have the structure of how you should approach this issue.
If the girl is his sister or his relative then there is no need for you to go hard on him.
I don’t think your boyfriend can marry his sister.
The only way you can use to find out who the girl is is by talking to him about it.
You can just ask him in a way that he may not notice that you are trying to know who the girl is on his wallpaper.
This is how you can ask him,
You: Babe! I like your new wallpaper. She seems so pretty.
Him: Thanks, babe.
You: She looks so familiar, is she from around here?
Take the conversation in this manner and your boyfriend will open up to you who this girl is to him.
If he tells you that she is his sister or relative then there is nothing to worry about.
But if he tells you that she is only a friend living downtown then you will have to do something about it.
To know what you should do next after he has just told you she is only a friend read the next section of this article.
3. Ask your boyfriend if he finds you attractive.
This is another thing you can do just to play with your boyfriend’s mind.
You have to be a psychologist in a way if you want to get into his head and know what he is thinking about you.
If lately your boyfriend has been distracted, he is not giving you the attention he used to, now you see the issue of him having another girl as his wallpaper and there is a lot of issues to be fixed in your relationship then know that your relationship is in a bad state.
The only way you can save it is if you get to the bottom of this issue.
You ask your boyfriend if he finds you attractive and the answer he will give you will lead you to something else.
For instance, if you ask him if he finds you attractive and he says yes then ask him why he decided to put another girl as his wallpaper and not you.
This kind of question will blow his mind and he will know quickly enough that he did something wrong.
The question will make him remove the girl from his wallpaper without you doing any further actions.
On the other hand, if he responds that he doesn’t find you attractive then you will have nothing to do but distance yourself from him.
If your boyfriend doesn’t find you attractive then this is clear that he doesn’t love you.
There is no way a guy will find you unattractive and love you at the same time.
No one should lie to you about that.
If he doesn’t find you attractive then this could have been the main reason why he has another girl as his wallpaper. This is the same reason your relationship with him is a mess.
4. Tell your boyfriend to change the wallpaper.
This action you will take will be just to check if your boyfriend cares about you or not.
Before you ask him to change the wallpaper you have to talk to him about how you feel.
Let him know that you don’t find it appropriate for him to have another girl as his wallpaper yet he has your pictures.
Tell your boyfriend that he is hurting your feelings and at the same time he makes you uncomfortable with that girl as his wallpaper.
If your boyfriend still cares about you and he loves you then he will immediately know the right thing to do about this issue.
He will know that he has to remove that girl from his wallpaper because he is hurting your feelings.
If he doesn’t remove the girl from his wallpaper then don’t be afraid to ask him to change the wallpaper.
5. Take necessary action according to his response.
If your boyfriend brings a fight about this then know that something is going on between him and the girl on his wallpaper.
Also, if he doesn’t want to remove the wallpaper this shows that there is a connection between him and the girl on his wallpaper.
The moment you find out that this is the case then you will have nothing to do but to distance yourself from him.
Guys hate it when you distance yourself from them because they like attention.
If you choose to distance yourself, your boyfriend will reach out to you and try to solve the issue between the two of you.
That is if she still cares about you and he loves you. But if he doesn’t feel you as he used to then he will never reach out to you.
When he doesn’t bother to get closer to you to try to work things out then know that there is something else is going on with that girl on his wallpaper.
The only thing that will be left for you is to walk away because he is surely taking you for granted.
You might like this: How To Walk Away When Someone Takes You For Granted
If your boyfriend has another girl as his wallpaper don’t be afraid to talk to him about it.
Let him know that it is something that annoys you and makes you feel so low about yourself.
Don’t be afraid to let him know that it hurts your feelings. But don’t go accusing him that he is cheating on you.
When you do this you will mess up your relationship and things between the two of you will never be the same.
If your boyfriend chooses to remove the girl from his wallpaper then know that he cares about you and he feels sorry for hurting your feelings.
But if he chooses to keep the girl on the wallpaper then know that he doesn’t care about how you feel and you should walk away from him if you don’t want to be hurt.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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