Boyfriend Is Always On Phone With His Family: Do This

In this article, I will share with you what to do if your boyfriend is always on his phone with his family.

 

There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend being on the phone with his family.

 

But if he is always on phone with them to an extent that he doesn’t give you his time and attention then you have to do something about it.

 

There is an article that I wrote about the same issue, check it out if it relates to your current situation.

 

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If your boyfriend is always on phone with his family you should do something about it.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you what you need to do about this issue.

 

What to do if your boyfriend is always on phone with his family

1. Find out why he is always on phone with his family.

If your boyfriend is always on phone with his family this is the first thing you should do.

 

I know you are frustrated with what he does but you also have to consider the people he is talking to.

 

So, before you do anything you have to know and understand why your boyfriend is always on phone with his family.

 

The moment you know why he is always on phone with his family then you can come up with a solution for this.

 

Don’t just tell him to stop calling his family or responding to calls from them simply because you want his time and attention.

 

This might make him conclude that you don’t want him to be in touch with his family and this might end up ruining your relationship.

 

To know the best way to approach this situation is to understand why it’s happening.

 

If he is always on his phone with his family to an extent that he doesn’t make time for you then you should be curious to know about it.

 

It can be that there is a huge problem he is trying to solve and that is why he is always on phone with them.

 

Your help will be so much appreciated.

 

He will open up to you if something is going in with his family.

 

But if he talks to his family over the phone and comes back and gives you the attention and time you need from him then there is no need to be worried.

 

You should only find out why he is always on phone with his family if he spends so much time with them on calls.

 

To find out why he is always on phone with his family, you will have to be curious.

 

Ask your boyfriend why he is always on phone calls with his family.

 

The answers that your boyfriend will give you are what will help you come up with the right approach to this issue.

 

So, don’t go hard on your boyfriend since he is always on phone with his family unless you understand why he does it.

 

You have to be careful not to upset him because this is his family we are talking about and not his friends.

 

If you say anything or do anything that will make him feel that you need him to cut his connection with his family this will affect your relationship.

 

I know this is something you don’t expect to happen.

 

If there is something that keeps your boyfriend on phone with his family all the time then he will tell you about it.

 

2. If there is an issue he is trying to solve with his family help him out.

After you have asked your boyfriend why he is always on phone with his family and you know why he does it, it’s time to make him change.

 

If your boyfriend told you that he is always on phone with his family simply because there is a problem he is trying to solve then you should offer to help him.

 

Let him know that you also care about him and that is why you want to be involved in what is going on with his family.

 

You should offer to help your boyfriend set things straight with his family if you can do it.

 

There are two amazing things that will come out of you helping his family to solve those issues.

 

The first thing is that you will create a good relationship with his family.

 

When you offer to be on calls with his family, they will know that you are caring and this will impact your relationship with them positively.

 

This will make you a part of that family and this will strengthen your relationship.

 

The second benefit of you helping out your boyfriend solve issues that he has with his family is that you will reduce the amount of time he spends on the phone with his family.

 

When the issues that he is dealing with are resolved quickly, this means he won’t always have to be on phone with his family.

 

The only person he will focus on is you.

 

So, if you can help your boyfriend out when there is an issue going on with his family then you should do it.

 

This is what will enable your boyfriend to reduce the amount of time he spends on the phone with his family.

 

3. Let him know how you feel about what he does.

If your boyfriend is always on phone with his family and there is nothing solid that he always talks about with them but just saying “Hi” then you should talk to him about it.

 

It can be that your boyfriend doesn’t know that he is doing the wrong thing.

 

Your boyfriend will never consider reducing the amount of time he spends on the phone with his family if he won’t know that it’s affecting you.

 

You never know, maybe, he thinks you are okay with him spending much time with his family on phone.

 

And that is why he keeps doing it without feeling guilty about it.

 

So, if you have noticed that the time he spends on the phone with his family is too much then you have the right to talk to him about it.

 

When you let him know how you feel about what the does then he will think of making a change if he cares about you.

 

Choose wisely the words you say to him when expressing what you feel about what he does.

 

You don’t want to cause any conflict between the two of you.

 

If you directly tell him that you don’t like it when he is always on phone with his family this will make him feel bad.

 

It will make him feel that you don’t want him to be in touch with family.

 

He might even conclude you hate his family.

 

This is a sensitive issue, you have to be sober when addressing your boyfriend about it.

 

This is an example of a phrase you can use to share with your boyfriend how you feel about what he does.

 

“Babe, I understand that your family is important to you and you have the right to be in touch with them.

 

If they need you, always be there for them on phone calls. I can see that this is exactly what you do for your family.

 

You are an amazing boyfriend and that is why I will always love you.

 

The only thing that I’m concerned about is you spending so much time with them on the phone to an extent I feel neglected.

 

Kindly, can you reduce the amount of time you spend talking to them over the phone so that we can have more time for each other?”

 

When you express yourself this way, your boyfriend will understand that you care about his family.

 

He will know that he is spending too much time on calls with his family and that he doesn’t give you the time and attention you deserve.

 

If he loves you and cares about you, he will do the right thing so that you don’t feel neglected.

 

But if he doesn’t care about you, he is tired of listening to you since you always complain to him about everything in your apartment and if there is a conflict between the two of you that you have never resolved he will never listen to you.

 

This is to remind you that if you did anything to make your boyfriend choose to be always on phone with his family then you should do something about it.

 

If there is a conflict between the two of you, find a way to fix things and this will take things back to normal.

 

Additionally, don’t be afraid to let your boyfriend know how you feel about him being on phone always with his family.

 

This is the only thing that will let him know that you are not okay with what he is doing.

 

And if he is an understanding partner, he will take into consideration what you told him.

 

4. Ask him to give you his attention and time.

Your boyfriend is always on phone with his family because he thinks you don’t need his time and attention.

 

Did you know that the way you handle yourself when your boyfriend is around you determines whether he will give you his time and attention or not?

 

Don’t expect your boyfriend to give you his time and attention if you don’t give him that.

 

A relationship is always two-way traffic. You have to give something to your partner to be motivated to do so.

 

I know you may ask me how this relates to him being always on phone with his family.

 

If you don’t give your boyfriend time and attention, he will find someone else who will do that.

 

And this may be the same reason why he is always on phone with his family.

 

His family gives him the attention and time that he is missing from you.

 

For instance, if you are always busy on your phone texting or calling, you are busy with your make-up and you don’t initiate any conversations with your boyfriend he will choose to give his attention and time to his family.

 

So, before you think of asking your boyfriend to give you his attention and time, you have to ensure that you are doing the same.

 

The moment you give your boyfriend time and attention he will feel guilty if he doesn’t do the same.

 

He will do everything to ensure that you get the same time and attention you give him.

 

But if you give him your full attention and time but he always talks to his family over the phone and forgets that you are around him then you should ask him to give you attention and time.

 

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Let him know that you need his time and attention because you feel left out in that relationship.

 

This is what will make him reduce the amount of time he is always on phone with his family.

 

He will make time for you and give you his attention if he loves and cares about you.

 

5. If he won’t give you his attention and time distance yourself from him.

After you have tried everything I have shared with you in this article and he does nothing to change that then this is the only thing you should do.

 

You should distance yourself from him if he doesn’t want to give you his time and attention.

 

When you distance yourself from him, you will be able to know if he cares about you or not.

 

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Once you distance yourself from him after you have done everything to make him give you his time and attention he will know that you are mad at him.

 

He will get closer to you trying to fix things with you and this is when you will have the upper hand.

 

You will make your demands if he wants you to be closer to him again.

 

Let your boyfriend know that he should reduce the amount of time he spends on the phone with his family if he wants things to go back to normal.

 

But if you will distance yourself and he doesn’t bother getting closer to you and fixing things, just know that he doesn’t care about you at all.

 

It can be that he is taking you for granted and you should just walk away.

 

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If a guy loves you, he will give you his time and attention no matter the issues he is dealing with.

 

Lastly…

 

When your boyfriend is always on phone with his family and yet there is nothing your boyfriend is talking about except normal greetings then you should talk to him about it.

 

Let your boyfriend know that it’s okay for him to be on phone calls with his family but he has also to consider the amount of time he spends talking to them.

 

Tell your boyfriend that you need his time and attention and he should balance the time he spends on the phone with his family.

 

If there is something crucial that keeps your boyfriend always on phone with his family, you should help him out by fixing that issue.

 

Helping him out will make him spend less time on the phone with his family, it will strengthen your relationship with him and your relationship with his family will be epic.

 

Don’t just tell your boyfriend that you want him to stop talking to his family over the phone.

 

This might bring a conflict between the two of you.

 

How would you feel if your boyfriend tells you to stop talking to your mom over the phone?

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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