If Your Boyfriend Never Takes You Out On Dates (Know This)

If your boyfriend never takes you out on dates then that can mean that he doesn’t have time for you but there is more to it.

 

In a relationship, we all expect to spend time with the people we love.

 

Dates are a very important aspect of a relationship. So, if your boyfriend is avoiding them then there is a big problem in your relationship.

 

If your boyfriend never takes you out on dates it means that he doesn’t want to spend time with you. It can also mean that he has his focus and priority on someone else. If he really had his heart and attention on you then he would want to take you out frequently.

 

If you are dating him and he doesn’t want to take you out on dates then ask yourself, who is he taking out for dates?

 

Anyway, there might be several reasons why he never takes you out on dates.

 

These are some of the reasons why your boyfriend never takes you out on dates;

  1. He never takes you out on dates because he is too busy for you.
  2. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t want to spend time with you.
  3. He never takes you out on dates because he only prefers having you indoors.
  4. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t find you attractive or he feels embarrassed by how you look.
  5. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t have an interest in you at all.
  6. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t want to spend on you. This is especially if, he is struggling financially.
  7. He never takes you out on dates because he wants to keep the relationship between the two of you a secret.
  8. He never takes you out on dates because has someone else who he prefers taking out on dates other than you.
  9. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t know how to ask you out on a date.
  10. He never takes you out on dates because he doesn’t want to.
  11. He never takes you out on dates because he knows that you like hanging out and chilling indoors with him.
  12. He never takes out on dates because he is not yet ready.

 

These are some of the reasons why he never takes you out on dates.

 

When your boyfriend doesn’t want to take you out for dates then you have to find out why he doesn’t do it.

 

This is because the time you spend together has very significant importance on the growth of your relationship.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t take you out on dates then find a way to make him take you out.

 

My boyfriend never takes me out or buys me anything.

 

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If your boyfriend never takes you out or buys you anything then it can be that your relationship is losing its touch.

 

When this happens then you have to check the status of your relationship. For instance, if your relationship is complicated then don’t expect your boyfriend to be taking you out on dates.

 

Anyway, I will share with you what you can do if your boyfriend never takes you out on dates.

 

If your boyfriend never takes you out or buys you anything then it can mean that his interest in you and the relationship is fading gradually. It can also mean that he has someone else who he gives his attention that is why he has forgotten about you and the relationship.

 

The truth of the matter is that if he still had his heart on you and his focus on the growth of your relationship then he would have made an effort to take you out on dates and bring you gifts.

 

This is the whole truth, your relationship is falling apart and you have to find out why.

 

The moment your boyfriend doesn’t give you his attention then he will forget about what matters for the growth of your relationship.

 

He won’t spend time with you, he will be distant from you, and he will rarely call you or text you.

 

So, if your boyfriend never takes you out on dates then this is one of the signs that he doesn’t give the relationship a priority.

 

What should I do if my boyfriend doesn’t take me out on dates?

If your boyfriend doesn’t take you out on dates then this is what you can do.

 

Do this if your boyfriend doesn’t take you out on dates;

 

1. Find out why he doesn’t want to take out on dates.

 

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This is the first thing you should do if he doesn’t want to take out on dates. Try to find out why he doesn’t want to.

 

These reasons will help with an idea of where to start fixing this challenge in your relationship.

 

You can start by asking him why he doesn’t want to take you on dates.

 

You never know maybe he has a reason why he doesn’t want to.

 

So, don’t do anything that will make him mad and eventually ruin your relationship.

 

For these reasons, you will have a clue about where to start fixing things.

 

2. Fix the issues that bring complications to your relationship.

Don’t expect your boyfriend to take you out if the relationship has so many issues that keep dragging it down.

 

If the relationship has so many unresolved conflicts, and you always keep on fighting then don’t expect your boyfriend to have the guts to take you out on a date.

 

You have to make sure that everything in your relationship is running swiftly.

 

If you know there is a conflict that you have never resolved then it’s time to make things right.

 

Sit down with him and have a mature conversation about the issues that make your relationship go sideways.

 

Make him happy, apologize to him, if you did something wrong and take the relationship to its initial state.

 

If he is happy with you and the way the relationship progresses then he will eventually take you out on dates and spend more time with you.

 

3. Tell him that you would like to go out with him.

 

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This is something else you can do if he doesn’t take you out on dates.

 

You don’t have to wait for him to make a move in a relationship.

 

It’s not always the man who is supposed to ask the woman out on a date.

 

You can also take the initiative.

 

I’m pretty sure if you ask him out on a date then he won’t say no as long as he still loves you.

 

So, take the lead to tell him that you would like to go out with him.

 

Make the effort of planning the date and ask him out, next time he will end up doing the same and the cycle will keep on going.

 

4. Get his full attention.

If your boyfriend doesn’t have his attention to you then there are so many things that he can forget to do with you.

 

This is something that can happen to anyone in a relationship.

 

You can lose your attention to the person you love just like the way people lose interest in relationships sometimes.

 

You can get his attention back by spending more time with him, checking on him every single day, sending him sweet morning and good night texts and buying him gifts.

 

If you want to know what you can do more on getting his attention then check out this article.

 

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When you manage to get his full attention then he will shift his focus on you and he will obviously want to spend more time with you.

 

A relationship will work best if both of you will be making efforts on it. That is why one-sided relationships always end up failing.

 

Don’t wait for him to make effort on making things right in the relationship, you can also do that.

 

5. Pretend you want to go out with your male friends.

 

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This is another amazing way you can make your boyfriend take you out on dates.

 

When you tell him that you are planning to go out with your male friends then he will obviously get jealous.

 

If he really loves you then he wouldn’t want you to go out with your male friends without him being there with you.

 

He will eventually tell you that he would like to go out with you too.

 

This is a tricky way of getting him to take you out on a date without even making so much effort.

 

So, just get dressed in a way that you know he can’t resist taking you off his eyes and pretend that you are going out with your male friends.

 

He will come along eventually.

 

6. Give him the time he will eventually take you out when he is ready.

If he hasn’t taken you out on a date and you talked about it with him then just give him time.

 

He might not yet be ready to take you on a date.

 

You never know he is dealing with some issues that he wants to fix before taking you out.

 

So, be patient with him if you have tried everything you can to make him take you out on a date.

 

He will eventually take you out when he is ready.

 

These are just some of the few ways you can use to make your boyfriend take you out on a date.

 

Should I ask my boyfriend to take me out on a date?

 

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Don’t be afraid to ask your boyfriend to take you out on a date.

 

You should ask your boyfriend to take you out on a date if he doesn’t ask you out. Take an initiative and this will make him take you out. You don’t have to wait for him to ask you out on a date.

 

 You never know maybe he is too shy to ask you out on a date.

 

Or it can be that he has even forgotten if he has to take you out because of his tight schedule.

 

It’s totally okay to ask your boyfriend to take you out on a date if he doesn’t. Everyone has to make an effort in the relationship to keep it going. So, don’t feel you are being awkward when you ask your boyfriend out on a date.

 

Before I conclude I would like you to know this.

 

If you have asked your boyfriend to take you out on a date and he keeps on cancelling and rescheduling the dates without making up to you on a single date then this means he is slowly pulling away from you.

 

When your boyfriend stops making effort for the relationship; he stops making up for dates, he doesn’t bother to keep the communication going, he is too busy for you and he keeps on ignoring you then this means that he loves you as much as he used to.

 

It can also mean that his interest in you is fading gradually which is why he is not committed to the relationship at all.

 

When you notice this then your relationship is falling apart and you should find a way to fix it before it fails.

 

Lastly…

If your boyfriend never takes you out then it’s your responsibility too to ask him why he never takes you out.

 

This is because everyone in that relationship has the responsibility to make the relationship keep going.

 

Try to fix any complications in your relationship; if there are so many unresolved conflicts find a way to resolve them. This is because the state of your relationship depends so much on whether your boyfriend will have time for you or not.

 

Anyway, if you have a question or additional point you want me to add to this article just leave your comment. I will get back to you as soon as I can.

 

 

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