In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why your boyfriend is not attracted to you.
This is very important for you to know because some of these reasons may be the solutions to make him see you attractive again.
To be honest, the way you see someone you love in some cases can change due to several reasons.
I will share these reasons with you so that you understand what I mean by this.
This is why your boyfriend is not attracted to you;
1. You changed how you used to be.
If your boyfriend used to find you attractive and right now he finds you unattractive then it’s because you changed.
This is the first reason why your boyfriend is not attracted to you.
To be honest, if you are someone who likes to keep yourself pretty by making sure you are always clean your boyfriend will notice that.
He will observe you every now and then when you are applying make-up on your face and he will get used to these things that you do every day that makes you pretty.
So, if your boyfriend is used only to seeing you when you are on makeup the moment he sees you without makeup do you think he will find you attractive?
Also, when your boyfriend is used to seeing you making yourself pretty by making sure you are clean and organized when he later finds you to be dirty do you think he will find you to be attractive?
All these questions answer how he will perceive you when you change your system.
If you change the usual things that you do that make him find you attractive then he will end up finding you unattractive.
2. His feelings for you are gradually fading.
Your boyfriend’s feelings play a big role in how he sees you.
When someone is deeply in love with you and his feelings for you are at their peak, he will find you to be so attractive even if you are not.
Everything about you to that person will look amazing simply because he has feelings for you.
But when these feelings change then that person might see otherwise.
He will end up finding you not to be attractive as you were when he was so much in love with you.
I can tell you that this is the case with your boyfriend. If his feelings for you are gradually fading then this will make him find you to be less of how you used to look.
Since his feelings for you are vanishing he will start seeing you as unattractive and he will see the faults that he never saw when he was in love with you.
So, if your boyfriend’s feelings are fading then this could be the main reason why he is not attracted to you.
Do you know why they say, “Love is blind”?
They say it that way because when someone is in love he will never see any fault in that person since the love will magnify everything to be magnificent.
Now, think about what will happen when the love is stripped off from that person.
3. He is attracted to another woman.
This is another reason why your boyfriend is not attracted to you.
Your boyfriend is currently attracted to another woman. His focus is on another woman and that is why he is not attracted to you.
The moment a guy is into another person while he is in a relationship he will find his partner to be unattractive.
This will happen since his feelings and love have shifted from his partner to someone else.
And when this happens it will be very hard for your boyfriend to find you attractive because his focus is on another girl.
So, if he doesn’t find you attractive it’s that his focus is on someone else he finds more important than you.
There are several reasons why your boyfriend may be attracted to another woman.
This is the same way cheating ends up happening. When your boyfriend finds another woman attractive he will focus so much on her and he will end up going for her.
He will leave you behind since he doesn’t find you to be attractive and he will eventually find himself cheating on you.
4. He was only in love with you due to your physical appearance.
For a relationship to be great people have to love each other not because of how they look.
Looks can deceive you sometimes and you will end up finding yourself stuck in a relationship with someone you don’t love.
So, if the only reason he fell in love with you is how amazing you look then this could be the main reason why he doesn’t find you attractive now.
When a guy is in love with you only because of your physical appearance when one thing changes then how he perceives you will also change.
If he was only in love with you because of your appearance and not your character then this could be the reason why he doesn’t find you attractive currently.
You have to know that as time goes by the beauty of a person changes.
As you grow older your attractiveness will start to shift in another direction.
And someone who only loved you because of how you look will eventually start to find you unattractive.
If your boyfriend loved you not only for how you look but also for your personality then the change in your beauty could have never made him find you unattractive.
5. He compares you too much with other girls.
If your boyfriend has the habit of comparing you to other girls then this could be the reason why he doesn’t find you attractive.
You have to understand that every girl has something unique in her body.
We have those who were blessed with beautiful hair, those with amazing lips, those with blue eyes, those with amazing chests, and so forth.
What I’m trying to say is that everyone is beautiful in her own way.
It can be that you are attractive to your boyfriend because of certain things.
You never know maybe he finds your face so pretty or he is in love with your shape.
But when he starts comparing you to other women and finds out that other women have more amazing faces and shapes then this will eventually make him wish you more like those women.
And when this happens, it will stick in his head that how you look can’t beat how the other girls look.
Though he may not have the intentions of cheating on you he will never find you as attractive as you used to be.
This is all brought about by him comparing you to other women.
If your boyfriend doesn’t find you attractive try to figure out what you changed in yourself so that you can restore it. If you used to apply make-up and you no longer do it then you will have to go back to your routine.
Also, if you had a system that you used to follow and you no longer follow it then it will be hard for him to find you attractive.
So, if you had something that you were doing that made him find you attractive and you stopped doing it then you have to restore the system too.
When you manage to do this then he will be able to find you attractive again.
But if you notice that he is distant lately, then you have to try and find a way to bring him closer to you. Revive his feelings for you and he will eventually find you attractive again.
Anyway, these are some of the things that will help you to capture his eyes and heart back to you.
You have to know that there is no way you can change how he perceives you.
He can find you attractive when he wants to.
But if his focus is on someone else then how he sees you will change.
Thanks for reading this article, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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