If your boyfriend wants you only for your body should you break up with him? In this article, I will share with you what to do when your boyfriend only wants you for your body.
I know this can be an issue that might be confusing you, and you don’t know if he loves you or he is just using you for sex.
So, without wasting time, let me share with you what you can do about this issue.
What to do when your boyfriend only wants you for your body;
1. Stop giving him what he wants.
When your boyfriend wants you only for your body the first thing you should do is to stop giving him what he wants.
Since you have an idea that the only thing that he cares about is sex then you should stop giving it to him.
This is because if you know that your boyfriend only wants you for sex and you keep giving it to him there is no way you will stop this habit.
Your boyfriend will never change.
The only way he will perceive you is as a sex object. And you will end up hating yourself and the relationship at large.
I know you may be wondering why I said you stop giving him sex instead of breaking up with him.
The main reason why I have told you to stop giving him what he wants is to find a way to change him.
You don’t have to break up with your boyfriend immediately when you find out that he only wants you for sex.
It can be that he is addicted to sex and this has turn to be a disease that you don’t know about.
If you break up with him suddenly then this will be wrong, and you will end up losing what you have been building for so long.
It’s always better to fix your current relationship than to build a new one.
So, fight for your relationship first before you think of letting it go.
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I will share with you when you should let go of him in this relationship in this article.
2. Observe what he will do about it.
Now that you have stopped giving him what he wants, which is your body, take your time to observe him and see what he will do about it.
If your boyfriend only wants you for sex then he will make a big deal out of this.
The way he will behave is what you will use to take your next action.
If he will storm on you for not giving him what he wants even without asking you how you feel or what is going on with you then this is a sign your boyfriend is completely in for you because of sex.
But if he will get close to you, be concerned about you and ask you what is going on with you then know that your boyfriend loves you and it’s not that he is only with you for your body.
The only thing is that he likes doing it a lot and that is why you think he only wants you for your body.
A guy who only wants you for your body will never care about you. He will only care about what he wants from you.
So, if this is what you see from your boyfriend after you have stopped giving him sex then know that he only wants you for sex and you should be real with him.
And this leads us to the next thing to do.
3. Let him know how you feel about it.
If your boyfriend pushes you away after you have stopped giving him sex and he doesn’t want anything to do with you then you should talk to him about it.
Be frank with him about how you feel. Let him know that you are not happy with the fact that the only thing he wants from you is sex and he doesn’t care about you.
You must talk to him for him to understand how you feel about this issue.
Don’t just assume that your boyfriend knows what you feel.
It can be that he doesn’t even know if he thinks he is using you for sex.
Talk to him about this issue and see how he will respond to it.
The way he will respond to you after you have told him about this issue is what will lead you to your next step.
When you get his response you will be completely sure of how he perceives you.
If he perceives you as a sex object then you will know it and if it’s the opposite of that you will know too.
The response he will give you is what you will need to make your final decision.
4. If he won’t change do the necessary thing.
If after talking to your boyfriend about this issue he doesn’t want to change the way he perceives you, he makes a big deal out of this and even threatens to end the relationship, do the right thing.
To this point, you are sure enough that your boyfriend only wants you for your body.
The best thing to do is to end the relationship with him.
No matter how you feel about him you will have to step on your feelings and walk away from him.
Your boyfriend is using you and there is no love between the two of you.
And this relationship is toxic.
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If you stick with him then know that he will only be using you for sex and there are no goals that you will accomplish.
Once he will be done with you he will get rid of you.
The best thing is to walk away from him. If you don’t know how to do that then check out the article below.
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When you find out that your boyfriend only wants you for your body the first thing you should do is to stop giving him what he wants and observe how he will react to it.
This is the part where you will get to know if there is any love left for you or it’s just lust.
If your boyfriend will never care about you and the only thing he will do is storm on you, push you away and disrespect you simply because you haven’t given him what he wants then know that he is using you for sure.
He doesn’t love you at all. The only thing that is left for you is lust.
And if your relationship is driven by lust it will never go anywhere.
There is no future here, and you should end the relationship.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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