Your boyfriend is quiet around you simply because he doesn’t know what to say to you and he can be so deep into his own thoughts, but there is more to it.
There are several reasons that might have made your boyfriend quiet around you.
These reasons are the ones I’m going to be talking about.
This is why your boyfriend is quiet around you;
1. Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he is stressed.
Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he is stressed.
Most guys when they are stressed about something will either be angry at you or will be silent.
Some of the guys keep quiet and fall deep in their own thoughts thinking of how they can solve the matters that bother them.
It is obvious that when a guy is stressed his mood will change. If you have known him to be that talkative guy that will change.
I am a very talkative guy but when I’m stressed my mood usually changes and I prefer to talk less or not to talk at all.
So, if you know your boyfriend is always a talkative person and suddenly he decides to be quiet around you then know that there is something bothering him.
There must be issues that make him lose his usual moods when he is around you.
So, get to know what’s is wrong with him.
2. He is quiet around you because he doesn’t have something to talk about.
This might be the second reason why he is quiet around you.
The moment a guy has something to talk about with you he will keep the conversation going.
If it’s something interesting he will never stop talking to you about it.
At the same time if a guy has nothing to talk about and you have no topic to talk about then he will choose to keep quiet around you.
He will keep quiet and just enjoy his moment of silence with you unless you come up with a topic to talk about.
So, if your boyfriend doesn’t have anything to talk about he will be quiet around you.
Also, if he is tired then he can be quiet around you.
I hope you know that talking needs energy. So, if he is from work or he had been doing something quite tiresome then he will never talk around you.
He will be quiet until he gets enough time to rest is when he will start talking to you.
3. Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he is bored.
When a guy is bored with a certain situation then he will not be active.
This is because for someone to keep talking there has to be an amazing topic to talk about.
If the topic is amazing it’s obvious that it’s not boring.
So, if he is around you and he is quiet which you know it’s not one of his gifts then know that he is bored.
It will be up to you to come up with something to make him start talking instead of being quiet around you.
Anyway, it’s usually that when people are bored they will keep quiet.
If he is bored then search for an activity that can make him active and start talking to you.
You can also decide to play any games with him if you find his silence something that doesn’t make you comfortable.
4. Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he doesn’t want to annoy you.
If your boyfriend feels that he will annoy you when he starts talking then he will be quiet around you.
We all have behaviour that our partners hate but they are part of who we are, right?
If your boyfriend knows that whenever he speaks when he is with you will always lead to an argument then he will prefer to be quiet around you.
He doesn’t have to mess up the good time that you are having together and that is why he chooses to be quiet.
Also, if he knows you are not in good mood and he knows you can get mad easily with simple phrases or jokes then he will keep quiet around you.
Anyway, if he is also not in good mood then he will choose not to talk. He will be quiet.
It’s normal for everyone to experience mood changes. There are days we will wake up and we will feel like shouting and there are some days we will wake up feeling so low.
These are the days that we will all be quiet and not excited to talk about anything.
5. Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he is hiding something from you.
If he is hiding something from you then he will be quiet around you.
As I talked about it in my other blog when I was talking about the advantages and disadvantages of keeping secrets that when someone has the habit of keeping secrets then he will be so cautious.
People who are used to keeping secrets are usually cautious.
They are cautious because they know talking about details that they are hiding can mess things up.
It’s a secret that they are hiding, so if they spit even one word that they should be sharing then this might make them fall into problems.
So, if your boyfriend is hiding something from you and he knows that it will be very hard for him to talk to you without spilling the secret then he will prefer to be quiet.
He knows that if he starts talking he might find himself in a situation where he tells you everything that he is hiding.
He is cautious of not saying the wrong words to you that is why he is quiet.
6. Your boyfriend is quiet around you because he just wants to have a moment of silence around you.
Don’t think too much of this situation of him being quiet around you. It can be that he is just silent because he wants to enjoy the moment of silence around you.
Sometimes people prefer to be around each other and just be silent and enjoy each other’s company.
Some of the best moments and memories that a couple can create with each other is spending time together in a moment of silence, just watching the sky or the ocean.
If you have never tried it then give it a shot. I’m sure you will like it.
So, if he just wants to be silent and enjoy the moment with you with nothing disruptive then he will prefer to chill with you and keep quiet.
If your boyfriend is quiet around you all of a sudden then know that there is something wrong with him. This is especially is not the type of a guy to keep quiet around you. Get to know what is bothering him.
If you sense that there is something wrong with his silence then don’t ignore it.
Talk to him and let him tell you what is bothering him. That is exactly how partners should check on each other.
Also, if he is quiet around you and he seems happy to be that way then just know that he wants to enjoy the moment with you in silence. It can be that he just wants to be quiet and fall deep in his feelings for you.
If your boyfriend is silent around you and you notice him being unusual, as in he doesn’t say anything when you talk to him then he might be hiding something from you.
He knows that he can’t lie to you about anything and that is why he chooses not to speak to you.
Do you have any questions? Leave your comment. Thanks for reading. See you in my next article.
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