If your boyfriend wants you back after a break up and you don’t know what to do then here is something you need to know.
In this article, I will share with you what to do when your boyfriend wants you back after a break up.
Don’t be surprised, this is something that happens. People break up and get back together.
It can be that your boyfriend realized he can’t do without you and that is why he wants you back.
Without wasting much time on the introduction, let me share with you what you need to do about this.
What to do when your boyfriend wants you back after break up;
1. Think of what made you break up in the first place.
If your boyfriend wants you back after a break up, don’t kick him away right away.
There are some things you have to consider before you decide to kick him away or let him in.
If he wants you back after the break up the first thing you should ask yourself is what made you break up.
Think of what made you break up before you even decide to do anything.
If you broke up simply because he cheated on you with his ex or he hurt you in any way you will have to think if it’s worth it for you to let him in again.
Does the reason that made you break up with him allow you to let him in your life again?
Don’t let him in if you break up with him because he was toxic.
If he was controlling you, hurting you and disrespecting you then you should never give him a chance.
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Also, if you broke up with him because he hurt you and he never cared to apologise then don’t let him back in your life again.
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If he let you go and now he wants you back then don’t give him a second chance because there is a possibility he will do it again.
2. If you are single consider listening to him.
if he wants you back after the break then you should not be quick in kicking him away.
Take your time to listen to what he has to say. You never know maybe he has changed and that is why he came back to you.
If you don’t have anyone else in your life listen to him. It won’t hurt to listen to what he has to say.
Observe how he express his feelings to you. This is what will enable you to know if he is the same person who broke up with you or not.
You have to know that you have the upper hand here. He is the one begging you to take him back again.
So, don’t be in a hurry to push him away or block him.
On the other hand, if you are in a relationship and you are so happy then don’t bother listening to him.
The only thing you can do is to ignore him or block him if he keeps disturbing you.
This is because if you start listening to what he has to say he may corrupt your mind.
And this will be the first step of you ruining your current relationship.
There is no need for you to mess up your relationship with an ex who hurt your feelings.
If you are single then you should consider continuing to read the section below.
on the other hand, if you are in a relationship this is the last part you will read.
Anyway, if you want to continue reading go ahead and learn more about it, it might help you in future.
3. If you have feelings for him let him in.
He wants you back, do you have feelings for him?
If the reason that made you break up in the first place allows you to take him in then how you feel about him is what you should consider next.
But if the reason that made you break up doesn’t allow you to take him back then you will have to kick him away no matter how you feel about him.
You don’t want to take someone back in your life and regret it later on.
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So, if you have feelings for him, you can’t do without him and you are single then you should think of letting him in.
This is because we all make mistakes sometimes but the best ones are those who recognize them.
If he admits what he did was wrong and he wants you back and he is ready to change then give him a shot.
The break up taught him so much and this time he will know how to manage the relationship.
This time he will handle you better and your relationship with him will be great because he knows what it feels like to live without you.
If he came back after the break up this shows that he truly loves you and you should consider giving him a second chance.
4. If you are not sure about how you feel keep him on wait.
If your boyfriend wants you back after the break up and you don’t know how you feel about him yet then you should keep him on wait.
This means you should not kick him away or let him in. You should just keep him around.
When you do this you will be able to know if you are still into him, you will know if he truly wants you and if he is real with you or just toying with your feelings.
The more you keep him around you will start to find if you have feelings for him or not.
This is because after a break up people switch their feelings. People usually change love into hate for the person who hurt them.
So, when he suddenly comes back claiming he needs you this might make you be confused about how you feel for him.
The longer you keep him around and talk to him the better you will realize how you feel about him.
If the vibe between the two is still awesome then you will know that you still feel him.
But if things don’t connect then you will know you don’t feel anything for him and this means you should not let him in.
Also, if you keep him on wait for longer you will get to know his intentions.
If he was just toying with your feelings and he wanted to use you then he will not be patient and he will walk away.
But if he is real he will be patient.
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5. Make your decision about how you feel about him.
If you have kept him on the wait and you have found that you have feelings for him then you should let him in if that is what you feel.
Don’t let him if you don’t have feelings for him no matter how much you pity him.
This is because what you feel for him is what will either make the relationship great or worse.
If he wants you back after a break up and you don’t feel anything for him then be honest with him.
When he wants you back and you are in another happy relationship then you should not let him.
Get rid of him and focus on your current relationship.
If your boyfriend wants you back after a break then you should first find out if the reason that made you break up with him allows you to let him in again.
Don’t let him in if he was a toxic person no matter how you feel about him.
But if you broke up on good terms, you are still single and you have feelings for him then you should let him in.
If you don’t have feelings for him then don’t force any connection with him.
Be real with him and let him go.
Anyway, I hope this article, has helped you. If you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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