Your Boyfriend Wants You To Move In With Him? (Know This)

Does your boyfriend want you to move in with him? How do you feel about it?



I know you might be feeling excited about and tense at the same time.

For the person who is considering moving in with her boyfriend you probably have so many questions about it.

Don’t worry about that, I’m going to help you with almost everything you need to know about moving in with him.



My boyfriend wants me to move in with him.


Moving in with your boyfriend is a big deal. The main reason why I’m saying this is that moving with him shows that there is a commitment between the two of you. This is a big step in your relationship.



Moving in with your boyfriend it’s not a bad idea at all.



If he made the choice of asking you to move in with him then you should be happy about it.



It shows that he is fully into you, he is ready to invest his feelings and time in you.



The other thing is that when he asks you to move in with him it shows that he is ready to settle down with you.



Also, if you are aiming for a long term relationship that can, later on, turn into marriage then make a point of moving together.



Moving together can be a great opportunity for the two of you to get to know each other deeply.



These are the benefits of moving in together with your boyfriend;

  • You get to spend quality time together thus strengthening your relationship bond.
  • You will get the opportunity to understand your partner deeply.
  • You will be able to get to know the kind of life your partner prefers.
  • Moving in together with your boyfriend will make it easier for you to know the kind of person he is.
  • Moving in together will help you to get prepared for the future that you are about to make together.
  • Moving in together will make it easier for the two of you to focus on building and supporting each other.
  • Moving in with your boyfriend will help you understand his motives in your relationship.
  • Moving in with your boyfriend will help you to know the kind of person he expects you to be.


There are so many benefits of moving together with your boyfriend.

As you know there is always pros and cons of moving in together with your boyfriend.



So, I will mention to you some of the disadvantages of moving in together with your boyfriend.



These are the disadvantages of moving in together with your boyfriend;

  • Your daily routine might change to be in a way that you don’t like and this will obviously stress you.
  • Adjusting to the new change of moving together can take a while and this might make you feel uncomfortable.
  • You might end up feeling that your privacy is intruded on if you aren’t used to staying with someone.
  • You will find it hard to concentrate on your studies because excitement might be too much to handle.
  • You will rarely study when you are in your room because your boyfriend will always be available.
  • Sometimes if you are both not stable financially you can have a problem with your expenses.
  • You might end up losing the vibe on each other too soon.
  • You will obviously enter into fights and arguments when you least expect.


These are just a few cons of moving in together with your boyfriend.



You have to know that everything that has a positive outcome will also have a negative one.



So, move in with him prepared psychologically to come across the negatives too.



My boyfriend wants me to move in with him but I’m not ready.


Moving in can be a stressful thing. So, make sure that you think this through before going forward on moving in with him.



If your boyfriend wants you to move in with him but you aren’t ready to do so then don’t force yourself. Don’t do something that you aren’t comfortable with. Trust your instincts, if you don’t feel it’s right then don’t do it.



If you feel that you will be pressured so much when you move in with him then there is no need to do it.



It may be that he is asking you to move in with him so soon that is why you are not ready.



Before you move in with your boyfriend you have to discuss with him and make your options available for him to know what you are thinking about it.



If you are not ready to move in with him then let him know that you aren’t ready to do it.


A person who is understanding will let you choose what is best for you.

 

My boyfriend wants me to move in with him after 2 months


As I said earlier before moving in with your boyfriend you should have a conversation with him about it.



If your boyfriend wants you to move in with him after 2 to 5 months and you feel comfortable then there is no problem doing it. When you feel that it’s too early for you then you can be open about it and tell him that it’s too early to move in.

 

This is all up to you, this decision is in your own hands. Do what you feel it’s right for you.



Although this is all up to you there is something I would like to share with you.



If he wants you to move in after 2 weeks then I wouldn’t advise you to do it. The main reason why I’m saying this is too early to move in. You will be moving very fast in that relationship and it never ends up well.

 

Take your time to know him first before considering moving in with him. I would recommend that you move in at least after 2 months. Any period before that will be considered moving too fast in a relationship.



You might like this: why relationships that move too fast fail (+how to fix it)

 

How long should you be dating before you move in together?


If you have been dating for about 5 months and you feel that it’s right to move in with him then you can do it.



You should be dating for at least 5 months before you decide to move in together with your partner. If you still feel that it’s too soon to move in together with him then take as much time as want until when you are ready to move in together.



Is it too soon to move in together after 3 months.


If you are asking yourself it is too soon to move in together after 3 months then you should know this.



It’s not too soon to move in together after 3 months with your partner. When you feel you are ready to move in together even in the second month then go ahead. Moving in, in less than a month, that is too soon.

 

Let not the time measure keep you from doing what’s is good for you.



If you feel that you are ready to move in with him even in the first month of dating then do it.



Do it if you feel that your relationship is going on at a good pace and it’s perfectly healthy and free from all dramas.



Moving in with your partner in less than two months is considered too soon. Moving that fast in a relationship might end up ruining everything in a spur of a second.



The main reason why I don’t recommend you to move in with him in less than two months is to observe your relationship first.



It’s not right to do things in haste.

 

 

Can moving in too soon ruin a relationship?


There are consequences of moving in too soon in a relationship.



So, if you are wondering whether moving too soon can ruin your relationship then know this.



Moving in too soon can ruin your relationship because you aren’t actually prepared enough and you don’t know each other that well to start living together. Constant and endless fights due to misunderstanding might end up ruining your relationship.

 


Think carefully before you move in with your partner.



If you aren’t ready to settle then never think of moving in because it will never work the way you expect it.



Is it normal to fight after moving in together?


I remember the article I wrote in Her Beauty that I was talking about the facts about relationships I mentioned fighting.



Fighting will happen in any relationship as long as you are all humans.



So, if couples can have a fight even if they haven’t moved in together, do you expect not to have a fight after moving in together?



It is completely normal to fight after moving together especially, in the beginning. Since you are not used to the situation of staying together you will fight about silly and petty issues like misplacement of your comb and charger. You should expect this to happen.



Is it normal to have doubts before moving in together?


Moving in together isn’t a small issue. It’s a big deal so everyone in the relationship might be clouded with doubts.



Having doubts before and after moving in together is something normal and you should expect it. The feeling of how your partner will perceive you after moving, the fear of feelings decreasing and so many other things include insecurities about yourself might pop up.

 

These doubts you will experience in the beginning before moving in and after moving in.



After some few weeks together they will all vanish.



# Lastly…

If your boyfriend wants you to move in with him and you don’t feel ready to do it then don’t force yourself. Do it of your own free will.



You should never rush in moving in with your boyfriend, before moving in with him consider some few things.



These are some of the questions you should ask yourself before moving in with him;

  • Is he serious about moving in with you?
  • Is he capable of handling your needs and giving you what you may want?
  • Does he really look like someone who wants to settle?
  • Does he really love you or does he just want to use you?
  • Are you comfortable moving in with him?
  • How long have you been dating?



With these few questions, you might eventually come up with a conclusion if you are truly ready to move in with him.



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