Boyfriend Wants Me To Get Rid Of My Guy Friends: Do This

If your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends then this is something you should know.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do when your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends.

 

Your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends because he is jealous and insecure.

 

There is nothing else that makes him ask you of this except these feelings.

 

But if it’s due to other issues, then you will know about them in this article.

 

So, if you don’t know how to handle this then you will end up ruining your relationship or losing all your guy friends.

 

If you want to keep these both then continue reading the article.

 

What to do when your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends;

1. Find out why he wants you to get rid of them.

When your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends then the first thing you should do is to find out why he wants you to do it.

 

Your boyfriend may be right in telling you to get rid of them or he may be wrong.

 

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So, when your boyfriend tells you to get rid of your guy friends then the first thing you should do is to find out the main reason why he wants you to do it.

 

Don’t say you will get rid of them or you won’t get rid of them until you come up with these reasons.

 

When you give him a direct response without finding out why he wants you to do it then you will end up messing up your relationship.

 

Since he is the one who wants you to get rid of these guys friends confront him and ask him why he wants you to do it.

 

Let him tell you why he wants you to cut them off.

 

Collect all those reasons because you will need them to fix this issue.

 

2. Fix any misunderstanding between the two of you.

Now that you have all the reasons why your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends this is what you should do next.

 

You should try to fix any misunderstandings between the two of you before you think of doing anything.

 

The reasons that your boyfriend gave you are what we will use in this section.

 

If your boyfriend told you to get rid of your guy friends simply because you spend so much time with them then this is something you should fix.

 

The only way to keep your guy friends is if you stop spending much time with them.

 

Spend more time with your boyfriend than your guy friends and give him all the attention he wants.

 

If he notices this change then he will not bother to ask you to cut off your guy friends because they don’t pose any threat to your relationship.

 

Also, you have to know that if you are spending more time with your guy friends than your boyfriend this is something wrong and it can end up destroying your relationship.

 

If this is the main reason why he told you to cut them off then you have to assure him there is no need for you to do it because you will take care of that issue.

 

Make a promise to him that you will change that situation and he will let your guy friends stay.

 

Try to solve any issue that makes your boyfriend ask you to get rid of your guy friends.

 

If there are some of your guy friends that flirt with you because they are too comfortable with you then you will have to take action on this issue.

 

This may be the main issue that makes your boyfriend perceive all your guy friends that way.

 

So, talk to your guy friends and ask them to respect you because you are in a relationship and you won’t tolerate them flirting with you.

 

These are some of the things you should do if you care so much about keeping your guy friends.

 

Fix the issues and talk to your boyfriend about it.

 

But if there is nothing reasonable that makes your boyfriend want you to cut off your guy friends except him to be insecure and jealous then you should make a point of talking to him.

 

3. Let him know what your guy friends mean to you.

If your boyfriend wants you to get rid of your guy friends simply because he is jealous and insecure then you should talk to him about this issue.

 

Let him know what your guy friends mean to you before he decides to ask you to make that decision.

 

Explain to him why you have those guy friends and tell him why they matter to you.

 

Give him a reason for him to believe that you need these friends in your life.

 

Though, you don’t need to explain yourself why you need to have these guy friends in your life.

 

This is because it’s your social right to have friends. He came into your life and he found them there so he doesn’t have the right to tell you to get rid of them except when they pose a threat to your relationship.

 

When you explain to him what your friends mean to you is just being nice and making him understand why you have them.

 

If your boyfriend is jealous and insecure then you should reassure him of your love for him.

 

Reassure him that you will never do anything to mess up the relationship.

 

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4. Make your decision based on what you feel about this issue.

After you have done all this if your boyfriend will still insist you get rid of your guy friends yet they don’t put your relationship at risk then you should make your decision based on what you feel.

 

Do you think you should get rid of your guy friends to make your boyfriend happy?

 

Should you get rid of your guy friends simply because your boyfriend requested it?

 

Do you think you should get rid of your guy friend to save your relationship?

 

What I can tell you is that you don’t need to cut off your guy friends to please your boyfriend as long as they don’t put your relationship in danger.

 

You have the right to have guy friends and he doesn’t deserve to ask you to get rid of them in any way.

 

If you will get rid of your guy friends because of your boyfriend then know that you will be giving him a chance to control you.

 

This will give him the impression that he can make you do anything he wants.

 

And this will not stop at this point only, he will continue to control you.

 

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Let him know that you can’t cut off your guy friends for him and if he wants to leave you, let him walk away.

 

Lastly…

 

Your boyfriend has no right to ask you to get rid of your guy friends simply because he is jealous or insecure.

 

You have the right to have guy friends as long as they maintain their boundaries.

 

The moment your boyfriend pushes you to cut them off then be real with him.

 

Let him know how you feel about that issue. If he will continue insisting you get rid of them then you will have to end the relationship with him.

 

This is because he is controlling and that relationship will never be healthy.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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