If your boyfriend wants you to stay over all the time and this is something that bothers you and you don’t know how to go about it then here is something you need to know.
Before I start sharing with you what you can do about this there is something you need to know.
When your boyfriend wants you to stay over all the time this means he feels you so much, he loves you and he wants to spend quality time with you.
These are all positive things for the relationship. If your boyfriend never wanted you to stay over at his place then you would have thought that he doesn’t love you at all.
You might even have concluded that he is cheating on you with someone else.
Though this may be a good thing for your relationship it can also be a bad thing.
If you find this issue of your boyfriend wanting you to stay over all the time at his place is a nuisance then you should approach it in a way that your boyfriend will understand that you are not pushing him away.
And this is what I’m going to be talking about in this article.
Let us get into it.
What To Do When Your Boyfriend Wants You To Stay Over All The Time;
1. Understand that your boyfriend needs you around.
Your boyfriend always wants you to stay over because he needs you around.
There is nothing wrong with him wanting you to stay over all the time.
You have to understand that you are in a relationship and it needs a certain commitment for it to work.
Understand the fact that your boyfriend needs you around and that is why he wants you to stay over at his place all the time.
Keep in mind that this is what makes your relationship standstill.
When you understand this fact then you will find the right angle to approach your boyfriend about this issue.
You will know the right way to address him so that he doesn’t feel like you don’t like hanging out with him or you are no longer interested in him.
2. Find out why he needs this much attention from you.
If your boyfriend always wants you to stay over at his place then know that there is a reason for this.
The moment your boyfriend wants so much attention from you know that there is something wrong between the two of you.
Anyway, I wrote an article about this issue, if you want to know more about why your boyfriend wants so much attention from you then you should read it.
You might like this: What To Do When Your Boyfriend Always Wants Attention
When your boyfriend wants so much attention from you it’s because of several reasons.
Your boyfriend will want so much attention from you when you don’t spend much time with him, you don’t give him the attention he wants, he is clingy and when doesn’t get enough of you.
So, take your time to find out why he wants so much attention from you if you want to fix this issue.
You will find this information from him. You will need to talk to him and get to about this issue.
Get in a deep conversation with him about the progress of your relationship and ask him about the things he would like you to change or increase in that relationship.
This is enough for you to have a rough idea of why your boyfriend wants you to stay over all the time.
After you have gathered those reasons then start finding a way you can work these issues out.
And that will lead us to the next step.
3. Fix any issues that make him want you to stay over all the time.
Now that you have all these reasons why your boyfriend wants you to stay over all the time, it’s time for you to start working out this issue.
You have to know that for your boyfriend not to need so much of your attention is by fixing the issues that make him always want you around.
Use the reasons you got from him to start working out on those things.
If your boyfriend told you that you don’t give him the attention he wants then you should start doing something about it.
The only way to fix this is by giving your boyfriend the attention he wants.
And this means you will have to check out on him, take him out, sometimes have breakfast with him before you head off to do other issues, maintain your communication with him and prioritize him.
These are some of the things you can do to give him the attention he wants.
This will make him full of you and he will not want so much attention from you.
If it’s the issue of time then you should make an effort of sacrificing your time for him.
You accepted to be in that relationship, so you have to make time for him if you want this relationship to work.
The more time you spend with him, the less he will need you.
And this will not make him want you to stay over all the time you go to his place.
Fix any issues that make your boyfriend want you to stay over all the time and you will be able to change this situation.
4. Talk to him about this issue.
If the issue of your boyfriend wanting you to stay over all the time is something that bothers you then you should talk to him.
As I said earlier that this is a good thing but if it’s too much it will affect your relationship.
So, if this is something that hinders your productivity, affects your feelings for him and makes you hate being around him then you should talk to him about it.
It can be that your boyfriend doesn’t know that this issue is affecting you and that is why he keeps doing it.
Your boyfriend thinks you are okay with staying over all the time at his place and that is why he keeps asking you to do it.
He will never know if this is something that affects you if you won’t talk to him about it.
So, find time and make sure that he is relaxed and he is in a good mood and talk to him about this issue.
Let him know how you feel about this issue of him wanting you to stay over at his place every time.
Be frank about how you feel about it and don’t forget to share with him how it affects you.
And after that give him an alternative. Share with him timings that will be right for all of you.
Your boyfriend will listen to you and if he is an understanding person then he will take the right action.
If he is an ambitious person then he will understand what you are talking about especially, if you have a tight schedule.
He will understand that there is more to life than just hanging out and staying over all the time.
But if your boyfriend is that guy who doesn’t care about schedules, he doesn’t care about what you want, he is not ambitious and he is doing that on purpose then he will never want that to change.
And if this is the case you will have to do something about this.
5. Do what you think is right for you.
If your boyfriend will understand you and allow you to do what you know is right then be happy about that.
But if your boyfriend will not allow you to do what is right then you should be real with him.
If he demands you to stay over all the time even after you have explained to him how you feel about that issue then you will have to do what is right.
The only thing you will have to do is what is right for you. This is because your boyfriend is not on the same page as you.
Your boyfriend may not be ambitious as you are and this means you will have a different future.
There is no future between the two of you if he is someone who doesn’t care about your schedule and about the things you need to do to make your life meaningful.
You will have to let him go.
If your boyfriend always wants you to stay over and this is something that bothers you then don’t be afraid to talk about it.
Let your boyfriend know how you feel about this issue of him wanting you to stay over all the time.
Tell your boyfriend how it affects you and offer him schedules that he will be okay with.
And this is the only way you will be able to fix this issue. If your boyfriend cares about you and what you do then he will understand you.
But if he is that guy who doesn’t care about your schedules, he is not ambitious and he wants everything to be his way there is no way that relationship between the two of you will work.
The only thing you will have to do is to let him go no matter how you love him because there is no future between the two of you.
Thanks so much for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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