Boyfriend Wants Me To Stop Talking To Guy Friend: Do This

If your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend and you don’t know what to do then I got you covered.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do about this situation.

 

This is a tough call to make because your boyfriend is making you choose between him or your guy friend.

 

Anyway, your boyfriend may be right to ask you to stop talking to your guy friend or not.

 

You will know all of this in this article.

 

With that much said, let me share with you what you need to do about this issue.

 

What to do when your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend;

1. Find out why he wants you to stop talking to him.

When your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend this is the first thing you should do.

 

You should find out why he wants you to stop talking to him if you want to have an idea of how you can solve this issue.

 

As I told you earlier, your boyfriend may be right for asking you to stop talking to your guy friend or not.

 

And you will know this by finding out why he wants you to stop talking to him.

 

Don’t just get mad at him for wanting you to stop talking to your guy friend.

 

These reasons that you will find are what will justify if your boyfriend is doing the right thing or not.

 

You can find these reasons from him. He is the one asking you to stop talking to your guy friend.

 

This means he has a reason behind that.

 

So, confront him and ask him to tell you why he wants you to stop talking to your guy friend.

 

If there is any issue that makes your boyfriend want you to stop talking to him then he will list them out.

 

The reasons he will give you is what you will use to solve this issue.

 

If your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend because he is hitting on you then you should stop doing it because your boyfriend has the right to do that.

 

2. Fix anything that makes your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to him.

As I said in the above section, if your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to a guy friend simply because he is posing a threat to your relationship then you should stop talking to him.

 

So, if your guy friend is someone who is into you and your boyfriend notices it then you should stop talking to him.

 

If your guy friend is doing anything to make your boyfriend angry then you will have to stop talking to him.

 

For instance, if your guy friend has the habit of flirting with you and he touches you randomly then your boyfriend has the right to ask you to stop talking to him.

 

If this is the case then you should not argue with your boyfriend about it.

 

Also, when your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend simply because you spend so much time with him and you give him so much attention then should fix this issue if you want him to let you continue talking to him.

 

The only way he will let you continue to talk to him is if you reduce the amount of time you spend talking to your guy friend.

 

You should give your boyfriend the attention and time he wants if you want him to forget about this issue.

 

If your boyfriend always wants your attention then here is an article you can read and know how you can manage him.

 

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Fix any issues that make your boyfriend want you to stop talking to your guy friend.

 

Use the reasons he gave you in the first section of this article to fix this issue and all will be well.

 

3. Let him know how you feel about this issue.

When your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend even after fixing the issues that makes him want you to do that then you should talk to him about it.

 

You should not be silent after you have done something to fix this problem.

 

If your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend yet he doesn’t pose any threat to your relationship, he doesn’t do anything to make your boyfriend furious and he only wants you to stop talking to him simply because he is jealous and insecure then you should talk to him.

 

You should be real with him about this issue if you want to keep your guy friend.

 

This is the only way he will get to understand how you feel about this issue.

 

If your guy friend is not a threat to your relationship then you should let your boyfriend know that nothing is going on between the two of you.

 

Let him know that he is just a friend that you care about and you can’t just stop talking to him since he wants you to.

 

Tell your boyfriend that you have the right to talk to your guy friend and he should not ask you to stop talking to him if there is no solid reason.

 

The moment you tell your boyfriend the truth and you stand by what you believe then he will not ask you to do it.

 

But if you won’t talk to him about this issue then he will keep on pressuring you to stop talking to your guy friend.

 

You have the right to keep in touch with your friends and he should never ask you to stop talking to them or block them.

 

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4. Take your action according to how you feel about this issue.

If you have told your boyfriend that you will never stop talking to your guy friend simply because he doesn’t pose threat to your relationship, what he will decide next is what will determine the next action you will take.

 

The moment you tell your boyfriend the truth and he keeps pushing you to stop talking to him then you should think of what to do.

 

Sit down and think of what you care about the most.

 

Do you care so much about your relationship or your friendship?

 

What do you feel about this issue? Do you think it will be better for you to stop talking to your guy friend to make your boyfriend happy?

 

Do you think you should keep talking to your guy friend because your friendship means a lot to you?

 

These are some of the questions you should ask yourself before you take any action.

 

What I can tell you is that your boyfriend has no right to ask you to stop talking to your guy friend if he is not putting your relationship at risk.

 

If you choose to stop talking to your guy friend simply because your boyfriend wants you to then know that you will be allowing him to control you.

 

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And once this happens, you have to know that it will not stop at that point.

 

Since he knows you can do anything that he asks you to then he will keep on controlling you and the relationship will be toxic.

 

You won’t be happy with him.

 

The best thing for you to do is to stick to what you believe is right for you.

 

If he will want to end the relationship with you simply because you don’t want to stop talking to your guy friend then let him go.

 

He doesn’t deserve you.

 

Anyway, that is my advice, which action do you think is the best for you?

 

Lastly…

 

If your boyfriend wants you to stop talking to your guy friend because he is putting your relationship in danger then you should do what he says.

 

He is protecting the relationship.

 

But if he wants you to stop talking to your guy friend simply because he is jealous and insecure then you should confront him and tell him the truth about how you feel.

 

Reassure him that you will never do anything to hurt him.

 

If he still pushes you to stop talking to your guy friend even after you have reassured him then know that he doesn’t trust you and he is controlling you.

 

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Don’t stop talking to your guy friend if he doesn’t pose any threat to your relationship.

 

If he wants to break up with you because of that then let him go but don’t cut off your guy friend because of your boyfriend.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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