If your boyfriend went back to his ex there is nothing much you can do about it. In this article, I will share with you some insights that will help you to know why your boyfriend went back to his and what you can do about it.
Your boyfriend went back to his ex simply because he was still in love with her.
He was not over his ex and it can be that he was using you to get over his ex.
But he noticed he couldn’t get over her and he decided to go back to her.
There are several reasons why your boyfriend went back to his ex.
Without further ado, let me share with you some of these reasons that made him go back to his ex.
Why your boyfriend went back to his ex;
1. Your boyfriend was not over his ex.
If your boyfriend went back to his ex then this is the first reason that made him go back.
Your boyfriend was not over his ex and that is why he went back to her.
When a guy is not over his ex, it will be very hard for him to forget about her.
This means he will be thinking about her and he will never be present when he is around you.
The moment he can’t completely get over her no matter how much he tries the only option for him will be to go back to his ex.
So, if you notice any of the signs I will share with you in this article then know that your boyfriend went back to his ex because he was not able to get over her.
Signs your boyfriend was not over his ex;
- Your boyfriend talked about her so much.
- He had her pictures on his phone.
- He never blocked her number and he was still in touch with her.
- He compared you with her ex.
- He defended her ex when you talked bad about her.
- He felt bad when you told him his ex has moved on.
- He still had things that linked him to his ex.
If you came across any of these signs before your boyfriend went back to his ex then know that he was not over her.
It was hard for him to forget about her and that is why he decided to go back to her.
2. He was still in love with his ex.
Your boyfriend went back to his ex because he was still in love with her.
There is no way a guy will run back to his ex if he had no feelings for her.
This means all that time you have been with him his focus was on his ex.
He never felt you as he claimed.
You should expect this if your boyfriend broke up with his ex on good terms.
If your boyfriend never hated his ex in any way simply because they never broke up on bad terms then know that could have been the main reason why your boyfriend was able to get back to her.
Also, if the connection that your boyfriend had with his ex was strong compared to yours then this could be the main reason why he decided to go back to her.
With you, he never felt that love that he felt when he was with his ex.
Your love couldn’t hold him tighter and that is why he found himself going back to his ex.
The relationship bond between him and his ex was so strong and that is why this happened.
When someone is in love with someone else no matter what you do they will always find their way back to them.
3. He was not happy with you.
This is another reason why your boyfriend went back to his ex.
Your boyfriend was not happy with you and that is why he went back to his ex.
If your boyfriend was happy with how everything was progressing in that relationship there is no way he could have gone back to his ex.
He could have stuck with you no matter what he felt for his ex.
Your boyfriend was not happy with you because you couldn’t give him what he wanted.
The moment you are in a relationship with someone and you can’t offer them what they want they will never be happy with you.
Though they may look happy outside deep down they are bleeding.
So, if your boyfriend wanted something from you and he never used to get it, but he used to get the same thing from his ex then this is the main reason why he went back to her.
He knew going back to his ex is the only way he could feel fulfilled and happy.
Also, if your boyfriend had high expectations before he started dating you and when he was in a relationship with you none of these expectations was met then this could be the main reason why he wasn’t happy with you.
You were not able to meet his expectations but his ex did and that is why he went back to her.
When someone is not happy with you there is no way they will stick with you.
They will run back where they used to get their happiness.
4. He was only using you to get over his ex.
When you started dating him he was not over his ex.
It can be that he got into a relationship with you to help himself get over his ex as quickly as possible.
This is what most guys do. After a break-up, they usually jump too fast to another relationship without even taking time to process the break-up.
Most guys claim they are usually fine after a break-up and they will drink and party all the time.
But when it takes about two to three months this is when they usually start to feel the break-up.
This is when things start to get harder on them.
So, if your boyfriend met you after he broke up with his ex then know that he was using you to get over his ex as quickly as possible.
He knew having you in his life would make it easier for him to forget about his ex.
But as you can see this was not possible and that is why he went back to his ex.
5. His ex knew how to handle him more than you did.
If your boyfriend was with you but he was never happy with the way you used to handle him then this could be another reason why he went back to his ex.
We have guys who liked to be handled in a certain way.
So, if he felt you never handled him in a way that gave him satisfaction then this is the main reason why he left you and went back to his ex.
His ex knew how to handle him in a way that he wanted, knowing that you couldn’t manage him the way he wanted, this made him go back to his ex.
When you don’t handle a guy the way he wants or the way you handle him doesn’t make him happy then know that he will not stay with you.
He will leave you to and go back to that person who used to handle him in a way that he preferred.
If he goes back to his ex will it last?
If he goes back to his ex because of how he feels about her then this means he is going to stick to her. He left you and went to his ex because his connection with his ex was so much stronger than the connection he had with you. It will last if that is the main reason he went to his ex.
But if he goes back to his ex simply because of lust and it was not the connection that he had with her then it will not last.
They will break up again very soon.
He went back to his ex but wants to be friends.
If he went back to his ex but wants to be friends then you should turn him down. He doesn’t mean friendship with you at all. He is mocking you and he is trying to take advantage of you because of how you still feel about him.
What he did to you was a big disrespect to you and you should never forgive him for that.
Don’t be friends with him, don’t be in touch with him and treat him like you know nothing of him.
If you be friends with him he might try to manipulate you and this is not what you want again in your life.
He left me for his ex will he regret it?
If he left you for his ex because he never felt anything for you then there is no way he will regret it, but if he left you for his ex because of lust he will regret it. If you gave him everything but his lust made him leave you for his ex then he will regret it, give him time.
But if your boyfriend left you for his ex simply because you treated him badly, you never loved him, you never cared about him and you never respected him then he will never regret leaving you for his ex.
He will be happy that he left you and went back to his ex who used to treat him the way he wanted.
If your boyfriend went back to his ex then this is because of how he still feels about her.
This shows that your boyfriend was so much in love with his ex and that is why he left you for her.
He was never happy with you and that is why he went back to her.
So, if this is something that happened you should try your best to forget about it.
Don’t go back begging him to let you in because you will be degrading yourself.
You deserve someone who will love you and respect you and not someone who will take you for granted.
Be happy that he left you for his ex because he could have done worse than that.
Don’t be friends with him after he has left you for his ex.
He disrespected you and he doesn’t need to be close to you for any reason.
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