If Your Boyfriend’s Ex Is Prettier and Better Than You: Do This

If you feel that your boyfriend’s ex is prettier and better than you then this is what you should know.

 

When you are in a relationship and it’s just beginning then insecurities, doubts, and the fear of the unknown will be on your neck.

 

All of these will result in making the relationship hard at the beginning.

 

The moment you have come across your boyfriend’s ex and you notice that she is prettier than you then you will start feeling like you are not enough for your boyfriend.

 

This kind of feeling is brought by your insecurities and also contributed by your self-esteem.

 

This shouldn’t worry you at all.

 

If your boyfriend’s ex is prettier and better than you don’t worry about that at all. Appreciate it that you are better for him and he loves you that is why he is with you and not her. You are beautiful and everything he needs that is why he is with you.

 

You have to know that if he never found you beautiful and better to him he couldn’t have been with you.

 

Instead, he would have been still fighting for his ex who is prettier and better than you.

 

So, get rid of all those negative imaginations that will ruin your relationship.

 

If he decided to settle down with you and he proved to you that he loves you with all his heart then don’t allow these negative thoughts brought by insecurities to ruin your relationship.

 

You have him in your heart that is what matters now. Don’t think too much of how beautiful his ex was.

 

If he is happy with you and he handles the relationship in a way that you appreciate then don’t keep harboring the thoughts that his ex is better than you.

 

“The beauty lays in the eyes of the beholder” is a phrase that I learned in high school.

 

And indeed it’s true. If you love someone no matter how people look at him or her you will always find them attractive.

 

No matter how bad people perceive him or her to be, to you he or she will be amazing.

 

So, if he chooses to be with you in his life then stop all those negative thoughts that might make you doubt the relationship.

 

Appreciate that everyone has his or her own beauty. His ex got hers and you also have something unique and better.

 

If you feel that you are not better than his ex and you can’t shake that feeling off then there is something you can do.

 

It may also not be a feeling only. If his ex is better than you and you realize that you will not meet what he expects for him in that relationship then you will have to do something.

 

Let me be honest with you. This is something about most men.

 

If a man expects to get something from you and he doesn’t get it then he will lose interest in you.

 

When he finally loses his interest in you then breaking up with you or cheating on you with his ex is very possible.

 

He will be able to do that because he still feels that his ex is the only girl who can do something better than anyone else.

 

So, you will have to do something if his ex was better than you to keep the relationship going.

 

This is not a hard thing to do. Follow these simple tips to get to know your way out of this problem.

 

This is what you can do to be better than his ex;

1. Find exactly what his ex was better at.

If you want to be better than his ex then you will have to do this.

 

The first thing is to find what his ex was better at and master it.

 

This is because if his ex was better at a certain thing that made him happy it’s obviously the same thing that will make you be better for him.

 

You can find out what his ex was better at by having a conversation that will end up by asking him about his previous relationships.

 

It’s obvious that he will open up the things he loved and hated from his previous relationships.

 

If he won’t open up to you about her ex being better then you will have to ask him.

 

Get to know it and become the best at it for your own good in that relationship with him.

 

2. Ask your boyfriend what he expects from you.

If you won’t be able to find out what his ex was better at then you can venture into this section.

 

Ask your boyfriend what he expects from you in that relationship.

 

Get to know his expectations so that you can know what to offer to him so that you can keep him.

 

He might have broken up with her because he never got what he expected from her.

 

You have to know that a relationship can’t be just ended by one thing.

 

When a relationship ends then there are usually several factors that led that relationship to end up failing.

 

So find what your boyfriends expect from you and do your best to give him what he expects from you.

 

And this will make you become better than his ex.

 

3. Avoid the mistakes that his ex did to him.

If you become aware of what made him break up with his ex then avoid those pitfalls at all costs if you want to be better than her.

 

Now that you are fully aware of what your boyfriend hated most from her ex try your best to avoid everything that he hates.

 

The moment you start doing the mistakes that her ex did then you will never become better than his ex.

 

He will just assume that you are similar to his ex.

 

When a guy makes this assumption then this can make your relationship start developing issues.

 

So, try your best at all costs to avoid doing the mistakes that his ex did.

 

Try your best to be better than his ex by doing things that his ex never did.

 

This will make you better than her.

 

4. Do for him what he wants you to do.

This is something else you can do if you want to be better to your boyfriend than his ex.

 

It’s a simple thing for you to do. Just do the things that he wants you to do for him.

 

Do the things that he wants you to do for him as long as they don’t affect you, him, or the relationship.

 

If they are things that can make him happy then do them.

 

The happiness in a relationship comes from receiving the things you want in it.

 

When you don’t get the things you want from a relationship then there is no way you will be happy in it.

 

If you know the things he wants you to do for him there is no way you will fight over petty issues in your relationship.

 

He will be happy with you and so will you. This will eventually make you better than his ex.

 

5. Focus on building the relationship to be better than focusing on outdoing his ex.

You have to know that no matter how hard you try you will never be like someone else.

 

So, if you want to be better than his ex then don’t think too much about what his ex did to him.

 

There are some things that his ex did that you might not have the capacity to do them.

 

You can’t always get to do everything right and best. We all have our weaknesses.

 

No matter how hard you will try you will never get rid of them.

 

What I suggest for you is if you want to become better than his ex then focus on making the relationship better.

 

Focus on building your relationship to be better with the little knowledge you have.

 

If you don’t know much about what you can do to make your relationship better then buy books that will give you knowledge on how to make your relationship better.

 

Do what you have to do to make your relationship stable and thrive no matter the circumstances.

 

6. Be yourself, be real and do what you know is best for him.

If you want to be better than his ex then be yourself.

 

Do the things you know have a positive impact on your relationship.

 

Be you even if you feel being yourself is shitty.

 

He fell in love with you because he knew you are better, he fell for you because you were you.

 

It doesn’t matter the weakness you have but that weakness is what made him fall for you.

 

Do what you know is better for him and the relationship.

 

Always talk to him whenever things aren’t working the way you expect. You will never be better at everything.

 

Lastly…

 

If your boyfriend’s ex is prettier and better than you then focus on what you are better at. Don’t think too much of how his ex was with him. You have to know that everyone has his/her own strength and weakness.

 

Don’t let the insecurities and doubts take you down because his ex was better than you. He is with you because you have something that his ex never had. So, hold on to him and try your best to meet his expectations if you want to be better for him.

 

If you have a question leave it in the comment section. I will be happy to reply to it. See the other amazing post at the bottom of this article.

 

Thanks for reading, see you in my other article.

 

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