My Boyfriend’s Family Doesn’t Like Me: Do This

If your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you then these are the things you should do to make them like you.

 

In this article, I will share with you some of the things you should do to make your boyfriend’s family like you.

 

What you should know is that your relationship with your boyfriend will have an issue if you can’t get along with his family.

 

You have to ensure that you get along with his family if you want to strengthen your relationship with him.

 

If you are always close to his family, you can’t go a day without coming across them then you should do everything you can to create a positive relationship.

 

What I can tell you is that the tips I will share with you in this article, will not guarantee you that his family will like you in an instant, but will help you get along with them.

 

Not everyone will like you. And that is life. You can’t make people like you if you don’t have what they need you to have but you can do things to be at peace with them.

 

Without wasting too much time, let me share with you what you can do if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you.

 

What to do if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you

1. Find out why his family doesn’t like you.

If your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you there must be something about you that they don’t like.

 

When you hate someone, sometimes it’s due to how you handle them, what you did to them and how you perceive them.

 

There are so many reasons why your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you.

 

For you to get the right approach to solve this issue, you have to know the exact reason why his family doesn’t like you.

 

There are several things you can do to find out why your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you.

 

The first thing you can do is to try to get closer to them to find out why they don’t like you.

 

If they hate you and you keep a distance from them, there is no way you will find out why they hate you.

 

You will have no alternative but to get closer to them and investigate why they don’t like you.

 

When you get closer to them, you will be able to know why they don’t like you because you will over-heard them talking about the things they dislike about you.

 

Your boyfriend’s family will find it hard to hold back the things they dislike about you.

 

The small negative comments about you are what will give you a clue about what your boyfriend’s family don’t like about you.

 

The moment you do anything wrong they will say it loud. If you mess up with anything they will comment on the things they dislike about you.

 

What they will comment about you is what will enable you to find out why they don’t like you.

 

The second thing you can do when you want to find out why your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you is to have a conversation with them.

 

Try to talk with the members of his family who dislike you the most.

 

Get closer to them and try to express what you feel they have against you.

 

You won’t be doing anything wrong when you talk to them to find out why they don’t like you.

 

Don’t talk rudely to them even when you think you have the right to do it.

 

If they are honest enough, they will tell you the right things you want to hear, though you may not like them.

 

Some of the things they may tell you will make you want to end your relationship with your boyfriend.

 

So, if you want to know the truth, you should be ready to handle it.

 

2. Eliminate the things that they don’t like about you.

If you know why your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you then you should find a way to fix that.

 

There may be some things that you do or talk about that makes them dislike you.

 

If this is the case, then you can come up with a way to change that. The only thing you will have to do is to change the things you usually do or talk about when you are around them.

 

Also, it can be you have certain behaviour that your boyfriend’s family hate about you and changing this behaviour will make them like you.

 

So, you have to dig deeper and try to understand the principles that your boyfriend’s family stands for, to be able to make them like you.

 

Understand what they expect of you before you try to do anything to make a change about yourself or the things you do.

 

If you won’t understand them then it will be very hard for you to eliminate the things that they hate about you.

 

For instance, if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you because of the way you dress when you are around them then you will have to change that.

 

Change the way you dress when you are around them so that you can get along with them nicely.

 

Do what they want you to do so that your relationship with them is enhanced.

 

You don’t have to change the way you dress permanently, just do it to please them but if you move far away from them then you should dress the way you are used to.

 

If you know your boyfriend’s family is religious and they don’t like you simply because you don’t handle yourself the way they want you to then you should find a way to change that.

 

I’m not telling you to change your religion if you are not willing to do it, but you should just handle yourself in the way they would like you to.

 

If your boyfriend’s family is Muslim, you should cover your hair when you are around them, cover your body and don’t put on tight dresses or jeans before them.

 

Avoid wearing any cloth that is too short. This is what will make them like you since you are trying hard to please them though you are not one of them.

 

Talk to your boyfriend, and ask him how they would like you to present yourself before them.

 

Your boyfriend will give you a hint of what you should do and this might end up helping you.

 

But if you know you can change your religion because of your relationship, then you should do it and this might be the reason why his family will start to like you.

 

On the other hand, if you do some things that they don’t like then you should stop doing them.

 

For instance, if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you simply because you get drunk and do things they hate then you should stop doing those things when you are around them.

 

It doesn’t matter if your boyfriend likes what you do, but if his family hates what you do, you should stop doing those things when you are around his family.

 

The way your boyfriend perceives you is not the same as his family does and you should understand that.

 

Getting rid of the things that his family hates will make them like you and your relationship with them will keep on growing.

 

3. Let your boyfriend know that his family doesn’t like you.

At the time you are dealing with eliminating the issues that make your boyfriend’s family dislike you, this is the same moment you should talk to him.

 

Your boyfriend understands his family better than you do, and he may be the only one who knows what you should do to make them like you.

 

So, don’t hold it back and try to solve this issue on your own. It will stress you and you might even fail to get them to like you.

 

Talking to your boyfriend about his family and figuring out a way to get along with them well will help you come to a solution very well quick.

 

Also, your boyfriend will know that you care about getting along with his family since you value your relationship with him.

 

When you tell him that his family doesn’t like you he may have something to tell you that will help you solve this issue.

 

Let your boyfriend know that his family doesn’t like you and that you are trying to find a way to get along with them.

 

The moment you tell your boyfriend about his family, don’t do it to incite him to bring about a conflict between him and his family.

 

Doing that will not help you, but it will only make things worse for you.

 

They will keep hating you since they will consider you as the main cause of conflict between him and them.

 

So, make sure that when you explain to your boyfriend you be honest about how they handle you and you should only focus on ways how to make them like you.

 

Leave any details that will make your boyfriend hate his family if you know that they are irrelevant to what you are telling your boyfriend about it.

 

Keep peace between him and his family at all costs. This is what his family will love you about.

 

As long as his family doesn’t do anything to hurt you, eliminate any details that may bring about conflict between him and his family.

 

Let your boyfriend know about it so that he can find a way to make his family get along with you.

 

If he will talk to his family about your situation with them positively, they might change how they perceive you.

 

And this might be the only thing that fixes this issue between you and his family.

 

4. Do things that will enhance the relationship you have with them.

If your boyfriend talked to his family about your relationship with them, you should not stop at that point.

 

You should do several things to enhance your relationship with them.

 

There are some of the things that when you do, will make them like you.

 

Try to make positive conversation with them even when you think that they don’t want to talk to you.

 

Don’t do the things they do to you, if they are rude to you and mean you should be the opposite of that.

 

The positive will always outweigh the negatives.

 

Don’t abuse them if they do. Lower your voice when you talk to them even if you are angry at them for doing wrong things to you.

 

You have to remember that you are trying to make them like you. Don’t do anything that will make them continue hating you.

 

This may not work immediately, but with time, they will realize that you are the ambitious girl their son and brothers/sisters never had.

 

Bring them gifts during special occasions and be there where there is an important event held.

 

Try your best to be useful when you are around them, and help them whenever you can.

 

You may not solve all their problems, but the few things you may help them with will make them like you.

 

Bring the light to them even if they keep on bringing darkness on your path.

 

This is what you should do to make them like you. The relationship between you and your boyfriend’s family matters a lot and you should do everything you can to make it work.

 

The moment his family will realize that you are ready to do anything to make their relationship amazing they will change their perspective on how they handle you.

 

What I can tell you is that, if you want this relationship to work you should try everything you can to make it happen.

 

Don’t just sit back and conclude that the relationship is not worth it since you don’t have a way to make them like you.

 

Be available when they need you, help them when they are stranded and be kind to them this is what will them like you as time goes by.

 

5. Don’t push too hard for them to like you.

I just told you that you should do everything you can to make your boyfriend’s family like you, but this doesn’t include you degrading yourself before them.

 

There are some lines you shouldn’t cross to make them like you.

 

I know there are some things within you that you can’t change to make them like you.

 

For instance, you can’t change who you are to make like you. If his family doesn’t like you simply because you have different beliefs from theirs then this will be a hard thing for you to change.

 

You can’t revert the things you believe in just to make them like you.

 

This will be an impossible thing to do and you will just have to let them dislike you.

 

Also, don’t change who you are simply because you want your boyfriend’s family to like you.

 

If who you are is what gives you your identity, holds your dignity and gives you a reason to fight for what you want in your life every single day then you should not lose that for anyone else.

 

You will have to let them dislike you.

 

If you have been doing everything you can to make them like you but nothing seems to be working you shouldn’t do things that will hurt you to make them like you.

 

It can be that his family just doesn’t like who you are and there is nothing about the things you do or how you handle yourself that makes them hate you.

 

If this is the case, there is nothing else you can do to make them like you and you can’t push harder than that.

 

Forcing them to like you will only result in hurting yourself.

 

Lastly…

 

If your boyfriend’s family doesn’t like you try to find out the reason for their dislike.

 

It can be that the way you handle things when you are around them is what makes them not like you.

 

Eliminate the things that make them dislike you and do things that will enhance the relationship between them and you.

 

Help them in any way you can when they need help and be there for them when they need you.

 

Don’t expect them to be nice within the first few days after implementing the things I have shared with you.

 

Be patient and always do things that will bring your boyfriend’s family closer to you.

 

If you have tried everything and your boyfriend’s family still doesn’t like you then you should not do anything that will hurt you to make them like you.

 

Don’t degrade yourself before them or lose your dignity trying to make them like you.

 

Let your boyfriend know that you have tried everything but his family still doesn’t like you.

 

The only option you will have is for you to be distant from his family and that is what will keep the relationship between you and your boyfriend going.

 

After all, what you feel for your boyfriend is what brought you together.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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