Does My Ex Want Me Back Or Is He Using Me?

If your ex wants you back and you don’t know if he is real or he is using you then I have something for you to know about this issue.

 

It can be hard for you to know that your ex is using until you take some time and try to figure him out.

 

In this article, I will share with you some insights that will help you to put him on a scale that you will get to know if he wants you back or he is just planning to use you.

 

When someone is not genuine some tests will be hard for them to pass.

 

Let me share with you some of the things you can use to know if he truly wants you back or he is using you.

 

How to know if your ex wants you back or he is using you;

1. Keep him waiting for a month.

If your ex wants you back and you don’t know if he truly wants you back or he is planning to use you.

 

This is the first thing you should use. Use the time to figure out if he is genuine if he is just planning to use you.

 

Time can separate darkness from light. So, take advantage of the time to determine if he is truly into you or not.

 

I talked about that deeply in the article below.

 

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The moment he comes back to you claiming to be still in love with you and he wants you back don’t be quick to make any decision.

 

What you should do is to keep him around.

 

Don’t either let him in or kick him away. The more you keep him around waiting the more you will be able to identify if he truly loves you or he just wants to toy with your feelings.

 

Someone who wants to use you will never wait for you. The moment you ask him to wait for a while before you make a decision this person will instantly lose interest in you.

 

So, the moment you keep him on wait and you find out that he has lost interest in you, he is not texting you often, he doesn’t bother checking out on you and he just decides to ghost you then know that he wants to use you.

 

This guy doesn’t want you back he is only using you.

 

Also, when you keep him waiting and interact with him on a friendship level you will get to know what he wants and expects from you.

 

The more you talk to someone the more they will get to open up to you.

 

And when someone is not real you will see that from the texts and words they will say to you.

 

If the only thing he talks about is sex then know that he is only planning to use you and he doesn’t love you.

 

When you notice this you should get rid of him.

 

2. Ask him to help you with something very critical.

If you want to know if he truly wants you back or he is using you then you have to put him on a test.

 

Put him in a test that will enable you to know his true intentions. If he can beat the test of time then this is something else he can’t beat.

 

You will have to test him and observe him so that you know if he truly has feelings for you or he wants you for the ride.

 

If your ex claims to want you back and you are not sure if he is real or not then this is something you should do.

 

Think of something that you will ask him to do for you and observe his reaction.

 

Don’t ask him to spend money on you. Think of something that will take his time and energy.

 

Something that will drain him and make him so bored.

 

When you ask him to help you with something like that the reaction that he will give you is what you will use to know if he wants you back or he is just using you.

 

For instance, you can ask him to be with a patient at the hospital for the whole day and night simply because you have an urgent issue that you need to attend to.

 

Something like this will help you go get to know if your ex truly wants you back or he is only using you.

 

If he will accept to do it without complaining then know that your ex truly wants you but if he will not do it then know that he doesn’t love you and he is only planning to use you.

 

Someone who truly wants you will be ready to do anything to make you happy.

 

You can use this to determine if what he says is true or a lie.

 

3. Check if he will make time for you in that waiting period.

This is something else you can observe for you to know if your ex wants you back or he is only using you.

 

When your ex wants you back and you keep him on a waiting period the things he will do in this period is what will let you know how he feels about you.

 

No one will ever fake the time they spend with you. If you spend a second with someone, that is it, you can never recover that.

 

Time has measures that you can use to know if someone is truly in love with you or not.

 

When you keep your ex on a waiting period and the only thing he does is to wait for you to give him your answer then know that he is only using you.

 

If he won’t make time for you during this waiting period simply because you kept him in wait then know that he is planning to use you.

 

He is not genuine and you should not take him back into your life again.

 

Someone who wants you will always want to be around you, he will always want to see you even if he has nothing important to do with you and he will keep on checking out on you.

 

If since you put him on the waiting period he has never spent his time with you, he has not been checking on you and he doesn’t bother even to find an excuse to see you then know that your ex is only planning to use you.

 

He doesn’t love you at all and you should not let him back into your life.

 

If your ex wants you back, he will make time for you and he will put an effort into winning you back no matter what measures you put on him.

 

But if you don’t see that then know that he doesn’t want you back and he is only using you.

 

4. Observe the effort he puts into winning you back.

The effort he puts into winning you back is something you should use to gauge how he feels about you.

 

When you put him on wait all this time will enable you to know if he truly wants you back or he is just using you.

 

Observe the effort he is putting into winning you to know if truly meant what he said or not.

 

A guy who wants you will put an effort into winning you. Nothing will ever stop him from fighting for you.

 

So, when you keep him on wait and he does nothing to make you interested in him then know that he is only using you.

 

If you keep him on wait and he decides to ghost you then know that he doesn’t want you back, he only wanted to use you.

 

Also, if your ex gives up on fighting for you after you have put strict measures on him this is a sign that he never wanted you back.

 

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5. Play hard to get for a while before letting him in.

If your ex wants you back then this is something else you will have to do to know if he truly loves you or he wants to use you.

 

Don’t make it easier for him. You have to play hard to get and see how he will react to you.

 

Do things to make him try harder on winning you back and this is what you will use to get to know if he wants you back or he is planning to use you.

 

Make the situation hard for him and see what he will do about it.

 

Don’t be the type of girl he used to know, behave differently and be stubborn and see how he will react to it.

 

The way he will react when you play hard to get is what will let you know how he feels about you.

 

If your ex truly wants you back then he will keep on pursuing you and no matter the situation you will keep him in.

 

He will never give up on you.

 

But if he gives up on you the moment he notices you play hard to get then know that he doesn’t want you back and he is only using you.

 

Lastly…

 

When your ex wants you back and you put him in the test that I have shared with you then you will be able to know if he truly wants you back or he is planning to use you.

 

If he will keep fighting for you, put in the effort of winning you back, makes time for you and is ready to do anything for you despite his schedule then know that truly wants you.

 

But if he will not fight for you, he will not spend his time with you, he is not willing to do anything for you that takes his time and energy and he only talks about getting you in bed then know that he is only planning to use you.

 

If this is the case then you should never let him in your life again. Get rid of him.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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