Your Friend Is Too Friendly With Your Girlfriend: Do This

If your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend then this must be driving you nuts. In this article, I will share with you several things you can do about this issue.

 

You have the right to be jealous and worried even if you trust your girlfriend and your friend.

 

Before you do anything else this is what you should do under this circumstance.

 

What to do when your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend;

1. Be calm, and don’t conclude anything yet.

If your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend the first thing you should do is to be calm.

 

Take control of your temper and don’t do anything that you will regret later.

 

When you are calm then you will be able to handle this issue maturely.

 

The moment you fail to take control of your temper or jealousy then you might find yourself losing your friend and your girlfriend too.

 

You have to know that you are the reason why your friend is a friend to your girlfriend.

 

So, making a move without thinking this through might make you look like the bad guy here yet what you are trying to do is to protect your relationship.

 

You don’t want to be the bad guy.

 

It’s fine for you to be jealous and be suspicious if your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend.

 

But this doesn’t give you the right to react recklessly.

 

If you start to go hard on your girlfriend and accuse her of cheating on you with your friend then you will ruin the relationship.

 

Your friend will know about this too and you will destroy your friendship.

 

2. Find out why your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend.

Take your time to find out why your friend is so friendly with your girlfriend.

 

This will help you understand why they are so close and what action you can take from this issue.

 

Ask yourself several questions if you want to find the answer to this.

 

Don’t think of approaching your friend yet if you haven’t thought through this.

 

Did your girlfriend know your friend before? What did your friend do to your girlfriend that makes them so close? Is your relationship with your girlfriend on good terms?

 

These are some of the questions you should answer within yourself if you want to know why your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend.

 

If your girlfriend knew your friend before or they were in the same high school then this should not worry you too much.

 

This is clear that they were buddies a long time ago before you came into her life.

 

And if they haven’t met for years and they have met through you then this might be the main reason why your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend.

 

If your relationship is not on good terms then you should know that this is one of the reasons why your friend is too friendly with your girlfriend.

 

It can be that your friend is trying to unite you with your girlfriend and that is why he is so close to her.

 

He is trying to do it for you because he knows the two of you are not on good terms.

 

But if this is the case, then he could have told you about this.

 

Anyway, you can’t be sure of anything unless you talk to your friend and your girlfriend about it.

 

3. Talk to your friend about it.

This is the next approach you should take. If your friend being too friendly with your girlfriend is something that bothers you then talk to him about it.

 

There is no need for you to keep silent yet it’s something that bothers you.

 

You will only be hurting yourself. So, the best thing you can do is to approach your friend and talk to him about it.

 

Don’t approach him and start accusing him of going behind your back with your girlfriend.

 

This will not be the appropriate way to handle this.

 

Your friend is only too friendly with your girlfriend and you have no evidence for sure that he is eating your girlfriend.

 

So, don’t go with such a move.

 

The only thing you can do is to let him know that you find it very uncomfortable when he is too friendly with your girlfriend and he should be distanced a little bit from her.

 

If your friend is a good person and he cares about you and your relationship then he will respect your decision.

 

He will distance himself from your girlfriend and everything will go back to normal.

 

But if something is going on between your friend and your girlfriend then you will notice that your friend will make a big deal out of this.

 

He will even want to end the friendship with you because you have told him to distance himself from your girlfriend.

 

The next thing you should do is to talk to your girlfriend. Your girlfriend is also the cause of this issue.

 

4. Talk to your girlfriend about it.

After you have talked to your friend about this then you should address your girlfriend about it too.

 

Decently talk to your girlfriend so that she can understand what you mean.

 

Don’t make her see that you don’t trust her because it might mess up your relationship.

 

The moment your girlfriend finds that you don’t trust her things will never be the same in that relationship.

 

Let me share with you how you can address your girlfriend about this issue.

 

“Hey babe, you know I trust you, right? I will always have faith in you because I know you will never do anything to jeopardize our relationship.

 

And that is the thing that made me fall in love with you in the first place.

 

There is an issue I would like to talk about with you.

 

I don’t feel so comfortable with you being so close to my friend.

 

I’m not saying this because I don’t trust you but it just hurts my feelings when you are too close to my friend.

 

I would like you to distance yourself from him. You can say hi to him but not the way you two are so close to each other, it hurts me.”

 

When you address your girlfriend in such a way she will understand that her friendship with your friend is hurting your feelings.

 

If she cares about you, she loves you and nothing is going on between your friend and her then she will do as you say.

 

She will not make a big deal out of it. And she will be very happy that you told her the truth.

 

But if it’s the opposite of what I said in the above paragraph then she will make a big deal out of this.

 

5. Take action.

If you have talked to your girlfriend and friend and they both make a big deal out of this then know that something is going on between them.

 

The only thing you can do is to distance yourself from your girlfriend and if possible cut off your friend.

 

The distance you will create is to observe if your girlfriend loves you or she is with your friend.

 

If your girlfriend will approach you to work things out then know that she was angry at you and that is why she made this a big deal.

 

You might like this: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Work Things Out: Know This

 

And you should talk to her and fix your issues. But if she doesn’t reach out to you to fix your issues then know that your girlfriend was cheating on you with your friend.

 

That is the first side of the issue.

 

If you have talked to your friend but he is still too close to your girlfriend and the same applies to your girlfriend then know that something is going on.

 

The only thing you can do is just walk away from your girlfriend and your friend.

 

This shows that your friend is your enemy and your girlfriend on the other hand is taking you for granted.

 

You might like this: How To Walk Away When Someone Takes You For Granted

 

Lastly…

 

You have the right to approach your friend if he is too friendly with your girlfriend and ask him to distance himself.

 

If you won’t do it simply because you care about your friendship and it’s something that hurts you then you will be putting your relationship at risk.

 

He might snatch your girlfriend away from you, believe me, this is something that happened to me.

 

I never did the right thing and my best friend ended up destroying my relationship.

 

I don’t want this to be the same case for you. Take necessary action against this issue if you want to save your relationship.

 

If you have talked to both of them but they are still too friendly with each other then know that something is going on between them it’s only that you can’t see it.

 

Walk away from her. That is what I can advise you to do before you get hurt.

 

Thanks for reading, I hope you have found value from this article. If you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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