How Do You Get A Girl To Come Sit Next To You?

If you want to get a girl to come to sit next to you and you have no idea of how you can do it then read this article to know how you can make that happen.

 

You have to be smart and interesting if you want a girl to come to sit next to you.

 

If you are a boring person no girl will want to sit next to you.

 

Don’t worry, I’m not asking you to be a comedian.

 

There are so many ways you can get a girl to come to sit next to you even without striving so hard.

 

This is how to get a girl to come to sit next to you;

1. You can directly ask her to come to sit next to you.

This is the first thing you have to do if you want her to come to sit next to you.

 

This is just a direct approach that you can use to get her to come to sit next to you.

 

You should do this if you don’t want to go through a long process of trying to impress.

 

If you don’t have time to waste then this is the way you can use it. Though, the chances of her saying no to you are very high.

 

So, if you are confident enough and you believe that she will give in when you directly ask her to come to sit next to you then you should go ahead.

 

After all, if she likes you she will sit next to you without you doing so much to please her.

 

The answer you will get from her when you go with this approach is either yes or not.

 

But if you aren’t that confident enough and you want to lure her into your trap then you should go with the other ways I will share with you in this article.

 

Before I move to the next section, let me share with you how you can ask her to come to sit next to you.

 

  • “You look so pretty! Can you come to sit next to me?”
  • “I have something to share with you, would you mind coming to sit next to me?”
  • “Can you come to sit next to me? I would like to talk to you.”

 

This is the direct approach that you can use to get her to come to sit next to you.

 

2. Save a seat for her.

If you want to get her to come to sit next to you then this is what you should do.

 

You should save a seat for her if you are in an event.

 

If you are in an event that requires people to sit at random places and you are aware that she will be passing by near you in search of a seat then save her a seat.

 

And when she is passing by in search of a seat you can let her know that you have an empty seat next to you.

 

If she doesn’t have anywhere else to sit then she will not have any choice but to sit next to you.

 

And when she sits next to you then you have all the time you want with her.

 

So, this is a trick you should try if you want to get a girl to come to sit next to you.

 

By the way, you can do the same even public transport. The seat that you have placed your bag you can let her occupy.

 

If she has no alternative then she will come to sit next to you.

 

3. Be friendly to her.

This is another trick you can use to get a girl to come to sit next to you.

 

This is something you should do if you want to get her to come to sit next to you.

 

There is no way she will want to sit next to you if she doesn’t know you.

 

You have to create a friendship bond with her if you are in a situation that you know she might say no.

 

Introduce yourself to her, let her know who you are and the things you do.

 

When you start with an introduction a conversation will go on.

 

Hit a small talk with her as you push her to where you are sitting.

 

So, when she has a rough idea of who you are, she will not look at you as a stranger and when you decide to sit down she will want to sit next to you.

 

This is because you have created a relationship with her and she doesn’t feel it’s awkward for her to sit next to you.

 

Be friendly and you will get her to come to sit next to you.

 

4. Make her interested in you.

This is another approach you can use to get a girl to come to sit next to you.

 

Spike her interest in you and she will come to sit next to you.

 

The first thing you have to do if you want to make her interested in you is to make her notice you.

 

When you know you have her attention try your best to impress. You can impress her by talking nicely to her, being yourself when you are around her, being kind to her, being the kind of guy she expects you to be and showing her that you like her.

 

The moment you do these things you will make her be interested in you.

 

You should check on how you vibe before you try to impress her. If she doesn’t vibe with you even after the introduction then give her some space.

 

If you have tried harder and she doesn’t still want to talk anything with you after the introduction there is no need to waste your energy.

 

But if you get the chance to make her interested in you then she will come to sit next to you.

 

The interest she will develop in you is what will make her want to be around you.

 

And this will get her to come to sit next to you every time.

 

So, figure out the part of how you can make her interested in you and you will worry less about getting her to come to sit next to you.

 

5. Make her feel comfortable whenever she is around you.

This is something else you have to do if you want to get her to come to sit next to you.

 

You have to make her comfortable around you.

 

This is a long term thing. This is not something you can do within a day.

 

The way you handle a girl is what will either make her comfortable around you or not.

 

If you want to make her comfortable to get her to come to sit next to you then this is what you should do;

  • Treat her nicely.
  • Give her your attention.
  • Open up to you when you have a chance.
  • Don’t judge what she does.
  • Be a good listener.
  • Don’t force her to talk about things she isn’t comfortable with.
  • You have to respect her.
  • You should never control her.
  • Get her to trust you.

 

These are some of the things you can do to get her to come to sit next to you very easily.

 

By doing the above things you will make her comfortable around you and sitting next to you will never be an issue to her.

 

When a girl is comfortable around you then she will find it very easy to sit next to you because she feels safe and at ease around you.

 

6. Get her attention.

If you want her to come to sit next to you then you should get her attention.

 

When you make a girl notice you, you will have a good chance of winning her.

 

This is because whenever she comes by she will always be searching for you.

 

She will search for you because you are the guy that got her attention very easily.

 

When a girl doesn’t notice you, no matter what you do she will never care.

 

You will never be able to intrigue her if she doesn’t see you.

 

So, if you want to get her to come to sit next to you then you should get her attention first.

 

7. Be the kind of man she wants you to be.

If you do all the things I have shared with you and you are not the kind of man she wants you to be she will never come to sit next to you.

 

So, this is something you should check on if you want to get her to come to sit next to you.

 

Take your time in finding out which kinds of men she is into and don’t be the opposite of that.

 

If you have any kind of behaviour that she hates in you she will never come to sit next to you.

 

But if you are an amazing guy that she feels fine hanging out with then she will come to sit next to you.

 

Know the type of guys she is into and be that kind and you will get her to come to sit next to you.

 

8. Have a good relationship with people she cares about.

If you want to get her to come to sit next to you then you should create a good relationship with the people she cares about.

 

I don’t want to go far from this, you can just choose to befriend her friends.

 

When you manage to befriend her friends and they end up liking you they will tell her about you.

 

She will be curious to want to know more about you and she will get herself closer to you.

 

But if her friends hate you, then you will never get her to come to sit next to you.

 

Find her friends and befriend them if you want her to sit next to you.

 

Lastly…

This is an extensive list of how you can get a girl to come to sit next to you.

 

If you follow all of these things I have shared with you in this article, I’m 99% sure that it will work.

 

And you may be wondering where is the 1%.

 

The 1% missing has gone to how she feels about you.

 

If you are trying to win her using any method and she doesn’t feel the same for you then you will never win her.

 

The moment a girl doesn’t like you and she has made it clear in her mind that she doesn’t then no matter what you do, you will never change her mind.

 

So, if she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t want anything with you, she is not romantically interested in you she will never come to sit next to you.

 

If you have tried hard to get her to come to sit next to you and she doesn’t seem to care about you then know that she is not interested in you and you should focus your energy somewhere else.

 

Thanks for reading, I hope this article has helped you out. See you in my next article.

 

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