What To Do When A Girl Is Unsure About A Relationship

If a girl is unsure about a relationship then it might be very confusing. This will prevent you from making any progress with her.

 

In this article, I want to share with you what you can do about this situation.

 

There is no way a relationship with her will move forward if you won’t make her sure about the relationship.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you some of the things you need to know about this issue.

 

And I will start by telling you the meaning behind this so that you have a clear picture of what you can do about this.

 

What does it mean when a girl is unsure about a relationship?

 

When a girl is unsure about a relationship it means she doesn’t know whether to keep the relationship going or not, she doesn’t know whether to let you in or not. In short, she doesn’t know what to do about the relationship, I can say she doesn’t know the course of the relationship.

 

This is mostly brought by how she feels about you and different external factors.

 

When a girl doesn’t know if she should give you a chance or not she will be confused about it.

 

And when you ask her what she thinks about the relationship the only thing she will tell is that she is not sure.

 

Before talking so much about this issue let me list some of the reasons why a girl might be unsure about a relationship.

 

This is why a girl is unsure about a relationship;

  • She doesn’t know how she feels about you.
  • She doesn’t know whether she should give you a chance or not.
  • She has several guys she has to choose from.
  • She is likely not interested in you.
  • She needs time to think about the relationship.

 

These are some of the reasons why a girl may be unsure about a relationship.

 

I will share with you what you can do about this.

 

What to do when a girl is unsure about a relationship;

1. Find out why she is unsure about the relationship.

 

This is the first thing you should do if a girl is unsure about the relationship.

 

There is no way you will find a solution to this issue without finding out the cause.

 

Take your time and find out these reasons.

 

And you won’t find these reasons without talking to her. If you want to know what is going on in her mind then you will have to dig deep within her.

 

You can do this by making her open up to you.

 

Have a conversation with her and talk about the relationship. Don’t start by asking her why she is unsure about the relationship.

 

Engage her in a conversation that will make her open up to you easily.

 

The perfect way you can do this is first by making sure she is very comfortable around you.

 

Don’t make her feel she is under pressure if you want things to work out the way you desire.

 

Put her in an environment where she will find it very easy to talk about what she feels about the relationship.

 

Once you have found out why she is unsure about the relationship then it will be your turn to use those reasons to fix this issue.

 

Continue reading to see how you can fix this issue.

 

2. Get to know how she feels about you.

 

When a girl is unsure about a relationship it’s mostly involved with how she feels.

 

Her feelings play a very big part in this issue.

 

For instance, if she was in love with you and there was nothing else that she was comparing your love to then this situation couldn’t have existed at all.

 

If she was sure that you are the one then she would have indulged herself fully in that relationship without even thinking so much about it.

 

So, if you want to have a shot at solving this issue then you will have to get to know how she feels about you.

 

How can I get to know how she feels about me?

 

You can know how she feels about you by asking her several questions or you can use actions.

 

You can ask her how she feels about you.

 

These are examples of questions you can ask her to know how she feels about you.

 

How do you feel about me?

Would you give me a chance to spend the night with you?

 

What did you feel when you first met me?

Have I ever attracted you?

 

Have you ever thought of asking me out?

 

Would you kiss me in the dark?

 

These are some of the questions you can use to ask her to know how she feels about you.

 

I’m not saying you use the exact sentences, use questions that are related to your situation.

 

These kinds of questions will let you know how she feels about you.

 

The other way to find out how she feels about you is by incorporating some actions.

 

Now that you know she is not sure about the relationship you should not be afraid to know how she feels by using some actions.

 

Get too close to her and try to hold her hand, try to hug her when she is around, accidentally touch her neck, try to hold her waist from behind, if you are too close to her try to kiss her.

 

The way she will react when you do these actions will portray how she feels about you.

 

If she reacts positively to your touch then know that she has feelings for you and you should make a bold move on her for her to be sure about what she feels for you.

 

But if she reacts negatively to your touch, she recoils when you touch her and she gets mad when you touch her then know that she doesn’t feel you.

 

To change this, continue reading the article and see how you will make her fall for you.

 

3. Spend more time with her.

 

This is something else you should do if she is not sure about the relationship.

 

Spend more time with her if you want her to be sure about the relationship.

 

The time you will spend together with her will do magic. If she allows you to be around her and she even asks you to keep her company then you should take advantage of this.

 

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The more time you will spend with her the more sure she will get to be about how she feels about you.

 

Also, if the connection between the two of you is low the time you spend together will increase the bond of your relationship and you will all end up feeling connected.

 

She will start to be sure how she feels about you and the relationship.

 

But if you know that she is unsure about the relationship and yet you are too busy to figure this out then you will never pull her to your side.

 

You will have to sacrifice your time for her if you want to make her sure how she feels about you and the relationship.

 

Spend quality time with her and this will develop the bond between the two of you and it will help her to know how she feels about you.

 

There are so many things you can do when you are around her to light up the spark.

 

Check the article below.

 

You might like this: 25 Ways To Spend Quality Time With Your Partner At Home

 

4. Find out what she wants and expects from a relationship.

 

This is something else you will have to find out from her if you want to know how you can make her sure about the relationship.

 

Take your time to find out what she wants and expects from the relationship.

 

Once you find out what she wants and expects from the relationship then you will be able to tailor this to your advantage.

 

You can create things around your environment to be what she expects and want from the relationship.

 

If you know what she wants from a relationship then you will be able to make her sure about the relationship if you show her that she can get what she wants from the relationship that you are about to create.

 

On the other hand, if you know what she expects you can convince her to let you in because you know exactly what you can do to get her what she expects.

 

This is an amazing idea, if you will be able to get hold of this information from her then you will make her sure about the relationship.

 

5. Make her fall in love with you.

This is something else you will have to do if you want to make her sure about the relationship.

 

If she doesn’t love you there is no way she will be certain about the relationship with you.

 

This will make her pull herself away. So, if you want her to get closer to you then you will have to make her fall in love with you.

 

I have an amazing way that I will share with you to make her fall in love with you so that she gets to be sure about the relationship.

 

If you pull through this then you will be able to pull her closer to you and she will be sure about the relationship.

 

She is not sure about the relationship, this shows that she is also not sure how she feels about you.

 

The truth about this is that there is a tiny part within her that wants you to be with her.

 

If she never felt anything for you then she would have pushed you away or told you the truth.

 

But the part that wants you to be with her is so dim and it can’t push her to let you in.

 

What you will have to do is to light up this dim part within her that wants you to be with her and you will give her the push to let you in without thinking too much.

 

The only way you can do this is by making her fall in love with you.

 

You can make her fall in love with you by just treating her like your girlfriend. Forget the part where she is unsure about the relationship.

 

Spend your time with her, ask her out on a date, surprise her with amazing gifts, do what she likes when you are around her, have more fun with her, get closer to her, be there when she needs your help and be the kind of man she expects you to be.

 

By doing this you will eventually make her sure about the relationship.

 

She will open up her heart for you if that dim part within her that wanted her to be with you existed.

 

But if it never existed then no matter what you do she will never change her decision.

 

She will not be sure about the relationship and things will continue to be worse between the two of you.

 

6. Give her time to think through this.

 

If you have tried everything I have shared with you don’t expect her to be sure within a week.

 

You will have to give her time to think through this.

 

There is no need to push to make a decision that will hurt both of you.

 

You will have to be patient with her to process this. Don’t give up easily on her.

 

If you want her to be yours then waiting should be an option for you.

 

You have to continue to do what makes her get closer to you even in your waiting period.

 

Don’t stop doing what you were doing simply because you are waiting for her to decide.

 

You should wait for about 3 weeks for her to give you the right answer if it goes more than a month then know that she doesn’t feel the same for you and you should just let her go.

 

Lastly…

 

When a girl is unsure about a relationship and you make an effort to make her feel your love then she will give you a chance if she feels the same for you.

 

But if she doesn’t feel the same for you then her heart will never allow her to give you the chance.

 

Everything you will do to make her fall in love with you will only keep making things worse between the two of you.

 

If you have tried to find out what she feels about you by using actions and she reacts negatively to your touch then you should know she doesn’t feel the same for you.

 

Try your best to get her interested in you, and make her fall in love with you by doing things she likes but if things don’t work out to your expectations know that she doesn’t have feelings for you.

 

The only thing you will have to do is to step on your feelings for her and walk away from her.

 

Find someone else, not all girls will let you down.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions feel free to leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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