When A Girl Says She Is Not In The Mood To Talk: Do This

When a girl says she is not in the mood to talk then this can be a problematic thing, especially if you don’t know how to go about it.

 

In this article, I will share with you what it means when a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you and what you can do about it.

 

The moment a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you then you have to know what will make her tick.

 

You have to do something that will change her mood, especially when you want her to talk to you at that moment.

 

I will share with you some tricks you can use to make her talk to you even if she is not in the mood.

 

Before I do that, first you should understand the meaning of this phrase.

 

When you understand what she means when she says she is not in the mood to talk then you will have a good chance of changing this situation.

 

What does it mean when a girl says she is not in the mood to talk?

 

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When a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you it means she doesn’t want to talk to you. She doesn’t feel like talking to you because she is not in her usual shape emotionally. It can be that she is stressed about something or she is mad at you.

 

The first thing you should know when a girl says she is not in the mood to talk is this, she doesn’t want to talk to you at the moment.

 

Mood swing is something that happens with girls. You might sleep with her in one bed and the next morning she will never even say hi to you.

 

This is something you should expect from girls, and it’s normal for them to have mood swings.

 

One moment a girl can be chicky and the next one she can be gloomy.

 

Sometimes this is influenced by their Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS).

 

Also, when a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you it can be that she is stressed about something.

 

Some things are driving her crazy and that is why she can’t even structure her words correctly.

 

And when a girl is stressed and you push her to talk to you things might turn upside down.

 

Also, when a girl is mad at you she will say she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

This is because there is a negative tension between the two of you and that is why she is not feeling the vibe to talk to you.

 

What to do when a girl is not in the mood to talk to you.

1. Don’t get mad at her for saying she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

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If she tells you that she is not in the mood to talk to you don’t get mad at her.

 

Don’t talk rudely to her because this will only make matter worse between the two of you.

 

You will end up bringing an irrelevant fight.

 

When she says that she is not in the mood to talk to you then you should understand her.

 

Be soft to her. I mean, make sure you treat her appropriately and say words that will not upset her.

 

Try for once to be that understanding boyfriend even if that is not who you are.

 

When you listen to her keenly and understand that she is not in the mood to talk to you don’t walk away from her immediately.

 

Find another angle that you can use to make her open up to you.

 

And this brings me to the next step.

 

2. gently find out why she is not in the mood.

The next thing you should do when a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you is to find out why she is not in the mood.

 

I have used the word gently.

 

This means you should not push her or force her to tell you why she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

The main reason for this is to make her talk to you and not to upset her.

 

So, be gently and slowly find a way you can make her open up to you.

 

Get close to her, make her feel comfortable and start asking her why she is not in the mood of talking to you.

 

If you already have an idea why she is not in the mood to talk to you then you should start your way to the next point.

 

When you find out why she is not in the mood to talk to you then you can use those reasons to solve this issue instantly.

 

And that brings me to the next point.

 

3. Do things that you know excite her.

 

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This is something else you can do if she says she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

The moment when you have found out why she is not in the mood to talk to you and you used those reasons to solve your issues then this is another thing you should do.

 

Do things that make her happy. Think of something that will elevate her mood and make her playful again.

 

When you do things that elevate her mood then she will suddenly start being playful around you, she will lighten up and she will start talking to you.

 

You have to know you only have one shot at this so, you should pick something that she likes the most.

 

The fact that she is not in the mood to talk to you there is no possibility that she will do anything with you.

 

4. Comfort her.

This is something else you can do if she says she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

She only said she is not in the mood to talk to you, it doesn’t mean she told you to go away.

 

So, take advantage of this and do things that make her happy.

 

You can comfort her. Make her feel so comfy in the state she is in.

 

If she is lying on the couch without a pillow place a pillow under her head.

 

Make sure you cover her up if it’s freezing outside.

 

You can also lay next to her, hug, cuddle and spoon with her.

 

When you do such things she will feel good and a few percentages of her bad mood will be lifted.

 

Don’t be surprised when she tells you that you can talk to her.

 

5. Ask her what she wants.

 

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When you do all that and she still doesn’t show any promising signs of talking to you then don’t keep on pressuring her.

 

You can just ask her what she wants.

 

This is something most men never do.

 

They all assume that they know everything that their girlfriends usually want.

 

And which is very wrong.

 

So, don’t be among those men.

 

Ask her what she wants from you so that you can help her out with her mood changes.

 

Do what she will ask of you and you will be able to change her mood.

 

6. Give her some space.

If none of the ways is working for you then this should be your last option.

 

When a girl says she is not in the mood to talk to you don’t just walk away from her.

 

Instead, start finding what you can do to change her mood.

 

When you find out that there is nothing that can change her mood then give her space.

 

Give her some time to be alone so that she can figure out things that are driving her insane.

 

In this way, you will be able to allow her to set her priorities straight and she will reach out to you when she is ready to talk.

 

Lastly…

If she told you that she is not in the mood to talk to you then you should understand her.

 

Don’t force her to talk to you or get angry.

 

Show her that you understand her situation and you want to make her feel better.

 

But if she says she is not in the mood to talk to you and you just walk away without doing or trying anything she will assume that what you wanted to say to her wasn’t that important.

 

Also, she will conclude that you don’t care about her and that is why you just walked away.

 

Always try something, and I’m sure of one these ways will help you out.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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