What Do You Do When Your Girlfriend Asks For Money?

If your girlfriend asks you for money and you don’t know what to do then I got you covered. In this article, I will share with you an approach you can take when your girlfriend asks you for money.

 

I’m not going to base on one side, I will be talking on the side where you have money to give your girlfriend and when you don’t have the money.

 

So, without further ado, let me get started.

 

The first thing you should know is that spending money on your girlfriend is something you will have to do even if you don’t want to.

 

I talked about this in my other articles, if you missed them then don’t forget to check them out.

 

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So, if you want to know what to do when your girlfriend asks you for money then this is what you should do.

 

What to do when your girlfriend asks you for money;

1. Get to know what she wants the money for.

Even if you have the money to give to your girlfriend this is the first approach you should take.

 

When your girlfriend wants money from you the first thing you have to do is to ask her what she wants the money for.

 

This is to make sure that when you give her the money you are aware that she is going to do something important with that money.

 

This is especially if you know that your girlfriend is a spendthrift and she is not that responsible.

 

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If she is not that responsible person then you have to take care of her. You have to ensure where she spends your money is something crucial.

 

This is very important in your relationship especially if you want to be financially independent in your relationship.

 

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If you shape your girlfriend on where she spends her money and give her directions on the things that she needs to spend on then you will have a good future with her.

 

Unless you are dating her for a short term thing.

 

But if your girlfriend is a responsible person and you know that she is a budget-oriented person and whenever she asks for money from you is for something important and relevant to her then you won’t have to go through the above process.

 

If your girlfriend is a responsible person and she is not a spendthrift then you are on the good side.

 

2. Is it something worthy of spending money on.

When your girlfriend asks for money from you to do a certain thing, is it worth it for her to spend money on it?

 

So, if it’s something very important to her then you should give her the money.

 

If she wants to do something important and she doesn’t have the means to get the cash and that is why she has asked you, when you refuse to give her then she will conclude you don’t care about her.

 

This will gradually affect your relationship with her.

 

But if what she wants to do it’s not that important then you can talk her out of it.

 

You have to remember that you have goals that you want to achieve.

 

You have a dream vacation you are planning for and not forgetting the apartment you want to buy.

 

All these dreams will be possible if you maximize your savings and decrease your spending.

 

You should be wise on the things you choose to spend money on if you want to attain financial stability in your relationship.

 

So, if it’s something worth spending money on then give her the money to buy what she wants.

 

But if it’s not something that essential and she can do without it then let her know that you can use other means.

 

If your girlfriend is someone who understands your financial state she will be considerate about it.

 

And she will not ask you to give her money to buy expensive things.

 

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3. If you don’t have the money, let her know.

If your girlfriend wants money from you and your current situation is very bad then let her know about it.

 

You should let her know that you don’t have the cash currently due to one or two things.

 

Explaining to her that you don’t have the cash is important because she will understand where you spent the money on.

 

You should always be honest with each other when it comes to anything that you do in your relationship.

 

This is especially if you decide to move in together.

 

You have to be open with each other on how you spend the money.

 

This will decrease the pressure between the two of you and you will be willing to spend money on each other.

 

And this will make life easier.

 

But if you disclose everything to each other things will get ugly.

 

So, if you don’t have the money that your girlfriend is asking for then let her know.

 

She will not leave you because you told her your credit card is empty.

 

I don’t think she will start arguing about it unless you used the money for irrelevant reasons yet she planned to do something important with it.

 

If your girlfriend will make it a big deal when you tell her you don’t have the money then know that she is not someone to keep.

 

This shows that the only thing she cares about is money.

 

And if she will want to leave you because you don’t have the money to give her then what I will advise you to do is to let her go.

 

There is no need to be with someone who is with you for your money.

 

Your girlfriend should be an understanding person on different sides of situations.

Lastly…

 

To summarize this and make everything clear for you to understand this is what to do when your girlfriend asks you for money.

 

When your girlfriend asks you for money the first thing you have to do is to ask her what she needs the money for. This is especially if you know your girlfriend is a spendthrift.

 

She is not money-wise.

 

But if your girlfriend is responsible and she never asks you for money except when it’s for something very important then you should give her the money when she asks you.

 

If you don’t have the money then don’t be afraid to let your girlfriend know that you don’t have the money.

 

There is no way she will start an argument because you told her that you have no money.

 

If your girlfriend wants money from you to spend on something that is not relevant then you can talk her out of it.

 

Let her know that you have goals that you need to attain and if you spend money aimlessly there is no way you will manage to go on your dream vacation.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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