What To Do When Your Girlfriend Can’t Take A Joke

If your girlfriend can’t take a joke and you don’t know what to do about this then here is something that will help you out on this issue.

 

If she can’t take a joke then it will be so hard for you to make any joke around her.

 

You can’t blame her for not being able to take any joke. Not all girls like it when their guys make jokes at them.

 

The other thing you should know is the kinds of jokes you make to her.

 

This also plays a part in how she responds to these jokes.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you what you can do when your girlfriend can’t take a joke.

 

What to do when your girlfriend can’t take a joke;

1. Understand her situation first.

If your girlfriend can’t take a joke the first thing you have to do is to understand her situation.

 

Understand that she can’t take a joke from you. The moment you admit that she can’t take a joke from you then you will be concerned about what to do to change the situation.

 

if you won’t admit that she can’t take a joke from you and you keep on making jokes at her then you will be hurting her feelings.

 

This will make you push her away and your relationship with her will be messed up because of a tiny issue that you would have solved easily.

 

You have to appreciate that not every girl will take your jokes. Understand that girls are different and your girlfriend is one of them.

 

Don’t get mad at her because she can’t any jokes from you.

 

When you make such an understanding within you then you will be able to find a way to solve this issue so that you can be on good terms with your girlfriend.

 

The truth is that at one point or another you will find yourself making jokes at her even without intending, especially if you are used to doing it.

 

2. Find out why she can’t take a joke from you.

If your girlfriend can’t take a joke from you then you should find out why that is so.

 

There is no way you will solve this issue if you won’t take your time to find out why your girlfriend can’t take a joke.

 

You can find this by taking note of how she reacts when you make jokes at her.

 

This will give you a little bit of knowledge of why she can’t take a joke from you.

 

When you notice that she seems hurt when you make jokes at her then you will know that she can’t take your jokes because they hurt her feelings.

 

The other way you can know why she can’t take any jokes from you is by talking to her.

 

You will have to sit down with her and ask her. Let her tell you why she can’t take any jokes from you.

 

If there is anything that bothers her about the jokes you make then you will be able to know.

 

3. Change anything that hurts her from the jokes you make.

If your girlfriend is too sensitive to jokes or your jokes hurt her feelings in a certain way then you will have to do something about it.

 

When your girlfriend tells you that your jokes hurt her feelings then you will have to do something about your jokes.

 

You will have to tailor your jokes in a way that they don’t hurt her feelings if you still want to make jokes at her.

 

But if this is something you can’t do then you will have to stop making jokes at her.

 

When you realize that she gets angry at you when you joke about certain topics then you should avoid making jokes about those topics.

 

Think of anything that you can change in your jokes so that you avoid hurting her feelings.

 

You will be able to do this with her help.

 

Make her open up to you so that you can find a way you can change the way you make your jokes around her.

 

She can’t take your jokes because they hurt her feelings. If you will be able to change that then she will let you joke around her.

 

On the other hand, if you know that your girlfriend is a very sensitive person then you will have to avoid making jokes.

 

Stop making jokes because sensitive people will always take everything seriously.

 

4. Stop making jokes.

This is another option that you have. If your girlfriend can’t take a joke then you will have to stop making jokes at her.

 

You will have to completely stop if you can’t tailor your jokes in a way that will prevent you from hurting her feelings.

 

There are some jokes that you will find hard to tailor and this will force you to stop making jokes completely.

 

For instance, if your girlfriend is a very sensitive person no matter the kind of jokes you will make to her they will always hurt her feelings.

 

So, if this is the case then you will have no alternative but to stop making jokes completely.

 

Let your girlfriend know that you will stop making jokes but she has to bear with you as you try to change.

 

In this way, she will understand that you are trying to change so that when you slip and make a joke she doesn’t take it personally.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend can’t take a joke from you then know that the jokes you make hurt her feelings or it can be that she is a very sensitive person.

 

The moment you notice that your girlfriend can’t take a joke make a point of talking to her. Find out why she can’t take your jokes and fix anything that you can change in your jokes.

 

If she is too sensitive and she takes every joke seriously then you will have no alternative but to stop making jokes at her.

 

This is the only way you will prevent yourself from hurting her feelings.

 

When you notice that your girlfriend can’t take a joke and you keep on making jokes then know that you will push her away and she will hate you for hurting her feelings.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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