When your girlfriend compares to other guys it can be very hurtful and annoying.
If you are wondering why your girlfriend compares you with other guys then this is the right article for you to get your answer.
This is why your girlfriend compares you to other guys;
1. She compares you to other guys because she expects more from you.
This is one of the reasons why your girlfriend compares you to other guys.
Your girlfriend will compare you to other guys when she feels that you are a constant disappointment to her. She does it so that you get to know that she expects more from you. She knows that when she compares you to other guys you will change your ways.
Ladies understand that men like to be in a situation where they are the ones doing what is necessary for them to make them happy.
So, she knows that when she compares you to other guys because you don’t do some things for her the way the other guys do for their partners then you won’t accept a defeat.
This will make you work smart and hard and give her what she expects from you.
It might be hard for her to tell you that she wants or expects more from you because of how you might end up thinking of her.
So, when she compares you to other guys she indirectly tells you that she expects you to be more like the other guys.
This is especially if she uses a sentence like this, “I thought you would be so much better than Michael”
In this case, she is telling you that Michael is better than you are and she expects more from you.
2. She compares you to other guys because she is not happy being with you.
If your girlfriend is not happy being you there are so many things that will show that.
These are the examples of things that will show that your girlfriend is not happy being with you;
- She won’t be willing to do anything fun with you unless you make her.
- She will talk bad about you when she is with her friends.
- She will constantly pick up fights for irrelevant reasons.
- She will most of the time threaten to leave you whenever you annoy her.
- She will talk about other guys in your presence and she won’t care about how you will feel about it.
- She will always give you lame excuses for her not to be around you.
- She will compare you to other guys and criticize you most of the time.
So, if your girlfriend is not happy being with you then she will always compare you to other guys who are way better than you.
She will do that just to make you feel bad about yourself.
This shows that she is not happy being with you, it can be for different reasons why she feels that way.
So, find a way to fix the issues between the two of you.
3. She compares you to other guys because she is trying to make you be like them.
This is another reason why your girlfriend compares you to other guys.
If she wants you to be like the other guys then she will always compare you to them so that you get the urge to want to please her and change yourself and be like the guys she is talking about.
It can be that she is comparing you with the other guys so that you get to know the things that you don’t do right.
With this comparison, you can clearly see where you are, and the things the other guys do and you don’t and this will make you fix the areas that you aren’t doing well.
A girl will compare you to other guys when she is trying to tell you to be like them or do things like the other guys are doing.
She might be doing this to change you because she doesn’t like the way you handle your things or handle her.
4. She compares you to other guys just to make you jealous.
Your girlfriend may be deliberately doing this just to make you jealous.
This is definitely true because most men will obviously get jealous when their women are talking about other men in a positive way than they do about them.
You don’t have to worry so much if she compares you to other guys in a humorous way. She is only trying to make you jealous and see how you will react to it.
She can also be doing it just to get to see what you will say about it.
If the two of you are good jokers, then there is no need to think so much when she starts comparing you to other guys when you are out with her.
Your girlfriend is trying to find a topic to talk about with you, especially if she finds you so silent and there is nothing to talk about.
5. She compares you to other guys so that you can make an effort and be more like them.
The first thing that I talked about was “she expects more from you when she compares you to other guys”
She will compare you to other guys so that you make an effort and be more like them especially if she notices that you are too dependent on her or you don’t integrate your life with the things you do.
When your partner compares you to other guys she is trying to show you your weaknesses and strengths.
For instance, if you have failed to achieve something and you have given up, she will tell you, “Be like your friend John who received the noble prices while you were all working in the same department”
She is simply trying to make you not give up and make more effort and be successful just like the other guys who succeeded.
If she notices that you don’t make efforts to change your life or to handle her in a way that she will be happy about, then she will compare you to other guys not to make you angry but to make effort and be like them.
6. Your girlfriend compares you to other guys because she finds them more amazing than you are.
This is another reason that might sound harsh to you but it’s the whole truth.
When your partner compares you to other guys then it’s simply because she finds them to be amazing and awesome guys than you are. The truth is that if she could have never found them to be amazing as you are then she wouldn’t have talked about them in the first place.
It can be that your girlfriend is attracted to these other guys that she compares you to.
Get it in your mind that your girlfriend is not so excited when she is around you as when she is with the other guys.
She might be comparing you with your friends, school mate or workmates.
If your girlfriend is comparing you to her ex and she talks of her ex being better than you are, then this simply shows that she hasn’t moved on from her ex, and it can that she still has a connection with her ex and that is why she compares you to him.
When your girlfriend reaches the extent of comparing you to her ex then there is a great problem in your relationship between you and her.
Figure out what is wrong and take your relationship to the right state.
If your girlfriend is comparing you to other guys in a way that she is telling you to be better than them there is nothing bad about that. She is just trying to build you and be someone who will be successful also.
But if your girlfriend compares you to other guys in a way to make you feel bad about yourself then there is a great possibility that she doesn’t love you. She is only hanging with you because she has no alternative, but if she had a chance she would have walked away from you.
The moment your girlfriend compares you to other guys in a humorous way then she is trying to see how you will react and what you will say about it. It can also be that she is trying to make you jealous.
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