Why Your Girlfriend Is Distancing Herself From You (+ What To Do)

If your girlfriend is distancing herself from you then you have to do something about it.

 

This is because for your relationship to move smoothly the two of you have to be close enough.

 

The moment she distances herself from you and you do nothing about it then you will end up losing her.

 

Several things can make your girlfriend distance herself from you and luckily there is a way how you can fix that.

 

Without further ado let me get into this topic.

 

This is why your girlfriend is distancing herself from you;

1. She is losing interest in you.

If your girlfriend is losing interest then she will start being distant from you.

 

This is the first reason that can make your girlfriend distance herself from you.

 

When she is losing interest in you she will not feel the need to be next to you.

 

She will just want to be far from you because there is no way she feels connected to you.

 

The first thing that will happen when a girl is losing her interest in you is that her feelings will also decrease.

 

If these feelings are the things that facilitate her connection with you, how do you expect her to be close to you when these feelings are gradual vanishing?

 

But when she is losing her interest in you it doesn’t mean that there is nothing you can do about it.

 

Luckily, this is something that can be fixed, I talked about this in the article below.

 

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2. She is not happy in that relationship.

If you find your girlfriend distancing herself from you it’s because she is not happy in that relationship.

 

Otherwise, if she was happy in that relationship then nothing would have made her distant from you.

 

There are several reasons why she may not be happy in that relationship.

 

If she is stressed with her issues that she can’t seem to tackle then this may be the main cause of why she is not happy in that relationship.

 

And if your girlfriend is stressed she will not want to be close to anyone.

 

This will make her distance herself from you.

 

Also, if you don’t meet her expectations in that relationship she will distance herself from you.

 

The moment you can’t give her what she wants she will not be happy being in that relationship.

 

This is because she will not be satisfied and this will interfere with her happiness.

 

If she is not happy with you then there is no way she will be close to you and this will be the main cause of the distance that will be between the two of you.

 

So, if your girlfriend is not happy for any reason she will distance herself from you.

 

3. She is mad at you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is distant from you.

 

She is mad at you and that is why she is being distant from you.

 

You can’t expect your girlfriend to be mad at you and come closer to you.

 

If she is mad at you for any reason then she will distance herself from you.

 

This is because there will be negative tension between the two of you.

 

This tension will never allow her to be close to you.

 

So, if you recently got yourselves in arguments or fights then this could be the reason why she is distancing herself from you.

 

She is angry at you and that is why she doesn’t want to be closer to you.

 

4. She is trying to get your attention.

Girls have a tricky way of getting men’s attention. If you have been ignoring her she will either block youignore you or distance herself from her.

 

This is another reason why your girlfriend is distancing herself from you.

 

She is trying to get your attention. She clearly knows that when she distances herself from you then you will have a lot of questions about why she is doing that.

 

This will make you curious.

 

You will want to know what is wrong with her and this will eventually make you give her full attention.

 

The more you will want to know from her the more you will get closer to her and this will allow her to get your full attention.

 

So, if you have been ignoring her, not giving her the attention she wants and she ends up being distant from you then this is because she is trying to pull you closer.

 

She is well aware that if she distances herself from you then you will have no choice but give her full attention.

 

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5. She doesn’t like the way you handle her.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is distancing herself from you.

 

If you don’t treat her nicely or handle her the way she wants this will make her distance herself from you.

 

So, check how you are treating her if you want to know what is wrong with her.

 

The moment you treat your girlfriend badly there is no way she will want to be closer to you.

 

She will be far away from you because you don’t handle her the way she wants.

 

You can’t be hurting your girlfriend every day and expect her to be close to you.

 

If you treat her nicely then she will always enjoy spending time with you, but if you treat her like a piece of trash she will always be distant from you.

 

6. She is bored being in that relationship.

Relationships sometimes can be boring, especially if you don’t know how to deal with them.

 

If you have no idea how you can make your relationship filled with happiness and excitement then you will never manage to have an amazing relationship.

 

It will always be dull. So, if your girlfriend finds the relationship being boring there is no way she will happy to be close to you.

 

She will distance herself from you because the relationship doesn’t give her the thrill she wants.

 

7. She wants space from you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is distancing herself from you.

She wants space and time from you.

 

There is a point in a relationship whereby someone will feel that she or he wants to be alone.

 

This is something normal that happens in every relationship.

 

If she wants space from you then she will distance herself from you.

 

Some people will say it when they want space from their partners while we have some who will prefer not to say anything about it and just pull themselves out.

 

So, if your girlfriend is that type of person who doesn’t like to open up about what she is feeling then this can be possible that she is distant herself because she wants space from you.

 

If your girlfriend is someone who refuses to talk about her problem then this is something you have to do.

 

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What To Do When Your Girlfriend Is Distancing Herself From You.

1. Find out why she is distancing herself from you.

This is the first thing you have to do if your girlfriend is distancing herself from you.

 

Find out why she is distancing herself from you.

 

There is no way you will be able to make her come closer to you if you have no idea what makes her distant.

 

You can find out why she is distancing herself from you by thinking of the recent activities you did with her.

 

Think of anything that you might have done wrong that made her pull away.

 

Also, you can just talk to her and let her tell you why she is distancing herself from you lately.

 

She will open up and you will have an idea why she is distancing herself from you.

 

When you find out why she is distant from you then it’s time to use these reasons to solve this problem.

 

2. Fix any misunderstandings between the two of you.

Now that you have found out why she is distancing herself from you it’s time to use those reasons to fix this issue.

 

It will be easier for you to fix this issue if you have an idea why she is acting that way.

 

If she told you that she is distancing herself from you because she is mad at you then this is something you can easily fix.

 

Try to find a way that you can make her happy and this will be enough to eliminate that problem.

 

If she told you that she is distancing herself from you because she is not happy then find a way to make her happy.

 

What I’m trying to say is that once you find out that it’s something that can be fixed then that is the first angle you should use to solve that problem.

 

3. Bring back the excitement in the relationship.

This is something else you can do to make your girlfriend come closer to you if she is distant.

 

The excitement in a relationship plays a very big part in couples interacting with each other.

 

It brings out the energy that makes couples focus on each other and make effort in their relationship.

 

Once the excitement is lost then couples can easily distance themselves from each other.

 

The good thing is that this problem can be solved easily.

 

The only thing you have to do is bring back the excitement in the relationship.

 

You can do this by spending more time together, taking each other on dates frequently, having fun together, reminding yourselves what you have to fight for in that relationship, learning new things from each other and so many other things.

 

Once you do things that bring happiness, excitement and energy to your relationship then your girlfriend will eventually end up being closer to you again.

 

4. Give her what she wants and expects from you.

This is something else you have to do if you want to delete the distance between you and your girlfriend.

 

If you know that she wants something that you can give her and you haven’t given her then this is something you have to do.

 

Give her something that will make her come closer to you.

 

The moment you notice that your girlfriend is distant from you simply because she is not getting what she wants then make an effort in getting her what she wants.

 

When she gets what she wants and expects from you then she will be happy and this will make her come closer to you.

 

This would have been solved easily.

 

5. Spend quality time with her.

The moment you see your girlfriend distancing herself from you then you should spend more time with her.

 

Time is something that can do wonders in your relationship. If you rarely spend time with her then this is the time for you to maximize that if you want to delete the distance between you and your girlfriend.

 

The more time you spend with her the closer she will get to you.

 

If you have a tight schedule then you have to go forget your schedule for a while to make your relationship right.

 

This is something you have to sacrifice. There is no way you will manage to do this without sacrificing your time for your relationship.

 

Take time off from your work and focus on your girlfriend. Give her the attention and time she wants and this will delete the distance between the two of you.

 

This is because the more time you spend together the closer you will get to each other.

 

And this will eventually strengthen the bond of your relationship.

 

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6. Treat her nicely.

This is another thing you will have to do if you want her to delete the distance she is creating.

 

If you are not treating her nicely then this is something you should change.

 

Be extra nice to her and she will be close to you.

 

The moment you treat her nicely and make her feel good about herself she will feel comfortable being close to you.

 

This will create a positive relationship between the two of you and she will find no need to be distancing herself from you.

 

This should start with the words you speak to the things you do for her.

 

Try your best to control your temper. Don’t shout and yell at her when you are mad at her.

 

Solve every challenge you come across in your relationship maturely.

 

Don’t ever raise your hands to hit her. Respect her and show that she means so much to you and this will make her come closer to you.

 

7. Give her space and time alone.

If you have tried everything you can to make her closer to you and nothing seems to be working then be patient.

 

Give her time alone to work out the things that are bothering her.

 

Don’t ignore her and walk away from her simply because she is ignoring you.

 

Doing this will never solve anything and you may end up losing her.

 

So, be optimistic and give her time to be on her own to set her priorities straight.

 

When you will manage to do this then you will have her all for yourself when she manages to think of what matters to her.

 

Give her the space she wants to set everything on the right path.

 

If she really loves you then she will eventually stop distancing herself from you and come closer to you.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have tried everything you can to make her get closer to you and she doesn’t seem to care about a thing you do for her then know that she no longer loves you.

 

She doesn’t have feelings for you and it can be that she is gradually cutting off the connection between the two of you.

 

The moment when you have tried everything and she doesn’t seem to care the only option you will have is to let her be on her own.

 

Don’t say a word to her, just stop putting effort and involve yourself on issues that matter to you.

 

Keep building yourself, if she still loves you she will come back to you and fix the relationship.

 

But if she no longer loves you then she will walk away from you.

 

The truth is that you can’t force someone to feel the same way you feel.

 

Thanks for reading this blog post. If you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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