If your girlfriend got drunk and slept with someone else this means she cheated on you. As long as the act happened, this is considered that she cheated on you.
Before I go deep into this topic just keep it in your mind that she cheated on you.
In this article, I will share with you what to do if your girlfriend slept with someone else while drunk.
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Without wasting so much time, let me get into this topic.
What to do if your girlfriend slept with someone else while drunk;
1. Calm yourself down and take it easy.
What happened is not something to be calm about. Your girlfriend cheated on you!
As long as she was never forced then this shows that she cheated on you.
Trust me, I know how painful this thing is.
But if you want to have a chance of going to the bottom of this issue then you will have to be calm.
I’m not asking you to be calm and take her back in your life and assume that nothing happened.
She cheated on you! And that is not something that you are going to do.
If you won’t calm down then you might end up doing something that you will regret for the rest of your life.
You don’t want that to happen, right? So, take it easy.
Take deep breaths and find a way you will approach this issue.
If you will be calm then you will handle this issue maturely and you won’t make any judgments or decisions based on your anger.
When you decide while you are angry you will always do something wrong.
So, before you think of approaching her or doing any of the things I will share with you in this article you have to calm down first.
If it’s possible distance yourself from her for a while for you to calm down before you get to the bottom of this issue.
2. Find out who the guy was to her.
If your girlfriend slept with someone else while drunk, who is this guy that she cheated on you with.
For you to get to the bottom of this issue you have to find out who this guy was to her.
Was this guy her friend? Was it a stranger? Was the guy her ex?
These are some of the questions you should use to find out who this guy was.
You can’t figure it out on your own. You will have to confront her.
Face her and ask her about it.
Let her tell you if the guy was her guy friend, ex or it was a stranger.
Don’t let her tell you the bullsh*t that she doesn’t remember a thing because it happened since she was drunk!
If she insists on you telling you that she doesn’t remember then don’t continue talking to her.
Walk away from her and never look back.
She is just playing with you.
On the other hand, if she tells you that the guy she slept with while drunk was her guy friend then you should know that your girlfriend has feelings for her guy friend.
And there is a possibility that your girlfriend has been doing this behind your back.
Chill, I will share what action you should take about this at the end of this article.
But for now, let me continue sharing with you what you need to do about this issue.
If she tells you that he was a stranger then you should follow the next step in this article.
3. Let her know that you are hurt by what she did.
This is something else you should do.
You must tell her how you feel about what she did.
Speak it all. Let it all out. You are hurt and you should not hold your words back.
You should not hold your words but hold your hands. Don’t go to an extent that you will regret.
Let her know that she hurt your feelings and you are very disappointed in her.
Don’t hold anything back because this may be the last time you will be talking to her if you will choose to end the relationship after this.
So, let her know how you feel about what she did. Talk about all the things you expected from her.
This may be your closure with her.
4. Observe how she reacts to what you tell her.
After you have told her how you feel about what she did then you should take your time observing her.
But if you are thinking of ending the relationship with her because your mind is made up then you can do it.
You should do what you feel it’s right for you.
But for me, I would recommend you observe her and see how she reacts to what you tell her.
Take your time and see what she is doing after doing such a thing.
The way she will talk to you and handle herself before you will show you how she feels about you.
If your girlfriend shows that she is sorry for sleeping with someone else while drunk, she is doing everything to make it up to you and you can see within her that she is not happy with what she did then you should consider forgiving her.
This shows that she slept with that person while drunk but it’s not something that she wanted to do.
She was out of control and that is why it happened. It’s not like she was sober.
You can choose to forgive her if she is showing you that she is so sorry for what she did.
But if she doesn’t show any remorse for what she did then you should know that she slept with the guy while drunk on purpose.
It can be that she did it to hurt you.
And this shows that she doesn’t respect you at all and she doesn’t love you and the only thing you should do is cut her off.
End the relationship with her because she is taking you for granted.
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5. Take your actions according to how you feel about her.
After you have done all this, how do you feel about her?
Are you still in love with her?
Do you think you can still be with her?
Do you think it’s a good idea to forgive her?
Ask yourself how you feel about her. If you think you can fix the issue between the two of you and go on with that relationship then do it.
If that is what you feel like doing.
Also, if you feel that she did it because she was out of control and she is showing remorse then you should forgive her and fix your relationship with her.
On the other hand, if the guy she slept with while drunk was her guy friend then you should ask her to cut him off from her life.
If she wants to continue to be with you she should do that.
But if she doesn’t want to do it then don’t waste your time with her just end the relationship.
If the person she slept with while drunk was her ex then you should also end the relationship even if you feel like holding on to her.
This shows that your girlfriend still has feelings for her ex and it can be that this is something that has been happening behind your back.
If your girlfriend slept with someone else while drunk and you just feel you can’t be with her again because you won’t feel her then you should consider ending the relationship.
End the relationship with her because if you force yourself to be with her yet you feel nothing for her then you will be tormenting yourself.
Do what your heart tells you to do.
But if you are unsure of what to decide then do what I have shared with you in this article.
This will help you to have clarity on what you should do about this issue.
But if the person she slept with while drunk was her ex, I don’t advise you to continue being with her.
End that relationship.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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