If your girlfriend has another guy as her wallpaper then you must be asking yourself so many questions.
I know you may be thinking that she likes that guy.
Anyway, you can’t be sure about this at all unless you have a piece of evidence that she is cheating on you with the guy on her wallpaper.
If your girlfriend has another guy as her wallpaper and this is something that bothers you, it takes you breath away and you feel so uncomfortable about this issue then you can do something about it.
In this article, I will share with you what to do about this issue.
Without wasting time, let me share with you what you can do about this situation.
What to do when your girlfriend has another guy as her wallpaper;
1. Find out who the guy is.
This is the first thing you have to do before you decide to do anything else.
You have to find out who the guy is before you start asking her so many questions about him.
When you have an idea of who the guy is then you will be able to approach this issue in the right way.
But if you don’t have an idea of who the guy is then you might mess things up.
There is only one way you can get to know who this guy is.
You will have to talk to your girlfriend about him. You should approach her in style so that she doesn’t notice what you are trying to do.
Have a conversation with her and ask her about her wallpaper.
You can ask her several questions about the wallpaper.
You can ask her this way,
You: I can see you changed your wallpaper recently.
Her: Yes, I did, do you like it?
You: I don’t like it. Who is this guy anyway?
When you ask her who the guy is then you will be able to know.
2. Check her connection with that guy.
The next thing for you to do is to check her connection with that guy.
There are several ways you can use to find out if she has any connection with that guy.
The first thing you can just go back in time and think if she has been talking about him lately.
If there was an incident that she talked about him to you then know that there might be a connection she has with this guy.
But you can’t conclude that she is cheating on you with this guy on her wallpaper if you have no proof of that.
If you have noticed that your girlfriend has been so secretive lately and it’s not her habit then you should suspect something from her behaviour.
Something is going on and she is trying to hide you from it. Also, if she has been going out frequently without even talking to you about it then know that something is going on.
It can be that your girlfriend is seeing the guy who is her new wallpaper and she doesn’t want you to know about it.
If she doesn’t give you the attention she used to then know that she may be giving the attention to someone else.
But if everything between the two of you is okay and you are happy together then there is no reason for you to suspect anything.
The only thing you can do if the wallpaper of another guy on her phone is bothering you is to talk to her about it.
3. Talk to her about how you feel.
Talk to your girlfriend about how you feel about her having another guy as her wallpaper.
You have to be honest about it if it’s something that bothers you.
If you will keep silent about it then you will be hurting yourself. Don’t be worried that your girlfriend will find you jealous.
You have the right to be jealous because if she noticed that you have another girl on your wallpaper that would have been a talk of the year.
She would have asked you so many questions about why you have another girl as your wallpaper.
So, sit down and tell her how you feel about it if you want to make things between the two of you okay.
Let her know that you don’t find it appropriate for her to have another guy as her wallpaper.
Tell her that it’s something that makes you uncomfortable, jealous and it annoys you and she should change that wallpaper.
If your girlfriend cares about you and she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings then she will listen to you.
She will take off that wallpaper from her phone and put you instead just to make you happy.
4. Take necessary actions according to her response.
If your girlfriend listens to you and changes the wallpaper then there is no other action you will need to take.
But if she refuses to change the wallpaper of the guy on her phone then you will have to do something about it.
Also, if your girlfriend brings an argument or a fight after you have asked her to change the wallpaper then know that something is going on.
When she reacts this way there is only one thing you can do. Don’t break with her simply because she doesn’t want to change the wallpaper on her phone.
I would advise you to distance yourself from her so that you give her time to think of what matters to her.
Don’t contact her and don’t even ask her for a break just decrease the connection between the two of you.
This will enable you to know if she still cares about you or not.
If she will take her time to reach out to you trying to work things out then know that she cares about you and she is sorry for what she did.
But if your girlfriend doesn’t reach out to you after you have distanced yourself from her then know that she is probably going out with the other guy who is on her wallpaper.
The only thing that will be left for you to do is to walk away.
The tiny things that your girlfriend does in your relationship reflect how she feels about you.
If she can put another guy as her wallpaper and yet she has your photos what does that tell you about?
This clearly shows she doesn’t feel you that much, her love for you has a very big questions mark.
When you find that your girlfriend has another guy as her wallpaper and you talk to her about it and she brings a fight or an argument then know that something is going on between her and that guy on her wallpaper.
That is not an issue for the two of you to fight about.
If she won’t change the wallpaper then just walk away from her because this clearly shows she is taking you for granted.
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