My Girlfriend Introduced Me As A Friend (RED FLAG!)

If your girlfriend introduced you as a friend to anyone, be it her friends, co-workers or family this is RED FLAG!

 

In this article, I will share with you what it means when your girlfriend introduces you as her friend.

 

You have to pay extra attention to this because it can be that your girlfriend doesn’t love you at all or you got the wrong impression of her.

 

If your girlfriend wanted you to meet her friends and you managed to meet them and she ended up introducing you as her friend then this is something you should be worried about.

 

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Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

What does it mean when your girlfriend introduces you as a friend?

When your girlfriend introduces you as a friend to anyone it means she doesn’t love you, she is embarrassed by you, she is keeping you a secret, she doesn’t want anyone to know that she is dating or it can be that she perceives you as a friend.

 

I will be explaining these points in this article so stick with me until the end and you will be able to know what you can do about this.

 

When your girlfriend introduces you to anyone as a friend then know that it’s a red flag.

 

You should be worried about it. I know you may be thinking that she is only joking by introducing you as her friend but there is more to it.

 

Why your girlfriend introduces you as her friend;

1. She doesn’t love you.

If your girlfriend introduces you to anyone as a friend then know that she doesn’t love you.

 

A girl who loves you will never introduce you as her friend.

 

If she told you that she is in love with you then that is a lie.

 

Why would she introduce you as a friend yet she is your girlfriend?

 

Does that seem right to you?

 

Despite all reasons she might give you, the first thing you should question is her love for you.

 

If a girl loves you she will never care what people will think about you.

 

She will never care what people will talk about you and this will never prevent her from introducing you to anyone as her boyfriend.

 

She will be proud to let anyone know that she is in a relationship with you because she is in love with you.

 

When your girlfriend introduces you as a friend then know that is a big red flag.

 

You may be thinking she loves you but she is just playing with your mind.

 

Get to know if she loves you.

2. Your girlfriend is embarrassed by you.

This is another thing you should know about why your girlfriend introduces you as her friend.

 

Your girlfriend is embarrassed by you and that is why she introduces you as a friend.

 

This means that is something about you that makes her feel embarrassed.

 

It can be the way you handle yourself, the way you talk to people, the way you interact with them, the kind of clothes or shoes you wear or anything about your personality.

 

And if your girlfriend is embarrassed by you simply because she can’t accept who you are then this also brings me to the first point.

 

Your girlfriend doesn’t love you at all.

 

If someone loves you they have to accept you for who you are.

 

They don’t have to care how other people will perceive you as long as they are comfortable with you.

 

The fact that your girlfriend introduces you as her friend shows that she doesn’t accept you for who you are.

 

And it will be very hard to love someone you can’t accept their nature.

 

Your girlfriend is embarrassed by how you are and that is why she feels ashamed to introduce you as her boyfriend.

3. She is keeping the relationship low-key.

If your girlfriend has the intention of keeping the relationship low-key then this could be the main reason why she introduces you as her friend.

 

The fact that you are searching for help about this and you want to know why she introduces you as her friend shows that you have no idea if she wants to keep the relationship low-key.

 

Your girlfriend doesn’t want anyone to know about your relationship and that is why she introduces you as her friend.

 

It can be that she is in love with you but she is not yet ready to introduce you to anyone yet.

 

And the fact that she introduces you as her friend means she was caught by surprise.

 

She had no alternative but to introduce you as her friend to keep the story short.

 

There is nothing wrong with this if she talked about it with you.

 

It will only be wrong if she kept this to herself.

 

Your girlfriend is supposed to be sharing with you if she is planning to keep the relationship low-key or not.

 

So, your girlfriend introduces you as her friend because she doesn’t want people to know that she is in a relationship.

4. She doesn’t want anyone to know that she is dating you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend introduces you as a friend.

 

Your girlfriend introduces you as her friend simply because doesn’t want anyone to know that she is dating you.

 

For instance, you are in a work environment where you are not supposed to be in a relationship with your co-worker since it will affect the performance of your output then your girlfriend will be forced to hide you.

 

Your girlfriend will always have to introduce you as her friend so that no one realizes that you are dating.

 

If she introduces you as her boyfriend then both of you would lose your jobs.

 

And this may be the worst-case ever.

 

So, if you are in a situation that forces your girlfriend to introduce you as a friend then you should not worry too much about that.

 

As long as when you are in your private space she handles you as her boyfriend and not her friend that should do right by you.

5. Your girlfriend perceives you as a friend.

This is another situation that may make your girlfriend always introduce you as her friend.

 

If she is not clear that you are in a relationship or she hasn’t made up her mind about you then this could be the main reason why she introduces you as a friend.

 

For instance, if you pursued her and she told you to wait for her to think about your issue then this could be the main reason why she still introduces you as her friend.

 

She hasn’t made up her mind about you and that is why she keeps introducing you as her friend.

 

She wants to introduce you as her boyfriend when she is sure that everything with you is going to work or when she has said yes to you.

 

But if she is already your girlfriend and she introduces you as a friend then know that she doesn’t perceive you as her love but as her friend.

 

This is something that does happen in several relationships.

 

It usually reaches a point where your relationship will feel like a friendship.

 

And when your relationship is in that state then your girlfriend will perceive you as nothing but a friend to her.

 

To know more about what causes that and what you can do about it don’t forget to read the article below.

 

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What to do when your girlfriend introduces you as her friend.

When your girlfriend introduces you as her friend you should ask her why she does so. When she tells you why she does so then let her know how you feel about it. Let her know that you don’t want to be introduced as a friend anymore. If she loves you, she will eventually introduce you as her boyfriend.

 

This is something that can be fixed with communication.

 

Talk to your girlfriend about it, and let her know that you hate it.

 

If she cares about your feelings then she will introduce you as her boyfriend.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have talked to her about it and she still introduces you as her friend then know that she doesn’t love you and she is embarrassed by you.

 

Let her know that you will walk away if she keeps introducing you as her friend.

 

If she cares about you she will explain herself to you about why she is doing that so that she keeps you.

 

But if she doesn’t care if you walk away then know that she never loved you and she was only using you.

 

A girl who loves you will never be embarrassed by you or be afraid to introduce you as her man to anyone.

 

There is no need to be with someone who is not proud to have you in her life.

 

Thanks for reading, let me know what you think about this in the comment section. See you in my next article.

 

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