What To Do When Your Girlfriend Is Dating Another Guy

If your girlfriend is dating another guy there are several things you can do about this situation. In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend is dating another guy.

 

You can choose to walk away from your girlfriend or stay and fight for her.

 

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This is a difficult situation but I will try my best to make it easier for you.

 

If your girlfriend is dating another guy this shows that she is cheating on you.

 

There is no other way to term this. Your girlfriend having another guy while she is with you that is cheating.

 

There are several things you can do before you decide to walk away from her or stay.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to do about this situation.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is dating another guy;

1. Find out why she is dating another guy.

If your girlfriend is dating another guy this is the first thing you should do.

 

Don’t just break up with her immediately when you find out that she is dating another guy.

 

You have to be curious to know why she is dating another guy while she still has you.

 

The reasons you might get from her will enlighten you to do something to make her still stick with you and let go of the other guy.

 

What you need to know is that you are not the only guy who sees your girlfriend attractive.

 

Other guys out there also find her attractive and every guy will come with a different offer.

 

Some guys will hit on your girlfriend though they are aware she is in a relationship with you.

 

What they will offer to your girlfriend is what will make a difference.

 

If you don’t give your girlfriend what she wants then she will get that from other guys.

 

So, it can be that your girlfriend is dating another guy while she is still with you because she gets something from the other guy that she doesn’t get from you.

 

The fact that she is still dating you shows that she has feelings for you but those feelings only are not enough to get her what she wants.

 

She wants something more apart from the love she gets from you and you can’t provide it to her and that is why she is dating another guy.

 

Take your time to ask your girlfriend why she is dating another guy while she is still with you.

 

Note down everything she tells you because you are going to use to reasons to gauge whether it’s worth sticking to her or letting her go.

 

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Also, what she will tell you will give you an idea of how you should make her let go of the other guy.

 

That is if you still need her in your life.

 

2. Ask her how she feels about you.

If your girlfriend is dating another guy this is the second thing you should do after you have found out why she is dating another guy.

 

Ask your girlfriend how she feels about you if you want her to know what to do next.

 

You never know, it can be that your girlfriend is dating the other guy because she doesn’t have feelings for you.

 

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So, before you think of doing anything get to know how she still feels about you.

 

Ask her how she feels about you so that you know how you can approach this issue.

 

Make her open up to you and tell you what she feels about you.

 

Ask her if she still loves you, ask her if she still has feelings for you and ask her if she still wants to be with you.

 

The answers you will get from her are what will guide you to the next step that I want to share with you.

 

If your girlfriend says she doesn’t have feelings for you and she doesn’t love you and that is why she is dating another guy then you will have no choice but end the relationship with her.

 

This means that she has been using you and taking you for granted all that time you have been with her.

 

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But if she claims she still loves you and she wants to be with you then do the next thing I’m about to share with you.

 

3. Ask her to end the relationship with the other guy.

If your girlfriend says she is still in love with you despite her dating the other guy then this is what you should ask her to do.

 

Ask your girlfriend to end the relationship with the other guy that she is dating if she still wants to be in a relationship with you.

 

The point of you asking her to end the relationship with the other guy is to confirm whether she truly loves you or not.

 

If your girlfriend truly loves you and she is feeling so bad that you found out that she is dating another guy then she will end the relationship with the other guy without hesitating.

 

She will want to keep you, so, she will have no other choice but to end the relationship with the other guy.

 

But if she doesn’t truly love you then she will not end the relationship with the other guy.

 

And she might even suggest she wants an open relationship with you.

 

When your girlfriend brings this issue up then you will have no choice but to let her go.

 

She doesn’t love you and she doesn’t respect you at all.

 

If she loved you and respected you then she would have talked to you about the issue of having an open relationship before even she decided to date the other guy.

 

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On the other hand, if your girlfriend ends the relationship with the other guy and you still feel the same for her despite what she did then stick to her.

 

Find ways to build your relationship and do everything you can to prevent that from happening again.

 

Since you have the reasons why she ended up dating another guy while she was with you then you can eliminate those issues and make her stick to you.

 

4. If your feelings for her changed walk away from her.

If you feel that you can no longer take what she did to you and you don’t feel the same for her then you should let her go.

 

She cheated on you with another guy!

 

Don’t force yourself to be with her if after you found out she is dating another guy you don’t want to be close to her.

 

It can be that she gives you something you never used to get from other girls.

 

But you will have no option but to end the relationship with her if your heart can’t make peace with what she did.

 

You have to respect your feelings and do what is right for you.

 

Your girlfriend doesn’t respect you, she doesn’t love you and if you continue staying in that relationship she will do it again.

 

Lastly…

 

If you feel that you can change your girlfriend and make her pay attention to you only after you have found out she is dating another guy then you should give it a shot.

 

Try your best to make her stick to you if you feel it’s hard to let her go.

 

If she still has feelings for you and she wants to be with you then don’t let her go.

 

Do everything you can to prevent such an incident from happening again.

 

And you will do that by giving your girlfriend what she wasn’t getting from you.

 

Make her reassure you that she is not going to do what she did again.

 

If she still wants to be with you and she regrets doing what she did then she will do anything to keep you.

 

And she will assure you that she will never do it again.

 

But if your feelings for her changed after you found out she is dating another guy and you don’t want to be next to her then end the relationship with her.

 

She doesn’t deserve you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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