What To Do When She Is Draining You Financially

If your girlfriend is draining you financially then you have to do something about it. In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend is draining you financially.

 

The moment your girlfriend drains you financially by asking you for much money, wanting you to spend so much money on her and the only thing she wants from you is money then you will do something to stop her.

 

If you will not stop her then you will never move forward because she will always keep dragging you behind.

 

Anyway, if your girlfriend is draining you financially by wanting you to buy expensive things for her then you should read the article below.

 

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But if she is just using your money in a way that you don’t like and she doesn’t care about it then you have to do something about it.

 

With that much said let me get into this topic.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is draining your financially;

1. Let her know that she is draining you financially.

If your girlfriend is draining you financially the first thing you should do is confront her.

 

Face her and let her know that she is draining you financially on the things she spends your money on.

 

You will have to face her because if you will not do it she will keep doing it.

 

It can be that your girlfriend doesn’t know that she is draining you financially and that is why she is doing it.

 

But if you talk to her and she keeps doing it then you will know that she is doing it on a purpose.

 

Don’t be afraid to tell her that she is draining you financially. Let her know that she is using so much money and she should take control of how she is using it.

 

You have to address her politely in a way she will understand that what she is doing is not something good for your financial status.

 

When you let her know that the way she is using your money is not the right way she will think of controlling how she spends your money.

 

That is if she is not draining you financially on purpose.

 

But if she is doing it on purpose because she is with you only for your money then she will never stop doing it.

 

And if this is the case, I will share with you what to do at the end of this article.

 

2. Stop spending much money on her.

If your girlfriend is still draining you financially yet you have talked to her about it then you should take an action.

 

What you told her probably never sunk into her head and that is why she is still draining you financially.

 

The moment you notice that she keeps draining you financially then you will have to stop spending much money on her.

 

This will help you to keep control of the amount of money she is using from you.

 

You will have to cut off some of the unnecessary things that your girlfriend spends money on.

 

This will prevent your girlfriend from draining you financially. You will be doing the right thing by not spending so much money on her.

 

When you will do this she will know that you meant it when you told her that she was draining you financially.

 

The moment you stop spending so much money on her and she makes a big deal out of it then know that your girlfriend is only with you for your money.

 

If she is someone who understands you and she loves you not for your money then this will not a big deal to her.

 

She will conclude that you are doing this for the best, after all, you will spend all that money with her.

 

3. Let her know the effect of draining you financially.

This is something else you can do if your girlfriend is draining you financially.

 

Let her know what will happen when she keeps draining you financially.

 

You can start by talking about the things you want to buy in the future.

 

Talk of the vacations you want to go on, the amazing restaurants you are planning to take her and the house you want to buy.

 

Let her know that if she keeps draining you financially and inappropriately using your money this will never happen.

 

Be real with her and let her know that when she keeps spending so much money there is no way you will be financially independent.

 

This means you will have to struggle financially.

 

It can be that your girlfriend is spending so much of your money because she thinks the money will keep on coming.

 

So, let her know that the money you earn can stop flowing in at any time and she should use it wisely.

 

If you have a business then let her know that if she keeps spending so much money that business will end up failing.

 

Share with her all the things that could go wrong if she keeps spending so much money.

 

4. Teach her to be independent.

If your girlfriend is draining you financially it’s because she can’t depend on herself.

 

Your girlfriend is not independent and that is why she is draining you financially.

 

The moment you will change this situation she is in then she will stop draining you financially.

 

You can teach your girlfriend to be independent by helping her find a job to do, get her back to work, putting her in situations where she will have to rely on herself to accomplish some things.

 

This is the only thing that will make her stop relying on you. And once she stops depending on you financially then you will have a chance of stopping her from draining you financially.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t have work and that is why she is draining you financially then you should make a point of helping her find work to do.

 

Try to find connections for her that she can use to find work to do for her to earn her money.

 

The moment she will start earning money then it will be easy for her to stop draining you financially.

 

This will make her independent because she will rely on herself for anything that she wants to buy.

 

She won’t be coming to you to ask for money every time because she will be having her cash.

 

You can check the article below to know more about what to do to make your girlfriend independent.

 

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5. If she is using you for money let her go.

The moment you do everything to make her stop draining you financially and she doesn’t want to change or to do something about her situation then know that she is either using you for money or she is lazy.

 

If your girlfriend is lazy, she will never get out of her comfort zone to struggle to earn her money.

 

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She will always rely on you to do everything for her. If your girlfriend is not self-driven then you have to know she will never put any effort to change her situation or yours.

 

If she won’t stand on her own and put effort into working so that she can earn money then you will have no alternative but to end the relationship with her.

 

Also, when you find that your girlfriend is only using you for your money then you will have no choice but to break up with her.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t want to work, she is not putting effort to be independent, she gets mad at you when you stop spending money on her and she is even threatening to break up with you then know that she is using you.

 

The only thing you can do if all she cares about is your money is to end the relationship with her.

 

You are dating a parasite.

 

Lastly…

 

If she is putting the effort to change her situation then you should be patient with her.

 

Don’t break up with her if she is trying all she can so that she can stop draining you financially.

 

But if she doesn’t make any effort even after telling her the effects she will bring to you by spending so much of your money then you should let her go.

 

This shows that she is only with you for your money.

 

And if she is only with you for your money then don’t deceive yourself that she has feelings for you.

 

She is only using you for your money and nothing else.

 

If this is the case then you will have to end the relationship with her.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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