Why Your Girlfriend Is So Mean To You But Nice To Everyone Else

If your girlfriend is so mean to you but nice to everyone then you should know that there is a problem between the two of you.

 

There are several reasons why she is so mean to you but nice to everyone else.

 

In this article, I will share these reasons so that you can have an idea of what to do about this situation.

 

If you will do nothing about this then you will eventually find yourself ending the relationship because no one can stand this.

 

Without further ado let me get into this topic.

 

This is why your girlfriend is so mean to you;

1. She is not happy in that relationship.

This is something you should note down.

 

She is so mean to you because she is not happy in that relationship.

 

Take your time and think about it, was she mean at the beginning of the relationship?

 

I guess she wasn’t mean to you at the beginning of the relationship because everything was lit.

 

But when it reached a point when things changed and she started hating the condition she was in with you.

 

If she is nice to everyone else but so mean to you then the problem is in between the two of you.

 

It can be that when she is around you she doesn’t feel the way she feels when she is around other people.

 

And this is what makes her be so mean to you.

 

She is not happy in that relationship and that is why she is so mean to you.

 

If she was happy with you in that relationship then she couldn’t have been behaving that way around you.

 

The part of her being so mean to you is something that portrays how she feels about you and the relationship.

 

It can even be that she lost interest in the relationship and this is something that can happen in any relationship.

 

2. She is not happy with the way you treat her.

This is another thing you should know if your girlfriend is so mean to you.

 

She is not happy with the way you treat her. She hates how you treat her and that is why she is so mean to you.

 

If by any chance you treat her in a way that she doesn’t like then this can be the reason why she is so mean to you.

 

You have to know that the way you treat your girlfriend is the same way she will handle you.

 

If you treat her nicely and she appreciates it, she will treat you the same.

 

She will never be mean to you because she knows that will change the way you treat her.

 

The moment your girlfriend doesn’t like the way you treat her then there is a big possibility for her to react to that.

 

She can react to that by being so mean to you too.

 

So, try to change how you treat her and see if she will continue to be so mean to you.

 

3. She is mad at you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is so mean to you, she is mad at you.

 

There is a tension between the two of you that makes her behave that way.

 

If you recently did something wrong and you never bothered to apologize to her because it never seemed a big deal to you then this could be the reason why she is so mean to you.

 

When your girlfriend is mad at you she will either yell at youpush you away, speak rudely to you or she will be so mean to you.

 

She will do things that you will eventually notice there is something wrong.

 

The anger that keeps building inside her is what makes her hate you and be so mean to you but nice to everyone else.

 

If at any point you did something wrong and you never resolve that issue then this could be the main reason why she is so mean to you.

 

4. She doesn’t love you.

This is another reason why she is so mean to you but nice to everyone else.

 

She no longer loves you.

 

The moment your girlfriend no longer loves you then her interest and feelings for you will vanish.

 

This will never allow her to be nice to you since the connection between the two of you no longer exists.

 

A girl will treat you nicely when she has an interest in you and something is drawing her closer to you.

 

But if there is no connection between the two of you then there is nothing that will make her treat you nicely.

 

To her, you will be like a stranger.

 

If she is so mean to you, she doesn’t care about you, she doesn’t want to fix anything and she is so faded up with you then know that she doesn’t love you.

 

Anyway, if she doesn’t love you there are so many things you will observe by the way she handles you.

 

The moment you notice these signs then know that she doesn’t love you anymore.

 

The only thing you can do is try to fix your relationship or bring her interest back maybe the love she had for you will be revived.

 

5. She is pushing you away.

If your girlfriend wants to push you away then this is the perfect way she can use to do it.

 

She will be so mean to you and this will push you away.

 

You will never be happy to be around someone who treats you like a piece of trash.

 

She knows that when she treats you badly then you will be distant from her.

 

And this is what she wants.

 

There are so many reasons why someone may want to push you away.

 

Your girlfriend will push you away when she is bored being around you, she is losing interest in you, she wants space from you, she is mad and so many other things.

 

Learn the other things in the article below and know what you can do about it.

 

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6. She wants you to pay attention to her.

Girls have tricky ways of getting a man’s attention.

 

A girl can get your attention by doing several things.

 

When you don’t pay attention to her she will either block youdistance herself from youyell at you or treat you badly.

 

She is sure that when she is so mean to you this will make you curious.

 

You will want to know why she is so mean to you.

 

For you to find this information you will have to get closer to her and make her open up to you.

 

In this process, you will end up giving her the attention that she wants.

 

So, she is so mean to you because she wants you to pay attention to her.

 

7. She is not comfortable around you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is so mean to you.

 

If it reached a point you did something that made her feel uncomfortable around you she will not enjoy your company.

 

The moment a girl doesn’t enjoy your company she will find an excuse not to be around you.

 

She can start pushing you away or bring up a fight intentionally for her to be away from you.

 

She can also choose to be so mean to you.

 

In which she knows you will never enjoy being around someone who is so mean to you.

 

The truth is that if she really enjoyed your company then she couldn’t have been mean to you.

 

She is not comfortable around you anymore and that is why she is so mean to you.

 

Find a way to make her feel comfortable around you if you want to change this.

 

Read the article below if you want to know how you can make her comfortable.

 

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8. You don’t give her what she wants.

This is another possible reason why she is so mean to you.

 

If you don’t give her want she wants then she will never be happy around you.

 

And the moment your girlfriend is not happy around you she will never prefer to spend time with you.

 

This is because she is not excited to have you around.

 

But if she is happy being around you she will never be so mean to you.

 

The fact that she is only mean to you but nice to everyone else shows that she is not happy with you.

 

So, if she wanted something from you and you never bothered to give it to her then this could be another reason why she is so mean to you.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is so mean to you?

When your girlfriend is so mean to you don’t be mean to her too as this will never solve the issue. Lean forward to her and find out why she handles you that way. Fix any misunderstandings and get her what she wants.

 

If you are not sure how she feels about you then don’t be afraid of her because she might give you the answers you are looking for.

 

When you find out why she is so mean then use the reasons she gave you to find the solution to that problem.

 

Lastly…

 

If she is so mean to you and you really pursue her to fix the misunderstandings between the two of you but she doesn’t seem to care about fixing anything then it can be that she no longer loves you.

 

Her feelings for you have vanished and that is why she just finds you to be a burden. And if it goes on like this she will eventually end the relationship with you.

 

The moment you try so hard to fix things but she keeps on being so mean to you then you will have no choice but to walk away from her.

 

This is clear that she doesn’t want anything to do with you and that is why she is being so mean to you.

 

The way someone treats you is exactly the same way she feels about you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have a question leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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