What To Do If Your Girlfriend Is Not Romantic

If your girlfriend is not romantic you have to do something to change that situation. This can have a long-term effect on how you will end up feeling about her.

 

If she is not romantic this means you will eventually get bored with her and you will find yourself not willing to spend more time with her.

 

This will eventually make you lose interest in her and this might result to the end of your relationship.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do if your girlfriend is not romantic.

 

With these tips I will share with you in this article you will be able to make your girlfriend romantic.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you what you can do to make your girlfriend romantic.

 

What to do if your girlfriend is not romantic;

1. Find out why she isn’t romantic

If your girlfriend is not romantic the first thing you should do is to find out why.

 

These reasons you will get from her will give you a rough idea of how you can start to fix this issue.

 

There must be a reason why your girlfriend is not romantic.

 

It can be that she is not romantic because you are not on good terms with her.

 

For instance, if there is a conflict between the two of you do you think your girlfriend will be happy to express what she feels for you?

 

It will be hard for her to be romantic with you because of the tension between the two of you.

 

So, if your girlfriend is not romantic the first thing you have to do is to figure out why she isn’t.

 

You can find these reasons from her. Sit down with her and ask her why she isn’t romantic.

 

You will have to talk with her because there is no way you will be able to change her if you won’t have an idea why she isn’t romantic.

 

So, let her tell you why she is not romantic and try to figure out a way you can let her know how you feel about this issue.

 

You don’t have to ask her directly why she is not romantic because it might be a hard question for her to answer.

 

Get to know what she feels and think about the issue of being romantic to you.

 

These are examples of questions you can ask her to find out why she isn’t romantic.

 

What do you think of romance? Do you like being romantic?

 

What is your love language? Do you enjoy it when I flirt with you?

 

What do you think of flirting? should couples flirt with each other frequently?

 

These are some of the questions you can ask her that will make her open up about how she feels concerning the issue of her being romantic.

 

The answers she will give you will guide you on which measures you should take If you want to make her romantic.

 

You never know, it can be that she has different thoughts from yours when it comes to romantic issues.

 

People are not the same.

 

Find out why she is not romantic and figure out a way how you can make her romantic.

 

2. Try to fix any issues that make her not romantic.

So, now that you have an idea why she is not romantic then it’s time for you to start finding the solution to this issue.

 

You will have to use the reasons you got from her to fix this issue.

 

The first thing you should do before you start fixing the issue that makes her unromantic is to solve any misunderstandings between the two of you.

 

If there is any conflict the first thing you should do is resolve it.

 

Apologize to her if you did anything to hurt her feelings. There is no way your girlfriend will be romantic to you if she is mad at you.

 

You have to make sure that your relationship with her is on good terms before you start working out the issues that you found out from her.

 

For instance, if she told you that she is not romantic because she doesn’t know how to be romantic then it will be your duty to teach her how she can be romantic.

 

Teach her how you would like her to handle you.

 

Also, if she told you that she isn’t romantic because she doesn’t see a need for her to be romantic then you will have to talk to her about the need for her to be romantic.

 

Let her know the importance of her being romantic to you and the positive effects it will have on your relationship.

 

The moment she understands why it’s important for her to be romantic then she will be motivated to try new things to make you happy.

 

Let her know the need for her to be romantic to you and this will fix the issue between the two of you.

 

Use the specific reasons she gave you to come up with an approach to solve this issue.

 

3. Let her know how you would like her to handle you.

If your girlfriend is not romantic then it can be that she doesn’t know how to handle you.

 

She doesn’t know how she can be romantic to you.

 

So, if your relationship with her is new then this is something you should expect.

 

It can be that she is not yet comfortable being around you and that is why she isn’t romantic.

 

For her to be romantic to you she has to be at ease when she is around you.

 

Here is how you can make her comfortable around you.

 

You might like this: What To Do If A Girl Is Uncomfortable With You

 

But if you have been dating for a while and she isn’t romantic then it can be that she has no idea of how to handle you.

 

So, take your time and talk to her if you want her to be romantic. Let her know how you would like to be handled.

 

Show her the things that she can do for her to be romantic to you.

 

If you won’t communicate with her there is no way she will know how you want her to handle you.

 

She will assume that everything she does is right.

 

But if you will enlighten her on how you expect her to handle you then everything will be easier.

 

Your girlfriend will be willing to find ways to be more romantic with you.

 

4. Be romantic to her if you want her to be the same.

If you are not romantic to your girlfriend don’t expect her to be romantic to you.

 

A relationship is always a two-way traffic, if you treat your girlfriend nicely she will also do the same.

 

If you treat her like a piece of trash don’t expect her to treat you like a king.

 

The only way your girlfriend will be romantic to you is if you are also romantic to her.

 

So, if you are not romantic to her, you don’t treat her nicely and you are distant from her then don’t expect her to be romantic to you.

 

Change these things and you will find her handling you the way you want.

 

Treat your girlfriend nicely, spend more time with her, give her maximum attention, take her out frequently, bring her flowers and touch her frequently.

 

The moment you handle your girlfriend romantically she will also handle you the same way.

 

Observe how you handle her before you conclude anything about her being unromantic.

 

If you don’t romantically treat her then you will have to change that if you want her to treat you romantically.

 

5. Watch romantic movies with her.

If your girlfriend is not romantic because she has no idea of how to be romantic then this is something that will help her to grasp the knowledge of being romantic.

 

Watch romantic movies with her and this will give her an idea of how she can handle you romantically.

 

It may seem lame, but this is what will enlighten her if she knows nothing about romance.

 

So, get the best reality romantic shows and watch them with her.

 

Watch several romantic movies with her and practice the realistic things you learn from the movies.

 

As time goes by your girlfriend will end up having an idea of how she should handle you romantically.

 

6. Go on double dates.

If your girlfriend is not romantic this is something else you can try to do to make her romantic.

 

Going on a double date will not automatically make her romantic but it will expose her to the learning environment.

 

So, organize a trip with your friends and their girlfriends.

 

Ask your girlfriend to accompany you on that trip also. The more double dates you will go with her the more familiar she will get around your friends and their girlfriends.

 

She will learn from your friends and their girlfriends and at last, she will know some of the things she can do to be more romantic.

 

The moment she will see how your friends’ girlfriends handle their boyfriends she will have a clue about what it means to be romantic.

 

This will give her an idea of how she should you as her boyfriend.

 

As time goes by she will learn a lot from these doubles dates you will be taking her on.

 

Let your friends know that you intend to teach your girlfriend how she can be romantic.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend is not romantic these are the things you should do if you want her to change.

 

Anyway, if your relationship is new then you should understand that your girlfriend is not yet comfortable with you.

 

Try to make her feel comfortable around you and this will make and give her some time and she will change.

 

Also, talk to your girlfriend and let her know how you would like her to handle you.

 

It can be that she is not romantic simple because she has no idea of how to handle you.

 

Teach her how she can handle you romantically so that she gets the courage to handle you the way you want.

 

The next thing you should keep in mind is how you handle her. If you don’t treat your girlfriend romantically don’t expect her to treat you romantically.

 

If are romantic to her, she will be romantic to you, that is how it works.

 

Also, check on your relationship status, if you are not on good terms then you should work on resolving the conflicts between the two of you.

 

And this might make her romantic.

 

Thanks for reading, If you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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