What To Do When Your Girlfriend Is Scared Of You

If your girlfriend is scared of you then this is mainly influenced by how you treat her and what she knows about you. When you always threaten to beat your girlfriend then she will always be scared of you.

 

Also, if she knows you are someone who used to beat your exes in the past when they messed up then she will be scared of you.

 

The way you handle her will also make her scared of you.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend is scared of you.

 

You have to do something to make her stop being scared of you because this might affect her feelings for you.

 

When your girlfriend is scared of you she will rarely open up to you and she will be distanced from you.

 

She will do everything with caution around you so that not to make you angry.

 

This will make her uncomfortable around you and she might even pull herself away from you.

 

With that much said, let me share with you what you can do when your girlfriend is scared of you.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is scared of you;

1. Find out why she is scared of you.

If your girlfriend is scared of you the first thing you have to do is to find out why she is scared of you.

 

This is what will give you a rough idea of what you should start working on.

 

There could be so many reasons why your girlfriend is scared of you.

 

It can be that she is scared of you because of what you used to do in the past.

 

So, take your time to find out why she is scared of you before you think of doing anything to change the situation between the two of you.

 

This is pretty easy, you will have to approach your girlfriend and ask her why she is scared of you.

 

Ask her which parts of you she would like you to change.

 

If there is anything that you always do that makes her scared of you then she will point it out.

 

So, listen carefully to what she will tell you and note down all the things she tells you.

 

You are going to use those reasons to work this issue out with your girlfriend.

 

2. Eliminate the things that make her scared of you.

Now that you have the reasons why she is scared of you the next thing you should do is fix this issue.

 

When you eliminate the things that make her be scared of you this could be the first fix to this problem.

 

If she is only scared of you because of the things she told you then eliminating those things that make her be scared of you will fix this issue between the two of you.

 

For instance, if she told you that she is scared of you because you always yell at her when she does something wrong.

 

The only thing you will have to do to make stop her from being scared of you is to stop yelling at her.

 

Talk politely to her even if she is on the wrong side of things and this is what will stop her from being scared of you.

 

If she is scared of you because of the things you used to do in the past then reassure her that you have changed and you are no longer the person you were in the past.

 

Make her get over your past, you can read the article below to know how you can help her forget about your past.

 

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Eliminate the things she told you that make her scared of you and you will stop her from being scared of you.

 

3. Treat her nicely.

If your girlfriend is scared of you then this is something you should do.

 

The moment you don’t treat your girlfriend nicely she will always be scared of you.

 

Treating your girlfriend nicely starts from the words you choose to speak to her to what you do around her.

 

Let me start talking about how you should speak to her.

 

When your girlfriend is on the wrong side of things don’t speak rudely to her, don’t raise your voice at her, and try to be positive.

 

Let her know that she is on the wrong side and she should do this and that to fix the issue she was doing.

 

The moment you keep yelling at your girlfriend every time she is on the wrong side she will perceive you as being a violent person.

 

She will conclude that you can beat her when she does something wrong.

 

And this is what will make her scared of you. So, stop yelling at your girlfriend and always try your best to speak politely to her even when she does something wrong.

 

This is what will make her stop being afraid of you.

 

You just have to give your girlfriend a clear path to follow and she won’t be making you angry.

 

The way you handle your girlfriend also matters. If you are that guy that keeps treating her badly when she does anything wrong then she will be scared of you.

 

For instance, if you keep showing her gestures that you can beat her when she does something wrong she will conclude that you are capable of doing it.

 

If you always tell her what to do and you never listen to what she wants then she will be scared of you.

 

Treat your girlfriend nicely and never give her any reason to think that you are capable of hurting her in any way.

 

Handle her with care, listen to her and always try to do things that will make her happy.

 

This is what will stop her from being scared of you.

 

4. Make her comfortable around you.

If your girlfriend is scared of you then this shows that she is uncomfortable around you.

 

The way you handle your girlfriend is what will either make her comfortable around you or not.

 

There is no way your girlfriend will be comfortable around you if she is scared of you.

 

She is scared of you because she is not comfortable around you.

 

This is one of the reasons why she is scared of you.

 

Even when you do all the above things I have shared with you and she is not comfortable around you she will still be scared of you.

 

When your girlfriend is comfortable around you she will always feel safe around you.

 

She will never feel restricted around you and she will do anything and talk about anything she wants with you.

 

But if she is scared of you then know that the part of the fear she has in you is contributed by her being uncomfortable around you.

 

Despite doing all the things I have shared with you, you should also focus on making her comfortable around you.

 

You can make your girlfriend comfortable around you by not being pushy, by opening up to her, being vulnerable to her, and by not judging her, and doing things that will pull her closer to you.

 

If you want to know more about what to do to make your girlfriend comfortable around you then check out the article below.

 

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5. Control your temper when you are around her.

If your girlfriend is scared of you because of your anger issues then this is what you should do.

 

Control your anger when you are around her if you want to stop her from being scared of you.

 

If you are a short-tempered guy then your girlfriend will always be scared of you.

 

She will be scared of you because she knows you can erupt anytime and hurt her.

 

Your girlfriend knows you well.

 

So, if she knows you are a short-tempered person and you have an issue controlling your anger then she will always be scared of you.

 

Especially, if your anger made you do something to hurt her in the past then she will always be scared of you.

 

She will be afraid to do or talk about anything freely before you because she knows when you get angry things will be bad between the two of you.

 

If you have an anger management issue try to find a way to take control of it.

 

Try to do things that will compress your anger and take control of it and don’t let it control you.

 

When you manage to control your anger around her then this is when she will stop being scared of you.

 

6. Reassure her that you will never hurt her.

Your girlfriend is scared of you because she thinks you can hurt her.

 

What she thinks about you is what makes her scared of you.

 

This is mostly influenced by how you handle her. It can be that you have never hurt her in any way but she is just scared of you.

 

She is scared because she knows you can hurt her.

 

So, if you want to stop her from being scared of you then make her believe that you can never hurt her.

 

The moment she is sure that you will never hurt her then she will stop being scared of you.

 

You have to reassure your girlfriend that you will never do anything to hurt her.

 

Sit down with her when and let her know why you behave the way you behave, let her know what you think of her, and reassure her that you will never hurt her.

 

Let her know that you will never raise your hand to her.

 

This is what will make her calm when she is around you even when you seem so mad.

 

She will be sure that you will never hurt her and instead of her being away from you when you are furious she will try to calm you down because she is sure you will never hurt her.

 

This will stop her from being scared of you.

 

So, this is a very important part you should consider if you want to stop your girlfriend from being scared of you.

 

Lastly…

 

When your girlfriend is scared of you then find ways to stop her from being scared of you because that can mess up your relationship.

 

The moment she is scared of you she will never feel safe around you and this means she will always distance herself from you.

 

She will never show affection to you, she will never open up to you and she will never be comfortable around you.

 

So, there is much at stake when your girlfriend is scared of you.

 

Try your best to make her feel safe around you and you will do that by changing how you treat her.

 

If you know you treat her in a way that makes her think you can hurt her then you should change that.

 

Take control of your temper when you are around her and reassure her that you will never hurt her.

 

This is what will stop her from being scared of you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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