What To Do When Your Girlfriend Is Still Hurt By Her Ex

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex then you have to do something to help her recover from the pain she went through. In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex.

 

You can’t blame your girlfriend for feeling the pain that she got from her ex.

 

Your girlfriend was hurt so bad and you now have to help her heal her wounds.

 

You can’t break up with her simply because she is still hurt by her ex.

 

If you love her you will have to do something to make her forget about the pain she went through.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex;

1. Don’t push her away simply because she is still hurt by her ex.

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her then you should not push her away because of her being in that state.

 

I know this is something that may annoy and make you feel uncomfortable dealing with it.

 

But now since you are dating her then you will have no choice but to deal with it.

 

You have to remember that she is your girlfriend now, so you will have to bear with her and help her get through the pain she is still feeling.

 

The first thing you have to do is try to understand what she is going through.

 

Try to put yourself in her shoes when handling her while she is in this situation.

 

This is when you will be able to come up with a way to handle her.

 

Don’t get mad at her, speak rudely at her, and push her away simply because you are not responsible for the pain she is feeling.

 

If you want you can choose to do nothing about it because you are not the one who hurt her in the first place.

 

But when you do that you will be cruel to her and she will conclude that you don’t care about her.

 

And this might end up messing up your relationship with her.

 

So, try to understand the pain she is going through, listen to her and handle her with care.

 

Don’t do anything to push her away because she is still hurt by her ex, but try to come up with a way you can help her out.

 

2. Ask her to open up about what she feels.

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex then this is something else you have to do to help her get over the pain.

 

She is still hurt by her ex because she doesn’t talk about what she feels.

 

Now that you are with her you have to allow her to talk about her ex and the pain he put her through.

 

Sharing what she feels about her last relationship with you is what will decrease the burden she is carrying.

 

When you allow her to share what she feels about herself it will help her get rid of the baggage on her shoulders.

 

It will make it easier for her to get rid of all the pain she went through and this will fasten the process of healing.

 

So, ask your girlfriend to talk about what she feels if you want to help her get over the pain she still has from her ex.

 

Encourage her to talk about what she could have done back then if she had the opportunity to confront her ex again.

 

Let her speak it out all so that you help her to heal.

 

By doing this she will feel that you care about her and you are supportive.

 

This will be another aspect that will help her get over the pain she still feels from her ex.

 

3. Treat her nicely to make her happy.

Your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex and there is nothing much you can do but help her to forget the pain she went through.

 

The way you will handle her in that relationship is what will determine whether she will heal quickly or it will take longer for her to forget about the pain she went through.

 

For you to help her get over the pain she got from her ex you will have to treat her nicely.

 

Treat your girlfriend with care, handle her like she is a priceless pearl, and do your best to make her happy.

 

When you make her happy and she has nothing to worry about in that relationship it will be very easier for her to get over the pain she is going through.

 

She will be happy and all her energy will shift from the painful past to the current situation she is in.

 

Your girlfriend will not think about the pain she went through from her ex because you will be getting her mind away from that.

 

You can treat your girlfriend nicely by first understanding the state she is in, speaking politely to her, taking her out frequently, and being affectionate to her.

 

Try your best to make your girlfriend happy and it will make it easier for her to forget about the pain she went through from her ex.

 

Don’t do anything to make her sad because this will keep dragging her to the past she had with her ex.

 

It will also make her conclude that you are just going to hurt her like her ex.

 

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And this will make it harder for her to get over the pain she got from her ex.

 

4. Avoid doing things that will remind her of the pain she got.

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex and she told you about what happened then you know what made her feel that way.

 

You have to try your best to avoid doing anything that will remind her of the pain she got from her ex.

 

This is the only way you will make it easier for her to forget about the pain she went through.

 

If you know that her ex used to treat her like a piece of trash and that is why she got hurt then you should do your best to treat her nicely.

 

The moment you do anything to remind her of the pain she went through this will be very hard for her to forget about the pain she got from her ex.

 

This is because you will be reminding her of the past she had with her ex by the way you treat her.

 

So, avoid doing anything that will remind her of the past relationship pain.

 

If you know doing a certain thing will remind her of what her ex did to her then you should avoid it.

 

When you stop doing things that keep reminding her of the pain she got from her ex it will make it easier for her to get over the pain from her ex.

 

She will forget the pain she went through and she will focus on the relationship she is in now.

 

5. Give her time to get over the pain she went through.

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex simply because she recently broke up with him then you should not try to push her to heal fast.

 

Healing is a process and it’s not an event. You have to make sure that you don’t force her to forget the pain she went through.

 

It will take time for her to forget about the pain she went through from her ex.

 

So, the only thing you can do is treat her nicely and give her time to get over the pain she went through.

 

Be considerate about what she feels and don’t make everything about you when she is in this situation.

 

This is the only way you will help her get over the pain she went through.

 

Be patient because this is not a situation that will fade within a day.

 

Eventually, she will get over the pain she went through from her ex if you treat her the right way.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend is still hurt by her ex then you should try your best to make her feel at ease.

 

You have to understand that she didn’t want to be in the situation she was in.

 

Don’t blame her or do anything to push her away simply because she is still hurt by her ex.

 

Try your best to understand her situation and come up with ways you can help her forget about the pain she went through.

 

Allow your girlfriend to open up to you about what she feels and this will help her reduce the pain she feels.

 

Be close to her, make her happy, and be supportive to help her get over this pain.

 

You have to know that she doesn’t have a switch in her to turn off the past.

 

So, you have to be patient with her as she tries to get over this pain because it might take longer.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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