If your girlfriend is always insulting you and you don’t know what to do then this article is for you. In this article, I will share with you several things to do when your girlfriend keeps insulting you.
This is something you should not entertain no matter how much you love your girlfriend.
No matter what you have done to her she doesn’t have the right to insult you.
This shows that she has no boundaries and I will share with you how you can deal with her.
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Problems, arguments or conflicts are not solved by your girlfriend insulting you but with effective communication.
With that much said let me share with you what you can do about this issue.
What to do when your girlfriend keeps insulting you;
1. Stop doing the things that make her insult you.
If your girlfriend keeps insulting you then it’s because of something that you are doing to annoy her.
Check out the things that you do if they are offensive to her.
Is there anything you are doing that makes her keep insulting you?
If there is something you always do to make her angry then you should stop doing it if you want her to stop insulting you.
This is because if you keep making her angry she will never be nice to you.
Find anything that irritates her and stop doing it.
If you keep making jokes that she doesn’t like then you should stop doing it.
This might be one of the reasons why she keeps insulting you.
The other thing you should do is fix your issues in that relationship.
If there are any conflicts between the two of you then you should make a point of resolving them if you want her to stop insulting you.
This is the only way you will stop her from insulting you because there will be no negative vibes between the two of you.
But if you don’t do anything to annoy her and she keeps insulting you then you should read the section of this article to know how you are going to tackle this issue.
2. Talk to her and let her know how you feel about it.
This is the next thing you should do if you want her to stop insulting you.
It can be that your girlfriend keeps insulting you because she thinks you are okay with it.
Especially, if you have been doing it most of the times in form of a joke then she will conclude that you are okay with it.
If she is doing it intentionally or unintentionally you will never know that unless you confront her.
Take your time and talk to her.
It’s during this conversation is when you will know if she usually does it intentionally or she doesn’t know if she is hurting you.
Sit down with her and let her know that you are not okay with her insulting you.
Let her know that you are not happy with how she keeps insulting you.
You will have to be real with her if you want her to stop insulting you.
There is no way she will stop doing this if you won’t tell her how you feel about this.
This is what will let her know that she is hurting your feelings. If she cares about you and she never knew that she was hurting your feelings by insulting you then she will stop doing it.
She will stop insulting you.
But if she doesn’t care about you and she has been doing it intentionally just to hurt you she will keep doing it.
And I will share with you what you will do about that at the end of this article.
3. Ask her to stop insulting you.
The next thing you should do if your girlfriend keeps insulting you is to ask her to stop insulting you.
You have to tell her to stop insulting you.
Let her know that she is disrespecting you and she should stop doing it.
This is the point you will know whether your girlfriend loves you or she is just taking you for granted.
The moment you will ask her to stop insulting you her response is what will determine what you should do later.
This is now what determines the fate of your relationship with her.
When you ask her to stop insulting you and she starts making this a big deal and you have stopped doing what makes her angry then know that your girlfriend is looking for a way out of that relationship.
If this is the case then you will have to show her the way out of that relationship.
4. Give her a way you can use to resolve your conflicts.
After you have told her to stop insulting you then this is what you should do next.
You should give her away she can use to address your issues in that relationship.
Let her know the right way to approach different problems between the two of you.
It can be that your girlfriend keeps insulting you because she doesn’t know how to solve conflicts between the two of you.
So, it will be your duty to let her know the ways she can use to solve different issues between the two of you.
Let her know that conflicts in a relationship aren’t solved by people insulting each other.
Tell her the importance of communicating effectively and listening to each other.
These are some of the things that will give her a rough idea of how issues between the two of you should be solved.
But if you will give all these ways of how to handle your arguments and conflicts between the two of you and she keeps on insulting you then you will have no choice but to do the next thing I’m about to share with you.
5. If she won’t stop insulting you cut her off.
If your girlfriend won’t stop insulting you even after you have done everything I have shared with you in this article then you should let go of her.
This shows that she doesn’t respect you, she doesn’t care about you and she doesn’t love you.
If this is the case then this relationship will never survive.
The only option you will have is to cut her off.
She will keep making your life harder if you won’t let her go.
You should never be with a girl who doesn’t respect you. With a girl like that, there is no future.
The only thing you will be doing is to waste your time with her and there is nowhere your relationship with her will go.
Do yourself a favour and cut her off if she doesn’t want to stop insulting you.
You will be happy once you do it.
My girlfriend insults me in front of her friends.
If your girlfriend insults you in front of her friends then know that she doesn’t love you at all and she doesn’t respect you. The only thing you should do when you come across this situation is to address her about it. If she won’t stop doing it then end the relationship with her.
The moment you girlfriend insults you then know that she doesn’t respect you at all.
It doesn’t matter what you did to make her angry. If she goes out of her way and insult you this shows a huge disrespect.
And you should not entertain this issue at all.
Don’t tell yourself that she will change. If you won’t stop her then things will be worse between the two of you.
Today she is insulting you when you are the two of you and tomorrow she will insult you in front of her friends and your family.
If you will do everything I have share with you in this article and your girlfriend doesn’t care to change then you should not think twice about it.
Let her go.
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