If your girlfriend keeps making excuses not to see you then here is something you need to know to change this situation.
In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend keeps making excuses not to see you.
Do what I’m going to share with you and you will see how things will turn out to be.
You have to handle this from an angle that will make your girlfriend end up feeling guilty for the excuses she makes.
With that much said, let me get right into this topic.
What To Do When Your Girlfriend Keeps Making Excuse Not To See You;
1. Don’t get angry at her for making excuses.
If you have been asking your girlfriend out but she always gives you so many excuses not to see you this can drive you nuts.
You have the right to be frustrated by what she is doing.
But you have to take control of your emotions so that you can handle this issue maturely.
If you fail to control your emotions and you get angry at her for making excuses for not seeing you then you will be giving her the power.
You will make her feel that she can drive you insane with what she is doing.
If you have asked her several times and she keeps making excuses not to see you then don’t do anything that will show her that you are mad at her.
You have to play it cool. Take control of what you feel and focus on something else that matters to you.
The moment you get angry at her because she keeps making excuses not to see you then she will conclude you don’t care about her.
You don’t care about the situation she is in and this will make things between the two of you worse.
Instead of fixing things, you will be breaking them.
Be calm and don’t do anything that will show her that you are angry at her for making excuses not to see you.
2. Let her know how you feel about her making excuses.
If you have asked her out more than thrice and she keeps making excuses not to see you then you should let her know how you feel about the excuses she is giving you.
Send her a short text to explain to her how you feel about her not making up for the dates you ask her for.
It should be a text that will make her feel guilty about what she does.
When you will manage to make her feel guilty then you will make her want to see you.
The texts should not be super long. It should be a short text that will explain to her how you feel about her not making up for the dates you ask her on.
This is an example of a text you can send.
“I have always been giving you my time and I always make the effort to put a smile on your face. All the things I have done for you! You still find it hard to make time for me.”
This is an example of a text you can send to her to make her feel guilty for making excuses not to see you.
When you send her this text don’t send any other texts.
Even if she replies to it, just don’t text her back the same day.
Text her the next day.
3. Ask her to reschedule the date.
The next thing you should do the next day when you text her is to ask her to reschedule the date.
This is very important! It’s the part you will find out if your girlfriend cares about you or not.
When she keeps making excuses not to see you then show her that you understand she is held up on those things she tells you about.
After that, you should ask her to set an alternative date that will be possible for her to see you.
Let her set her preferable date.
Even if it’s next month don’t worry about it.
You will just get hold of her.
If your girlfriend will not reschedule the date then this shows that she doesn’t want to see you.
It can be that she is no longer in love with you or she found someone else.
If this is the case then it will be hard for you to do anything about that unless you try to rekindle her feelings for you.
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On the other hand, if she chooses to reschedule the date then you should be patient.
4. If she makes excuses again ignore her.
When the time reaches for the two of you to meet after she rescheduled the date and she keeps making other excuses not to see you then you should now ignore her.
This is the part you will know if she still loves you or if she found someone else and that is why she doesn’t want to see you.
Ignore her and distance yourself from her. Don’t bother texting or calling her.
The moment you will ignore her then she will have so many questions about how you feel.
She will try to reach out to you but don’t bother picking up her calls or replying to her texts.
If she cares about you and she still wants the relationship to go on then she will have no alternative but to meet you in person to apologize for what she had been doing.
this will give you the upper hand and you will set your terms for her.
But if after you have ignored her and she doesn’t make any effort to be in touch with you then know that she doesn’t love you.
She was only taking you for granted.
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If this is the case, the only thing you will have to do is to end the relationship with her.
If you have done everything I have shared with you in this article and your girlfriend still makes excuses not to see you then know that she is not serious about you.
She doesn’t care about you, she doesn’t love you and it can be that she found someone else and she decides to keep you on hold.
When you choose to ignore her and she doesn’t bother reaching out to you then know she doesn’t feel a thing for you and that is why she keeps making excuses not to see you.
But if she will reach out to you and she even makes an effort to see you in person simply because you have been ignoring her then know that she loves you.
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Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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