Why Your Girlfriend Keeps Telling You To Leave (+Do This)

If your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave then you need to know there is something you know about it. In this article, I will be sharing with you several reasons why your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave and what you can do about it.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

Why your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave;

1. She is tired of being with you.

If your girlfriend is tired of being with you she will not just openly tell you that she is tired of you.

 

She will not say straight to your face that she is tired of you.

 

The only thing that you will notice is her actions. The way she will handle you will show you that she is tired of being with you.

 

If your girlfriend keeps asking you to leave her then know that she is looking for a way out of that relationship but she can’t make the move.

 

And that is why she keeps telling you to leave.

 

For you to conclude that she is tired of being with you there are some things you have to observe from her.

 

The first thing you should observe is how she treats you.

 

Does she treat you nice?  

Does she do what you ask her to do?

 

Does she show affection to you?

 

These are some of the questions you should find the answers to if you want to know if she is truly tired of being with you or if there is more to it.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t treat you nicely, she doesn’t show any affection to you and she is not putting any effort into the relationship then know that she is tired of being with you.

 

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She is just holding on to you but she will let go of you anytime she feels she can no longer handle it.

 

This is the main reason why she is always telling you to leave.

 

2. She is losing interest in you.

When your girlfriend is losing interest in you she will not want to be around you.

 

She will always want to push you away from her.

 

It can be that your girlfriend is losing interest in you and that is why she keeps telling you to leave.

 

The moment your girlfriend is losing interest in you she will never handle you the way you want her to.

 

She will do things to hurt you intentionally and she will always find a reason to pick up a fight with you.

 

Your girlfriend will do all this because she doesn’t feel the same way she used to feel for you.

 

The moment she starts losing her interest in you the bond between the two of you will weaken.

 

The vibe that she used to feel when she sees you will also vanish.

 

Anything that you will do to her will always seem to be wrong and she will always find faults with you.

 

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You will be nothing to her but a nuisance.

 

So, if what I’m talking about is what you are experiencing from your girlfriend then know that she is losing interest in you.

 

The connection between the two of you is getting weaker and if it goes on like this for a while the relationship will eventually end.

 

There is something you can do to stop that from happening, you will only stop this from happening if you work on bringing back the interest she had in you.

 

Once she regains her interest in you then you will never hear her telling you to leave.

 

You can read the article below if you want to know how you can make your girlfriend interested in you again.

 

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3. She wants you to be insecure.

If your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave then know that she is trying to make you insecure.

 

She wants you to be afraid of losing her.

 

I know you may be wondering why would your girlfriend would want you to be insecure.

 

There are several reasons why she wants you to be insecure and you will learn them in this section.

 

Your girlfriend wants you to be insecure because she will have a chance of controlling you.

 

If your girlfriend is toxic then this is something she will want to do.

 

She knows that telling you to leave everyone now and then will make you feel like your girlfriend is going to dump you.

 

And this will make you feel insecure, and once you feel that way you will want to do everything to stop the relationship from ending.

 

This means you will be ready to do anything to please your girlfriend so that she doesn’t leave you.

 

If you love your girlfriend so much and you want to keep her then you will be convinced that you have to do what she wants so that she doesn’t dump you.

 

This will lead you right to her trap. She will take control of you and she will always ask you to do what she wants but not what you like.

 

Since you are afraid that she is going to leave you when you don’t do what makes her happy, you will find yourself being her slave.

 

If your girlfriend is someone who controls you, this is something that you should not entertain.

 

You will have to leave her! She will make your life so hard.

 

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4. She is not happy with you.

If your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave then know that she is not happy with you.

 

She is not happy in that relationship and that is why she keeps telling you to leave her.

 

The moment your girlfriend is not happy you will just notice it.

 

She will always find ways to distance herself from you and she will do things that you won’t be happy about.

 

The way she will treat you will be very different. She will be like she wants to be with you and at the same time she wants to cut you off.

 

If your girlfriend is always complaining about you, She always blames you for everything wrong that happens in that relationship, she is not putting any effort into the relationship and she spends less time with you then this could be a sign that she is not happy with you.

 

She is not happy about how the relationship is progressing, she is not happy with how you handle things and she is not happy that she is with you.

 

Instead of her telling you that she is not happy, all she is trying to do is to push you away by asking you to leave.

 

She keeps telling you to leave because she is not satisfied with you, she is not happy and she doesn’t feel fulfilled.

 

If your girlfriend was happy with you then she wouldn’t have been asking you to leave whenever anything between the two of you goes wrong.

 

She wouldn’t have threatened to break up with you because this would make you feel bad.

 

This is something that can be changed. You can make your girlfriend happy if you want to.

 

Check the article below to fix this.

 

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5. You always keep making her angry.

If your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave then this is another reason why she does that.

 

Your girlfriend is a short-tempered person and that is why when you mess things up the only thing she is thinking of is telling you to leave.

 

She is telling you to leave because she is angry at you and she wants you to be away from her.

 

If you know that your girlfriend is a short-tempered person and she only asks you to leave when you do something extremely wrong then you shouldn’t be so much worried about it.

 

She is only telling you to leave because she is so mad at you.

 

Especially, if this is something you have been doing every time and she keeps warning you about it then you should expect this kind of reaction.

 

She keeps telling you to leave because you make her angry all the time.

 

6. She is pushing you away.

If your girlfriend wants to push you away for any reason then this is something you should expect from her.

 

She will always tell you to leave.

 

There are so many reasons why someone may want to push you away.

 

But I will not be covering that in this topic, if you want to know more about that check out the article below, it’s from my other website.

 

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The moment your girlfriend is mad at you, she is losing interest in you and she is tired of being with you she will want to push you away.

 

She will keep doing things that she knows will hurt you and make you distance yourself from her.

 

Your girlfriend knows that if she keeps telling you to leave then you will know that she doesn’t want you to be close to her.

 

And once you recognize that she doesn’t want you around then you will always want to keep yourself distanced from her.

 

When you do this you will be distancing yourself from her and this is what she wants.

 

She wants you to be distanced from her and that is why she is always telling you to leave.

 

Will you be happy to be around someone who always wants you to leave?

 

You will never be happy to be around them at all.

 

So, your girlfriend is using this technique to push you away and that is why she is doing it.

 

7. She wants some space from you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave.

 

She wants some space from you.

 

It can be that the relationship is too much for her to handle, she is tired of being around you and she just wants some space to breathe.

 

Your girlfriend is always telling you to leave hoping that this will push you away from her and she will finally have some space.

 

If your girlfriend seems overwhelmed by the relationship and there are so many things going wrong in her life then this could be the main reason why she keeps telling you to leave.

 

It’s hard for her to handle the relationship and manage her life the way she wants.

 

And that is why whenever you stress her or you piss her off she wants you to leave.

 

Is there anything you can do about this?

 

Yes! And that is what I’m going to share with you in the next section of this article.

 

 

What to do when your girlfriend keeps telling you to leave;

1. Find out why she always tells you to leave.

If your girlfriend always wants you to leave then you should first find out why she wants you to do it.

 

The moment you will have an idea about why she keeps telling you this then you will have a rough idea of where you should start solving this issue.

 

You will never find this information anywhere else but from your girlfriend.

 

She is always the one telling you to leave, she has a reason behind it.

 

You should approach her when she is in good shape and talk about your relationship.

 

As you talk to her about your relationship then ask her why she always tells you to leave.

 

Note down what she will tell you because the solution to this issue will start from there.

 

2. Fix any misunderstandings between the two of you.

The next thing you should do is to resolve the misunderstandings in your relationship.

 

The main thing that always makes your girlfriend keep telling you to leave is because of the friction between the two of you.

 

If you want to have a chance of making things right between the two of you then you will have to resolve the conflicts.

 

You will have to apologize to her and make it up to her if you know you did something wrong to her.

 

Let your girlfriend know that you are sorry for hurting her and do things that will bring good energy between the two of you.

 

You need positive vibes for things between the two of you to work perfectly.

 

The next thing you should do is to use the reasons she gave you to fix the issues between the two of you.

 

If your girlfriend told you that she always asks you to leave because of certain things then make sure you eliminate those issues.

 

Fix those issues and keep talking to her and get to know what more she expects from you.

 

The moment you will be able to fix those issues between the two of you then you will be able to eliminate this issue.

 

Your girlfriend will no longer have a reason to ask you to leave at all because your relationship with her will be on good terms.

 

3. Make her more interested in you.

If you found out that your girlfriend no longer feels the same for you then you should make an effort to change this if you want to solve this issue.

 

For instance, if one of the reasons she told you about why she always keeps telling you to leave is that she is losing interest in you then you should make sure you do everything to rekindle her interest in you.

 

Your girlfriend will always ask you to leave if she is not interested in you.

 

You have to change this for things to work the way you expect them to.

 

Work on your connection between the two of you and things will go back to normal.

 

If you find your girlfriend being distanced from you, she doesn’t put any effort in that relationship, she treats you badly and she doesn’t show any affection to you then know that she has lost interest in you.

 

She has no feelings for you and that is why she keeps telling you to leave.

 

The only way you will change this is to make her be more interested in you and rekindle the feelings she had for you.

 

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4. Avoid things that make her angry.

If you know that your girlfriend always keeps telling you to leave only when you do something that irritates her then you should stop doing the things that make her angry.

 

Avoid doing the things that make her angry and you will be able to stop her from asking you to leave.

 

The only way you can do this is by knowing the things that she likes and hates.

 

Avoid doing things that she hates and always focus on making her happy.

 

Treat her nicely and talk to her gently. Don’t be so rough on her and this might change her.

 

Especially, if you know that your girlfriend has anger issues then you should take care of this if you want her to stop pushing you away.

 

5. Give her some space.

Some problems will never be solved by our efforts in changing the situation.

 

It can be that you have tried so hard to change her but she keeps doing the same thing.

 

She keeps telling you to leave even after you have done everything right.

 

I know it sucks, but you will have to appreciate how things flow.

 

The only option you will have after you have tried to fix this issue between you and your girlfriend and it’s not working, is to give her some space.

 

Let her have time alone to deal with the issues that are driving her insane.

 

If you have tried to offer help to anything that stresses her and still things are just the same then you will have to give her space.

 

Give her space of about 2 to 3 three weeks and this might change her.

 

Let her know that you are giving her space to work on her issues and when she will be okay she will reach out to you.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have given her space to process things then after 2 or 3 weeks you should get in touch with her.

 

Observe how she feels about you. Ask her if she is okay.

 

If things between the two of you connect there will be a positive vibe. Once this happens then you will know that it worked.

 

But if you have tried everything but things are still the same then you should know that it has something to do with how she feels about you.

 

The only thing you will have to do is to end the relationship.

 

This shows that she doesn’t feel a thing for you and when you go back to her you will be forcing issues and you will never vibe.

 

If she still keeps telling you to leave then know that she doesn’t feel the same for you anymore.

 

And nothing else can solve this except a break-up.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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