If your girlfriend kissed someone else while she was drunk and you don’t know how to go about it then here is something you need to know.
In this article, I will share with you what to do if your girlfriend kissed someone while drunk.
I know you may be confused and you don’t know which action to take.
Should you break with your girlfriend if she kissed someone else while drunk?
Breaking up with your girlfriend after kissing someone else while drunk is not appropriate, though you should address this issue and observe your girlfriend how she feels about it.
Ending the relationship is not the way to go but if some other factors are to be considered you will have to do it.
In this article, I will be discussing those factors.
Without wasting time, let me get deep into this topic.
What to do if your girlfriend kissed someone else while drunk;
1. Ask her why she did it.
If your girlfriend kissed someone else while drunk the first thing you should do is to ask her why she did it.
This is a question that will get her to open up and if she did it intentionally you will know it.
Your girlfriend is on the wrong side, so she will have to save her skin if she wants the relationship to go on.
She knows you are mad at her for kissing another guy. That for sure is something that she sees clearly.
Asking her why she kissed someone else while she was drunk is kinda vague.
But if you want to get the best response from her then you will have to pretend like you didn’t know that she was drunk.
If you keep in your mind that she was drunk and try to reason with her then you will never get to the bottom of this issue.
Another guy maybe smashing your girlfriend in front of your eyes without you knowing it.
So, you have to pretend like you know nothing of this situation. Pretend like you don’t know a thing about this at all.
Confront her and ask her why she did it.
She will either start to apologize for doing it and telling you how sorry she is or she may decide to keep quiet.
If she chooses to start to apologize for kissing another guy while she was drunk then know that she feels guilty for doing it.
But this doesn’t mean you should stop there.
On the other hand, if she keeps silent after asking her why she kissed someone else then you should just distance yourself from her.
Until she comes clean to you about what she did it.
I will share more about what to do about this at the end of this article, for now, let me get to the second section of this issue.
2. Check the connection she has with the person she kissed.
If she kissed someone else while drunk there is something that must have influenced that to happen.
The obvious thing you know is that she was drunk.
But the other thing also has something to do with how she feels about this person.
Can a drunk person burn her hands while she knows it?
No! A drunk person recognizes the danger.
So, there is a possibility that your girlfriend has a connection with the guy she kissed while she was drunk.
I don’t mean that she is cheating on you with that guy but there might be sexual tension between them but your girlfriend usually controls herself.
Now that she was drunk she couldn’t manage to control her behaviour.
All the things that were hidden became magnified and that is why she kissed that person.
If the guy that your girlfriend kissed was her guy friend then know that there is sexual tension between these two.
It can be that your girlfriend has feelings for her guy friend and when she got drunk she just acted on them.
So, if your girlfriend has been too close to his guy friend then you should know that she has feelings for him.
Also, it can be that your girlfriend was once intimate with her guy friend and that is why she found herself kissing him while she was drunk.
If this is the case, then you will have to take action by demanding her to cut off that guy friend of hers.
Ask her to get rid of him if she wants you to forgive her for what she did.
If your girlfriend won’t get rid of him simply because she brings the issue that she can’t cut her friends off for you then you should know that something is going on.
She is on the wrong side, she is supposed to feel guilty for kissing someone else.
And this shows that she should be ready to do anything to fix the issue between the two of you.
This is enough for you to end the relationship with her. If she won’t get rid of that guy friend… there is something to do, I will share with you at the end of this article.
On the other hand, if the guy she kissed while she was drunk was just a random dude she doesn’t know then you should just conclude that she did it because she was drunk.
She was out of control and she wasn’t thinking straight.
3. Observe how she feels about it.
After you have determined the connection she had with the guy she kissed while drunk then this is what you should do next.
Your girlfriend did something outrageous this should make her feel guilty.
She should show remorse.
Take your time to see how she responds to you, observe how she feels about what she did and check out the thing she does around you.
Does she seem sorry for kissing someone else while drunk? Does she make an effort to fix the mess she made?
Is she giving you maximum attention and trying to make it up to you for what she did?
These are some of the questions you should answer within yourself if you want to know how your girlfriend feels about what she did.
If the answers to those questions are positive then know that she is so sorry for what she did.
But if she seems fine, she doesn’t bother fixing the issues between the two of you, she is busy watching her favourite tv shows and she doesn’t seem to do anything to show you that she is sorry then know that she doesn’t regret what she did.
It can be that she is happy that she kissed someone else. This clearly shows that she did it intentionally or she just did it to hurt you.
And if this is the case then you should do what I’m about to share with you.
4. Take action according to her response.
If the person your girlfriend kissed is her guy friend and you have asked her to cut him off and she doesn’t want to do it then know that your girlfriend has feelings for that guy.
It can be that something is going on between them.
And if this is the case then you should not argue with her about anything, just end the relationship.
Additionally, if your girlfriend doesn’t seem to be sorry about what she did, she doesn’t care to apologize for kissing that guy, she gets defensive about it and she doesn’t do anything to make it up to you then know that your girlfriend enjoys what she did.
She is happy that she kissed someone else while drunk.
It can be that she did it on purpose or she just did it to hurt you.
Either way, this shows that she has no boundaries. The only thing you can do is to cut her off.
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What she did was a huge disrespect and she should be sorry for what she did.
But if she doesn’t show any feelings of remorse then let her go.
She is taking you for granted.
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If your girlfriend kissed someone else while drunk then you should try to figure out how she feels about it.
Confront her and ask her why she did it. This will help you know what she feels about this incident.
If she chooses to apologize for kissing another guy while she was drunk then you should forgive her.
But if she doesn’t show regrets for what she did and she acts like everything between the two of you is fine then know that she did it on purpose or she did it to hurt you.
If this is the case, you will have no alternative but to let her go.
On the other hand, if she kissed her guy friend while she was drunk then you should ask her to cut him off.
if she won’t do it then know that something is going on and you should just cut her off.
This shows that she doesn’t respect you and she doesn’t admit that what she did was wrong.
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This is not a girl to stick with, end the relationship with her!
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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