If your girlfriend is not afraid to lose you then this could be due to several reasons. There could be a positive side view about this issue at the same time a negative one might be available.
Without wasting time, let me share with you some insights that will enable you to understand this.
If your girlfriend is not afraid to lose you there are several reasons why this may be great for your relationship.
The fact is that, if she is not afraid to lose you it means she is not insecure. The fear of her losing you doesn’t exist because she trusts you and she is optimistic that you will be going to stay with her no matter what happens.
This is the positive side of the coin.
When your girlfriend is not insecure then everything will seem cool in that relationship.
But also this can bring another negative feeling.
You might end up feeling that she is not concerned about you because nothing worries her.
I will talk about that issue later, but for now, let me elaborate on something important you want to know.
When your girlfriend is not afraid to lose you it shows that her trust in you is vast and she doesn’t think you will walk away to someone else.
She believes in the relationship that you created, she doesn’t see a fault in it, she is confident that she is not going to lose you because what she has observed from you is that you are not going to leave.
The way she feels about you is certain and she knows you feel the same for her and that is why the issue of insecurity doesn’t bother her.
If she was insecure then she could have been worried sick of losing you and this would have made her act very differently.
That was on the positive side of your girlfriend not being afraid to lose you.
Insecurities bring about so many negative things in a relationship compared to positive ones.
If your girlfriend is not afraid to lose you it can also portray that she doesn’t care about you.
Do you know why I’m saying this?
The moment a girl isn’t insecure in a relationship then this means she will never be jealous of you, she will never be possessive, she will never act on things that will affect your relationship and you will end up feeling she doesn’t care about you.
All these things I have talked about in the above paragraph play a very important part in a relationship.
Every man has his preferences. We have those that like their girlfriends to be a little bit jealous and possessive because this makes them feel that their girlfriends care about them.
Anyway, there is some truth in the above statement.
You might feel good that your girlfriend is not insecure but at the same time, you might be worried about this situation.
It can confuse you. You might fail to understand whether she loves you or she is no longer in love with you.
Now that you have understood the different sides of your girlfriend not being afraid to lose you, there is something I would like to summarize for you to know what you can do about this situation.
If at first your girlfriend was so afraid to lose you and this suddenly changed due to something that happened between the two of you then this shows that she is no longer interested in you, she doesn’t care about you and she is just in the relationship to exist.
For instance, let me say you got into a fight and after that day she is no longer insecure.
She is no longer jealous anymore or protective. Then this should tell you that your girlfriend does not feel the same for you.
The feelings she had for you changed and that is why she is not afraid to lose you and she doesn’t care if you flirt or cheat on her with someone else.
This is something dangerous. If she went from being afraid to lose you to not being afraid after an argument or a fight then you should know she stopped caring.
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And when your girlfriend stops to care about you or the relationship then nothing will make her worried about losing you.
She will never spend more time with you, she will distance herself from you, she will treat you bad, she ignore your calls and texts, she will not put any effort into the relationship and she will never be happy with you.
So, if these are some of the things you are noticing from your girlfriend then you should know that she no longer feels the same for you.
She doesn’t have feelings for you and that is why she doesn’t care if you walk away from her or the relationship ends.
This is the negative side of things I was talking about earlier.
The other thing you should know before you conclude that your girlfriend doesn’t care about you is this.
If since you started dating her she was not afraid of losing you and she still shows you the love that you want from her then you should know that she fully trusts you and she is confident that you will never walk away from her to someone else.
When your girlfriend trusts you fully she will never be insecure.
Several things cause insecurities in relationships and mistrust is one of these things.
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So, if your girlfriend’s act of not being afraid to lose you was there since you met her then you should not be worried about it if hasn’t changed the way she handles you.
She is not afraid to lose you because she is sure that you will never walk away from her.
If your girlfriend is not afraid to lose you and she doesn’t treat you the way you want, she doesn’t give you her attention and she doesn’t care about you then you should know that she no longer loves you.
And she doesn’t care if you end up falling in love with someone else or cheating on her with someone else.
This should make you worried.
And you should find out what went wrong between the two of you and fix your misunderstandings.
If there was anything you did to make her feel that way then you should talk about it with her.
But if since you met her she was never afraid to lose you, she treats you nicely, she gives you the love you deserve, she respects you and she puts effort into the relationship then you shouldn’t be worried about her.
This is clear that she loves you, she trusts you so much and she is confident in the way things are progressing in that relationship.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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