Why Your Girlfriend Is Not Answering Your Calls (+What To Do)

If your girlfriend is not answering your calls, you don’t know why and you want to make her answer your calls then this is the article you have been looking for.

 

In this article, I will share with you every detail you should know about why your girlfriend doesn’t want to answer your calls and what you can do about it.

 

I will start sharing with you the reasons why she is not picking up your calls and later on proceed with what you can do about this.

 

Without further ado, let me get into this.

 

What does it mean when your girlfriend doesn’t answer your calls?

When your girlfriend doesn’t answer your calls it means she doesn’t want to talk to you. It can be that she doesn’t want to talk to you because she is mad at you or she is just ignoring you. There is more to it, read the article to know all the reasons behind this.

 

The first thing you should know when your girlfriend doesn’t pick up your calls is that she doesn’t want to talk to you.

 

All the other meanings after this will just try to complete this meaning.

 

Luckily, in this article, I will share with you every possible meaning behind this.

 

Below are the reasons why she is not answering your calls.

 

Why your girlfriend is not answering your calls;

1. She doesn’t want to talk to you.

If your girlfriend is not answering your calls then this should be the first reason.

 

As I stated earlier if she doesn’t want to talk to you she will not bother picking up your calls.

 

And when a girl doesn’t want to talk to you due to several reasons, you will keep on calling but she will never pick up your calls.

 

There are several reasons why she doesn’t want to pick up your calls and I will be sharing with you them in this article.

 

So, if you did something that made her angry then you should know this is the first reason why she is not picking up your calls.

 

If you had an argument and she walked away from you and you are calling her but she doesn’t answer your it’s because she is still mad at you.

 

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I will share with you the solution to this issue at the end of this article, for now, let me elaborate for you on these reasons so that you have a deep understanding of why she doesn’t want to pick up your calls.

 

2. She is mad at you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend doesn’t want to answer your calls.

 

If you had an argument or fight and things got ugly and she walked away from you then this could be the reason why she is not answering your calls.

 

She is still upset about what happened between the two of you.

 

There is still that tension between the two of you and that is why she is not willing to pick up your calls.

 

Also, it can be that she is just mad at you for something you did some past few weeks ago.

 

It can be that she told you she was fine but the anger was still within her.

 

If this is the case then she will never answer your calls.

 

The moment there was anything that you did that made her upset then she will never bother to pick up your calls.

 

The other thing that could have resulted in this is her mood swings.

 

There are times when a girl’s mood will change especially when she is in her premenstrual syndrome (PMS).

 

During such days the mood of your girlfriend will never be the same. She will get mad at you over small things and she will try to distance herself from you.

 

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She might even add that she is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

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3. She is distancing herself from you.

If your girlfriend is not answering your calls then this could be another reason.

 

Your girlfriend is distancing herself from you and that is why she doesn’t want to pick up your calls.

 

Do you want to know why she is distancing herself from you and what to do in detail about this issue?

 

Don’t forget to read the article below from my other website.

 

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Your girlfriend may want to distance herself from you for a couple of reasons.

 

She will distance herself from you when she is losing interest in you, she is not happy around you, you don’t treat her nicely, she finds you boring and annoying and so many other things.

 

Don’t forget to read the article above to know all reasons.

 

The moment when she is distancing herself from you she will try so hard to keep a great distance between the two of you.

 

To do this she will have to cut the connection between the two of you.

 

She will never be able to do it until she cuts off the communication.

 

And this is the exact thing she is doing by not answering your calls.

 

4. She wants space from you.

This is another reason why she is not picking up your calls. She wants space from you.

 

When a girl wants space from you she may either say it or just cut off the communication.

 

She will let you figure out why she suddenly changed or stop talking to you.

 

If she needs time to herself then she will have to cut off the communication.

 

This case is related to the issue of her distancing herself from you.

 

There is an article I wrote about this, check out for more detailed information.

 

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The moment a girl wants space from you she will distance herself from you and she will stop talking to you.

 

She will either ignore your texts or calls.

 

She will always cancel the dates you plan.

 

All in all, she will do everything she can just to be away from you for a while.

 

So, if she suddenly stopped answering your calls then it can be that she needs some space from you to figure some things out before she talks to you again.

 

5. She is no longer interested in you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is no longer picking up your calls.

 

There is a great possibility that she lost her interest in you and that is why she is not answering your calls.

 

The moment your girlfriend loses her interest in you she will never feel connected to you.

 

She will stop putting effort into the relationship, she will not spend time with you, she will distance herself from you, she will push you away, she will stop caring, she will never prioritize you and she will never be that sweet charming girlfriend you used to know.

 

When something like this happens in a relationship then a lot of things will go into a mess.

 

She will never want to be close to you and this will make her want to cut off the communication with you.

 

If she no longer feels connected to you she will not want anything to do with you.

 

All she will do is kick you out of the way.

 

You should know that it’s the interest that drives ladies to do what adds value to their relationship.

 

The moment this interest is gone, they will never do anything positive to their relationships.

 

The only thing that can happen is the termination of the relationship unless you fix it in time.

 

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So, if your girlfriend is no longer interested in you she will never answer your calls. She will not even bother to check out what is wrong with you. This is because she longer feels you.

 

6. She is too busy with other issues.

This is something else you should know if your girlfriend is not answering your calls.

 

She is not picking up your calls because she is too busy with other issues.

 

The moment your girlfriend is enrolled in a busy schedule it will be very hard for her to answer your calls.

 

But this is not an excuse.

 

It’s not always about being busy, it’s always about priority. If she doesn’t prioritize you then you should know that she no longer finds you worthy for that.

 

If she is too busy to answer your calls during the day then she should at least make sure she gives you a call when she is done with her work and tell you what is going on.

 

But if she is not answering your calls because she is too busy and she doesn’t bother checking on you then it’s likely she no longer finds you important.

 

When your girlfriend is not picking up your calls because she is too busy during the day then she should at least call you when she is free.

 

But if she doesn’t bother calling you back after seeing your missed calls then know that she doesn’t care about you anymore.

 

7. She finds you annoying and disturbing.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is not answering your calls.

 

If your girlfriend finds you to be annoying then she will never pick up your calls.

 

She will ignore your calls because all she thinks you want to do is annoy her.

 

So, if your girlfriend feels you are annoying and disturbing most of the time she will never answer your calls.

 

She will only talk to you when she is around you but when she is away from you she will never answer your calls.

 

So, if you do anything that makes your girlfriend find you annoying and disturbing then you know what you should do about that.

 

Also, if you are that annoying boyfriend she will never answer your calls because she knows you have nothing important to talk about with her than disturbing her.

 

8. She is pushing you away.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is not answering your calls.

 

She is not answering your calls because she is trying to push you away.

 

If you want to know why she is pushing you away and what to do about then don’t forget to read the article below.

 

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For now, I will try to elaborate to you on why she is trying to push you away by not answering your calls.

 

If someone is intending to push you away they will do things that you hate.

 

For instance, they can start hurting you intentionally. When someone hurts you intentionally will you be around him or her?

 

Will get closer to a person who keeps on hurting you every time?

 

The same case applies to your girlfriend not answering your calls.

 

She knows that when she stops answering your calls when you call then you will eventually give up on calling her.

 

You will just conclude she no longer wants to talk to you when she is not answering your calls and you will eventually stop putting effort into calling her.

 

And this is what your girlfriend is hoping to achieve by not answering your calls.

 

9. She hates how you speak to her via the phone.

If your girlfriend is not picking up your calls then it’s because she hates how you speak to her via the phone.

 

The moment you don’t talk politely to your girlfriend whenever you call her then she will get used to that fact.

 

She will keep it back in her mind that whenever you call her you always talk rudely to her.

 

The same case applies to how you treat her.

 

If you treat your girlfriend badly, she will never be happy to be around you.

 

She will never be excited to see you.

 

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The same case applies to your calls.

 

If every time you call her you talk rudely to her and you abuse her verbally then there is no way she will be happy talking to you.

 

So, if this is the case, then she will never answer your calls whenever you call.

 

She will always ignore them until you stop calling her or you change the way you talk to her.

 

You should understand that ladies don’t like it when you yell at them or abuse them verbally.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is not answering your calls.

1. Don’t get mad at her and start talking rudely.

If you want to solve this issue then this is the first thing you should do.

 

You have to calm down first and figure out how you can deal with her.

 

There is no way you will solve this if you get mad at her. The anger will never allow you to handle things effectively.

 

Instead, it might even get things worst between the two of you.

 

So, calm down and plan how you are going to make her answer your calls instead of being angry at her without even knowing why she is not answering your calls.

 

The first thing you should do is to find out why she is not answering your calls.

 

2. Find out why she is not answering your calls.

If you want her to start picking up your calls then you should first find out why she is not answering your calls.

 

There is no way you will figure this out without knowing why she is not answering your calls.

 

How can you know why she doesn’t pick up your calls if she is not talking to you?

 

I know this is the question you might ask me.

 

Let me elaborate to you on how you can figure this out so that you take things back to normal with your girlfriend.

 

You can find out why she is not picking up your call by meeting her.

 

Meet her in person and sit down with her.

 

Have a deep conversation with her about where your relationship is going.

 

Make her open to you. And you will only do this if you talk to her nicely.

 

Don’t show her that you are mad at her for not answering your calls.

 

When you approach her in this way she will eventually open up to you and she will tell you why she is not answering your calls.

 

The other thing you can do is to send her a text if you can’t meet her.

 

Send her a text explaining to her why it’s important for her to answer your calls.

 

Unless if she has blocked you and that will be another case on its own.

 

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3. Resolve any misunderstandings between the two of you.

When you finally manage to find the reasons why she doesn’t want to pick up your calls then this is something else you should do.

 

You should be focused on fixing the misunderstandings between the two of you.

 

If she is not answering your calls because you had a fight and she is still angry at you then figure out how you can make her happy again.

 

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You should apologize to her and make things right between the two of you.

 

In short, use the reasons you have from her to solve this issue.

 

But if she won’t tell you anything then you should do general things that will make your relationship between you and her better.

 

Do things that will make her want you around and talk to you frequently.

 

You can achieve those things by reading the rest of the points in this section.

 

4. Rekindle the spark.

If your girlfriend is not answering your calls it’s clear that she is not happy.

 

It can be that she is losing interest in you, she no longer feels you or she just doesn’t want to talk to you.

 

All of these reasons lead to one point, and that point is happiness.

 

If she is not happy in that relationship with you she will never answer your calls because she will never be motivated to do so.

 

The only way to make her answer your calls whenever you call her is by making her happy.

 

You should probably think of rekindling the spark in your relationship.

 

Do things that will take your relationship back to its peak.

 

You should spend more time together, have fun together, be there for her when she needs you, always fix any issues in your relationship, prioritize her, make her feel wanted and special and so many other things that you know will light the spark in your relationship.

 

When you do these things you will eventually make her happy again in that relationship and she will always feel to be next to you.

 

She will never hesitate to answer your calls.

 

This will eventually enhance the communication between the two of you.

 

And she will be picking up your calls whenever you call even if it’s in the middle of the night.

 

5. Talk to her about it.

Your girlfriend is not answering your calls, have you talked to her about it?

 

If you haven’t talked to her about that issue then this could be the reason why this is a continuous habit of hers.

 

There is no way you will make her answer your calls if you can’t confront her about this issue.

 

Most of the problems in a relationship are resolved by effective communication.

 

All you have to do is to confront her and talk to her about this issue of her not answering your calls.

 

There is no way she will turn you down you if she still cares about you.

 

Let her know the danger of her not answering your calls.

 

If she is someone understanding she will know what to do. She will change for you.

 

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6. Give her some space to figure her issues out.

This is something else you can do if she is not answering your calls.

 

If your girlfriend is not answering your calls don’t suddenly give her space without trying to find out why she is not answering them.

 

Take your time to find out why she is not answering your calls.

 

There are some issues you will never fix. The only thing that will fix those issues is time and space between the two of you.

 

For instance, if she tells you that she is stressed or she is having issues that she is dealing with emotionally then the only thing you can do is to give her space.

 

Also, if she tells you to give her space then you should not waste your energy calling her 24/7.

 

Give her some space to figure out the issues she is dealing with and when everything is fine she will reach out to you.

 

That is if she is still in you, she cares about you and she wants to work things out.

 

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Lastly…

 

If you have tried everything you can to make her pick up your calls and she doesn’t bother then you should not give up on her.

 

Try to meet her in person and talk to her about it.

 

But if she also doesn’t show interest in even meeting you and she keeps you running in circles then you should let her go.

 

Walk away from her because she probably doesn’t love you anymore.

 

Following her up will only hurt you severely.

 

You deserve better than that.

 

There is no need to force yourself on her and she doesn’t want you.

 

It can be that she is busy with someone else she finds important and you no longer matter.

 

This happens buddy, but it doesn’t mean you should degrade yourself because she is ignoring you and treating you like a piece of trash.

 

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Leave her alone and find yourself someone who will care about you, love you for who you are and appreciate the love you offer.

 

Trust me, there are still great ladies out there looking for genuine guys.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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