Why Your Girlfriend Is Not Excited To See You

If your girlfriend is not excited to see you there are several reasons why that is the case.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why your girlfriend is not excited to see you and what you can do about it.

 

As usually, couples should be happy when they see each other. Since when you see someone you love and care about you will be excited and looking forward to spending more time with them.

 

But if your girlfriend is not excited to see you then the first thing you should know is that she is not happy to see you.

 

There could several reasons why she is not happy to see you but hopeful I will cover that in my next article.

 

For now, let me share with you these reasons why your girlfriend is not excited to see you and what you can do about it.

 

Without further ado, let me get into it.

 

This is why your girlfriend is not excited to see you;

1. Your girlfriend is not excited to see you because she doesn’t want you around.

If your girlfriend is not excited to see you then it’s mainly because she doesn’t want you around.

 

This is the first thing you should keep in your mind.

 

The truth is that if she wanted you around then she would have been so excited to see you.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t want you around for any reason she will never be happy to see you.

 

She will frown and she will just behave like she isn’t in the mood to talk to you.

 

Most of the common things that will make your girlfriend not excited to see you is when she is losing interest in you, she no longer feels you, she hates how you handle her and so many other things that I will be talking about in this article.

 

2. She is mad at you.

If your girlfriend is not excited to see you then one of the reasons may be this, she is mad at you.

 

When a girl is mad at you she will never want to have you around.

 

She will even go to an extent of blocking you or ignoring your calls and texts.

 

So, if you had a fight and you walked away from her without resolving the conflict between the two of you then don’t expect her to be excited to see you if you show up at her door.

 

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She will never be happy to see you because there is that negative tension that exists between the two of you.

 

This tension that exists between the two of you is what makes her not excited to see you.

 

There is still friction between the two of you.

 

There is no way your girlfriend will be happy to see you if you did something to annoy her.

 

Think of what you did that makes her unhappy to see you.

 

When you find what you did that she seemed pretty upset about then take your time in fixing the issues between the two of you.

 

Here is an article that can help you with that.

 

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3. She had other plans that she never wanted to include you.

If your girlfriend is not excited to see you yet you had no fight or you never did anything to upset her then know that you have ruined her plans.

 

Let me say, if your girlfriend was planning to spend time with her friends and you showed up, do you think she will feel good about it?

 

If she cares about you she will have to cancel her plans with her friends so that she can be with you.

 

Also, on the other hand, you will never allow her to leave you alone yet you went to see her.

 

This will make her cancel her plans for you. In which she may not say that she is upset about but the way she will be acting before you will show you that she is not excited at all.

 

So, if you showed up on your girlfriend’s door unannounced and she had other plans in her mind other than hanging out with you then she will never be happy to see you.

 

4. She doesn’t want to spend time with you.

Your girlfriend is not excited to see you because she doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

This is the truth of the matter though it may seem harsh.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you for several reasons then she will never be excited to see you.

 

Anyway, if you want to know why she doesn’t want to spend time with you then don’t forget to check the article below.

 

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When your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you due to several reasons she will try harder to avoid you.

 

She will never go out with you, she will never come to your place and she will give you so many excuses not to be around you.

 

You will be surprised, she will even start cancelling dates. All this is for her to avoid you.

 

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And if she is trying to avoid you for her not to spend time with you then don’t expect her to happy when you show up at her door.

 

She will not be excited to see you because her main mission was not to spend time with you.

 

5. She is trying to push you away.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is not excited to see you.

 

She is trying to push you away that is why she is not happy at all when you showed up.

 

Do you want to know why someone might want to push you away and what to do about it?

 

Don’t forget to check the article below if you feel your girlfriend is trying to push you away.

 

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When your girlfriend is trying to push you away she will do things that will push you further away from her.

 

In this case, she is using her emotional state to push you away without you knowing it.

 

Let me ask you a question, will you be happy to be around someone who is not excited to see you?

 

Will you even bother spending time with someone who is not happy to see you?

 

The answer is NO! You will never do that because you will never feel comfortable and welcomed around that person.

 

And when you feel this way you will end up distancing yourself from her and that is exactly what she wants you to do.

 

She knows when she shows you that she is not excited to see you then you will never think of meeting her again.

 

6. She hates how you treat her when you are around.

If your girlfriend hates how you treat her then she will never be excited to see you.

 

For someone to be excited when they see you then you have to be a good person to them.

 

No one will enjoy being around someone toxic. Someone who treats him or her very bad.

 

So, if the way you treat your girlfriend is not the way she prefers then this could be the reason why she is not excited to see you.

 

Think of the things that your girlfriend hates.

 

And ask yourself, I’m I doing these things to her?

 

If the answer is yes then that is the main reason why she is not excited to see you.

 

7. She is not excited to see you because you remind her of the pain she went through.

This is another reason why your girlfriend is not excited to see you.

 

If you hurt your girlfriend and you walked away from her without resolving the issue thinking that she will forget then this may be the reason why she is not excited to see you.

 

Seeing you reminds her of the pain she went through when you hurt her and left.

 

The pain still exists within her and that is why she is not happy to see you. You remind her of the bad memories she was never able to erase from her head.

 

So, if you know you did something to hurt her and you never fixed anything then this could be the reason why your girlfriend is not excited to see you.

 

The only thing that she thinks of when she sees your face is the misery you put her through.

 

 

What to do when your girlfriend is not excited to see you.

If your girlfriend is not excited to see you the first thing you should do is to find out why. Fix any conflicts if there were any. The second thing you should do is to change the way you treat her, spike her interest in you, before you see her get in touch with her and apologize for any mistakes you did.

 

When you do this she might change the way she looks at you.

 

If there are a lot of unresolved issues between the two of you then you should make sure you work them out.

 

You should never let conflicts sit in your relationship. If you know she hates how you treat her then it’s time to change if you want her to be happy when she sees you.

 

As I stated earlier if your girlfriend is not ready to see you is it’s mainly because she is doesn’t want you around.

 

And if your girlfriend doesn’t want you around it’s obvious that her interest in you is fading.

 

So, get her interest back.

 

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Lastly…

 

If you do the things I have shared with you in this article then you are likely to change how she feels about you when she sees you.

 

The main takeaway here is to make her happy. That is what will always make her excited to see you.

 

But if you can’t make her happy there is no way she will be happy to see you.

 

This means you have to change how you handle her. Treat her nicely like she has never been treated before. Focus on making your relationship better with her and always fix your issues.

 

When you manage to do this then she will always be excited to see you.

 

But if you have tried everything to change how she reacts or feels when she sees you and nothing is working, then it’s probably because she is no longer in love with you.

 

She doesn’t feel you and that is why nothing about you excites her when she sees you.

 

If this is the case try to make her love you more, but if nothing works then you will have to let her go.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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