If your girlfriend is not happy with you then there are several reasons why she feels that way. In this article, I will share with you a couple of reasons why she is not happy with you and what you can do about this situation.
Without wasting time on the into let me get into this topic.
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This is why your girlfriend is not happy with you;
1. Your girlfriend is not happy because she doesn’t get what she wants from you.
If your girlfriend is not happy with you then this can be the main reason.
Your girlfriend is not happy with you because she is not getting what she wants from you.
You have to understand that people enter relationships with different expectations and needs.
In this section, let me talk about the needs and wants and later on I will touch on the part of expectations.
If your girlfriend is not getting what she wants then there is no way she will be happy with you.
For instance, she wants you to give her a luxurious life, she wants you to be with her 24/7, she wants you to make love to her in a way that you can’t manage then this will deprive her of her happiness.
The things that a woman wants in a relationship or a marriage is what will make her happy.
And when she doesn’t get any of the things she wants from you simply because you can’t give them to her then she will never be happy with you.
2. She is losing interest in you.
This is another reason why your girlfriend is not happy with you.
She is losing interest in you.
If you have been reading my blog for a while I know you have noticed this quite a lot.
The interest that your girlfriend has in you is so much important when it comes to how she handles you and how she feels about you in that relationship.
The interest is the first thing that will drive her to feel you, to put the effort into the relationship and do so many things that add value to your relationship.
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The moment your girlfriend loses interest in you then she will feel disconnected from you.
She will never spend more time with you, she will ignore you, she will distance herself from you, she will treat you bad and so many other negative things.
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The relationship will be a mess and she will never be happy to be with you.
So, interest plays a very big part in a relationship and when it’s gone everything amazing in that relationship will vanish.
If your girlfriend is losing interest in you then this could be the main reason why she is not happy with you.
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3. She never found what she expected from you.
As I promised you earlier at the beginning of this article I will be talking about expectations.
What are expectations?
Expectations are the things that your girlfriend had a strong belief that she will get from you in that relationship.
If she entered the relationship expecting something great and she doesn’t see her expectations met then she will start feeling bad about it.
For instance, your girlfriend had unrealistic expectations about your relationship that it was going to be perfect.
She assumed that there will be no challenges in your relationship and you will be living a life of happiness every day.
As we all know this kind of expectation cannot be met because a relationship comes with many challenges.
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There is no way you will be able to be in a relationship without going through the ups and downs.
It can be that your girlfriend doesn’t know about this. She expected paradise in your relationship but what she sees is something scary and that is why she is not happy with you.
To be happy in front of challenges when you are in a relationship is to perceive the challenges with a positive perspective.
So, if your girlfriend expected something else from you and she ends up getting the opposite then there is no way she will be happy with you.
If she was expecting much from you but she received a little then this is exactly why she is not happy with you.
4. You are too tight on her.
A relationship doesn’t have to be like a prison.
Couples are not supposed to be controlling each other because it will turn the relationship to be toxic.
If you are too tight on your girlfriend like you are controlling, you don’t give her the freedom she wants and you put so many measures on her then she will never be happy with you.
Think of the way you handle her, do you control her and ask her to do what you like and not what she likes?
If you are doing this then this can be the reason why she is not happy with you.
She is with you simply because she has no alternative but she hates that you are too controlling.
Also, if you don’t give her the freedom to hang out with her friends or be in touch with then this could be another reason why she is not happy with you.
You should not impose too many rules in your relationship if you want your girlfriend to be happy with you.
The moment you implement so many rules to an extent that she can’t do what she likes then she will never be happy with you.
5. You don’t treat her the way she wants.
If you don’t treat your girlfriend the way she wants then there is no way she will be happy with you.
You should understand that your girlfriend has her preferences too.
She wants you to handle her in a certain way that she feels comfortable.
For instance, if she suggested you treat her in a certain way and you are doing the opposite of what she asked of you then this could be the main reason why she is not happy with you.
Also, if you are not treating your girlfriend right there is no way she will be happy with you.
Don’t expect her to be joyous around you if you don’t treat her nicely. She will hate you when you don’t treat her right.
And this will prevent her from being happy with you.
6. You don’t give her the attention she wants.
The attention you give to your girlfriend plays a very big part in your relationship.
If you don’t give your girlfriend the attention she wants then she will never be happy with you.
Attention comprises so many things in a relationship.
The time you spend with her, the words you say and the things you do for her all adds to attention.
If you don’t prioritize your girlfriend, you don’t have time for her and you don’t bother checking out on her simply because you are busy she will not be happy with you.
The words you say and how you look at your girlfriend matter.
The small moments of observing her as she wears makeup, the tight hugs you give her, the “Faire la bise” (kiss on the cheek) you give her and the way you look at her are some of the things that makes her happy.
If you don’t do any of this, no matter how much money you give her she will never be happy with you.
This is because you don’t give her the attention she wants.
The moment you don’t notice any tiny changes she makes for you since you are too busy to see it then you will heartbreak her.
She will never be happy with you.
7. She is overwhelmed by the relationship.
Sometimes a relationship can be too much to handle for anyone.
A Relationship requires so much for it to stand still.
There are so many things to be considered for a relationship to thrive.
If you have a lot of issues in your life that are driving you insane and at the same time a relationship requires you to take care of it then you will end up being overwhelmed.
And when you are overwhelmed instead of the relationship making you happy it will end up draining you emotionally.
You will find it hard letting go of your relationship because it’s important to you but at the same time your life requires so much from you.
This is a stage every one of us goes through in our relationships.
So, it can be the same case with your girlfriend. It can be that she has so much to handle on her plate and at the same time she has to make sure that you are happy.
And this is draining her emotionally.
If this is how your girlfriend is feeling then she will never be happy with you.
This might be another reason why your girlfriend is not happy with you.
What to do if your girlfriend is not happy with you.
If your girlfriend is not happy with you then you should find out why that is so. Use the reasons you get from her to fix this situation. If it’s anything to do with you make sure you change for her and if it’s one of the external factors then make sure you support her.
For instance, she tells you that she is not happy with you because you don’t treat her nicely then you will have to change for you to make her happy.
The moment you find that you are the cause of her not being happy with you then make an effort in changing that.
But if it’s external factors then be there for her, support her and encourage her to fight her way through.
In this way, you will be able to make her happy.
If she is not happy with you because she is losing interest then make sure you bring it back.
When you find out that she has unrealistic expectations then take your time talking to her about them.
Let her know that every relationship has its weaknesses and she should cope with you.
If she wants something you can’t give then there is no way you will make her happy.
The only alternative you will have is to let her go.
The more you stay with her pushing yourself to the limit to make her happy you will end up hurting yourself and nothing will change.
So, if you realize that she wants something that you can’t comprehend to offer then let her walk away to find someone who will make her happy.
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